Grief and Bereavement

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Grief and Bereavement

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  • User: "mmc82"
    My sister died from Hodgkin's 18 months ago and I feel stuck in grief. My sister was my best friend in the world, but we were a very close family over all, and I see my family members navigating their…
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    Started by mmc82
    Most recent by Noellesmom
  • User: "greta"
    I apologize to everyone for not having communicated sooner. You have been more than patient under the circumstances. At this point, all of the content that was missing following the upgrade has been r…
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    Started by greta
    Most recent by grandmafay
  • User: "AngKad42"
    Tomorrow it will be 3 weeks since my best friend, soul mate and husband died from metastatic melanoma. It was Thanksgiving day at 12:15 pm that he left us. My children and I were with him, standing ar…
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    Started by AngKad42
    Most recent by donnare
  • User: "virtual_voyager"
    No matter how long I live, the rest of my life I will miss her more with each passing day. It's been over a year since she passed and I have become numb to the heartbreaking pain. It doesn't go away.…
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    Started by virtual_voyager
    Most recent by donnare
  • User: "lisonay"
    My father passed away from lung cancer early Sunday morning, July, 15. He fought the strongest battle he could for 10 months before he passed away from tumor complications. The cancer had metastasized…
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    Started by lisonay
    Most recent by Meeno
  • User: "donnare"
    December 28 was one month since my husband, Brian, died. For me, it feels like an eternity. I miss him so much I almost can't function. I was very composed for his funeral, but I seem to be getting wo…
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    Started by donnare
    Most recent by donnare
  • User: "scorpio79"
    Hi I am new to this so not sure if I am posting in the right place...I have been visiting this site every now and then and I see that everyone wants to help each other..I am hoping to find some help t…
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    Started by scorpio79
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  • User: "connsteele"
    Well, I did it last night. After much wavering, I called to RSVP for a Christmas candlelight memorial service this Sunday sponsored by Compassionate Friends, a national organization for parents who ha…
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    Started by connsteele
    Most recent by connsteele
  • User: "alak"
    Ohhh normal where are you ??? anyone have a map i dont think its possible to find normal.oh we well normal is overrated and nonexistent anyways.It kind of makes me wonder why people say oh things will…
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    Started by alak
    Most recent by Noellesmom
  • User: "cindysuetoyou"
    Today is four weeks since my son David died. The pain feels intense, overwhelming, sharp, like it was yesterday, but it seems like months....a year...since I lost David. So I'm trying. Trying to piece…
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    Started by cindysuetoyou
    Most recent by Tubbs
  • User: "JWren"
    My dad sang in the church choir for 30 years. He died on Dec. 19, several years ago. My grand mom died on Dec. 17. Then my 12 year old nephew died on dec 19' three years ago. My Best friend, my husban…
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    Started by JWren
    Most recent by cindysuetoyou
  • User: "Suzi_cue1961"
    My husband Richard lost his battle with Pancreatic Neuroendocrine Carcinoid Caner on October 3rd. We were married for over 26 1/2 years. Have 6 children and 10 grandchildren. I still have two at home …
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    Started by Suzi_cue1961
    Most recent by Kathylr
  • User: "JWren"
    My dad sang in the church choir for 30 years. He died on Dec. 19, several years ago. My grand mom died on Dec. 17. Then my 12 year old nephew died on dec 19' three years ago. My Best friend, my husban…
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    Started by JWren
    Most recent by grandmafay
  • User: "cindysuetoyou"
    Well, I made it through Thanksgiving. It was very hard and very sad but not as bad as I expected. I went to the cemetery the day before Thanksgiving and cried so long and so hard that I was totally ex…
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    Started by cindysuetoyou
    Most recent by BenLenBo
  • User: "slg"
    I just had to endure one of the worst holidays without my husband of 40 years. I just wanted to stay home but agreed to go to a friends house as that is what my kids wanted to do. I didn't even get to…
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    Started by slg
    Most recent by grandmafay
  • User: "ronica_ann"
    Well I got past my first Thanksgiving without my mother. She passed away this past June from bladder cancer at the age of 55 leaving me (28) and my younger brother and sister (25). My sister has Autis…
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    Started by ronica_ann
    Most recent by jaycc
  • User: "mmpallwitz"
    I am a mother of two boys age 7 and 9 and I just lost my husband on October 2nd 2012 to Refractory Diffuse Large B-Cell Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma. He fought hard, as it was already stage 4 when diagnosed …
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    Started by mmpallwitz
    Most recent by grandmafay
  • User: "Sarahbear89"
    I'm 22 years old and on May 5th of 2011 I lost the most amazing person and woman I have ever known. My mommy. She was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2001, my dad left which left my sister and I to ta…
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    Started by Sarahbear89
    Most recent by lauralee31
  • User: "connsteele"
    I'm already dreading the upcoming holidays. Was in the local Kmart and there are Christmas stuff out already, This will be our first Christmas without our son...we are now at the six month mark. We we…
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    Started by connsteele
    Most recent by cindysuetoyou
  • User: "Missaydee"
    Yesterday marked the 2 month anniversary of my mom's passing and as the time goes on, the void starts to feel bigger. My mom was diagnosed with Stage IV breast cancer in late 2005 which later metastas…
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    Started by Missaydee
    Most recent by MamasBoy
  • User: "alak"
    Tommarow around 12:23pm my mother has been dead for 3 weeks.Early summer of 2012. My ma was diagnosed with stage 3 liver cancer.first they tried a experimental treatment were the injected radiation be…
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    Started by alak
    Most recent by Kathylr
  • User: "grandmafay"
    It is hard to believe that I lost my husband three years ago today. Sometimes it feels like just yesterday. Other times it seems like forever. I cherish the good memories we made together and the fami…
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    Started by grandmafay
    Most recent by grandmafay
  • User: "cindysuetoyou"
    We had a private gravesite service for David on Thursday--family only. We have a large family so it wasn't a real small gathering. We buried David in a small pioneer cemetery out in the country, up on…
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    6 comments
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    Started by cindysuetoyou
    Most recent by I_Promise
  • User: "connsteele"
    It's been six since our son died.. I think it took several months for reality to sink in. In fact, I'm starting to think our grief has two parts. I am still grieving the last year of our son's life. I…
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    Started by connsteele
  • User: "maddog51"
    My passed away about 2 months ago after a 3 year battle with ovarian cancer. My grandfather (her father) passed away exactly one month after she did. I have been trying to keep myself occupied but eve…
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    Started by maddog51
    Most recent by MamasBoy
  • User: "chantalw297"
    Hi there, My name is Chantal, I am 20 years old and I've lost my mama back in April this years (6months ago). My mum was diagnosed with cancer on her spine in november 2011. Everything started to move…
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    Started by chantalw297
    Most recent by grandmafay
  • User: "MamasBoy"
    October 5th will never be looked upon the same by me and others in my family. The worst part is that we were given this false hope for months now, and the reason for it is we believed my mom was suffe…
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    Started by MamasBoy
    Most recent by MamasBoy
  • User: "kcred"
    Curiously I am wondering how many woman waited for their diagnosis, due to doctor failing to order additional diagnostic tests needed, to rule out breast cancer or any cancer. How many mammograms did …
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    Started by kcred
  • User: "virtual_voyager"
    is relentless. The sounds of a home are long gone. Friends and family have gone back to their lives. The love that lived here is fading and now it's just a house. The memories are here but they have b…
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    Started by virtual_voyager
    Most recent by Beckymarie
  • User: "grandmafay"
    I often recommend these boards to others because they have helped me through the hardest time in my life so far. I will always be thankful that I found them even though I wish I had found them sooner.…
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    Started by grandmafay
    Most recent by here4lfe