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new to this
Hello guy's, I'm new to this type of cancer, I'm a two time survivor of cancer, I had head and neck cancer three years ago and I just made it into remission from non Hodgkin's Lymphoma, I've been a regular on this site for quite some time, and I know all the support and knowledge this site can bring, my question is..., my…
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Calling all Northern California girls....
I think it's time for a Northern CA get together. If you're interested, let me know where you are. I'll try and find a place in the middle. And I'm thinking end of March or April on a Saturday, so also let me know if you have preferred dates. I'll try and find something that works for everyone. Hugs, Linda
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1st chemo...the worst bit was walking thru the door!
I made it and it wasnt even the slightest bit as awful as I had made it out to be in my head! No nauesa,just a bit tired...but still managed to to Wendys for lunch Yum! lol thank you all SO SO much for all your advice, kind words, thoughts and prayers...it really did feel like you were all there for me...again thank you so…
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Preparing for Chemo
I will start my chemo treatment on March 8th. Taxotere and Cytoxan every 21 days for 6 times. I have read some of the messages about treatments and side effects to expect and I thank you ahead of time in preparing me for this chemo adventure. I do have some questions.......work or not to work during chemo......I own a…
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Today is CR1954's Birthday!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR CR HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!! AND MANY MORE...!!! May all the candles on your cake become a wish that comes true! Wishing you all the best today & throughout the year! ♥ Cat
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Today is Sea60's Birthday!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR SYLVIA HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!! AND MANY MORE...!!! Wishing you a day filled with love, laughter, good food & great presents and a year filled with extra special blessings! ♥ Cat
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We are so much confused!
So my mom saw the second oncologist today. He went through all the tests that she has already done and examined her. He told her that it is not clear for him yet that she has a breast cancer not lung or bone cancer.The mammogram showed only a small nodule in her breast. The biopsy report is not very clear for him and there…
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Immune system back to normal?
Does anyone have any idea how long it takes for your immune system to return to "normal" after chemo? My oncologist told me that "normal" is considered 4.1-11.0. Before I started chemo I was in the 6 range and then 2 months ago (3 months from the end of my chemo) I was at 2.6. He told me that I would probably never go back…
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I saw oncology Dr.and had dry run for radiation
I had two appointments today one with the oncology Dr. and had my dry run for radiation,oncology Dr. said the words i had been longing for he gave me 85 to 90 percent survival rate he said he gave me such aggressive chemo so I'd live a long life and gave me a hug and said he'd see me in three months and then I'd have a…
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googd news
I had my lumpectomy surgery last Wednesday. My oncology surgeon called last night to tell me the margins were clear and the lymph nodes were negative for cancer. Sigh of relief!! No additional surgery needed. Next step is finding an oncologist.
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Ist rads treatment
I had my first radiation treatment today and thanks everyone for all the advice,it did take longer to take my clothes off than it was to do it,i took someones advice an put a lot of the greasy stuff own when i got through now i have another question i didn't put my bra back on when i got dressed because of all the grease…
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Chen sees her oncologist Thursday
Sending lots of hugs and good wishes and hoping and praying for good news. I will be there with that venti caramel skinny latte with extra whip ;-)
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getting more support from sig. others & friends
The man in my life is an engineer and thus certainly a 'fix it' person. He was coming by (we broke up after 10 years last Sept!!) after my diagnosis but it was uncomfortable, he'd rush in and out and I'd be left feeling worse than if he hadn't come. So I emailed him to just not come by because it seemed like he didn't…
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Anyone out there from MA?
Hi I was wondering if anyone out there is from Massachusetts? I thought it would be nice to talk to someone close to home. Not that i do not appreciate all you gals from other states! Dianne
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IBC/Breast Cancer Friends
Hello - I'm trying to find friends with IBC to share and gain information regarding treatment, etc.... I'm 57, live in TX was dx here in Tyler in May,2010, recently went to M D Anderson in Houston to be evaluated, second opinion, two heads are better than one. Anybody out there needing an IBC friend here I am.
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support group for men of wives with BC
I would love to be a fly on a wall if such a support group! Can you imagine the converstaions?
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anyone have a family member that "doesn't want to hear about it"????
My 26 yr. old daughter says that is the way she copes. She wants no part in going with me for testing...Friday I had an MRI, and she was off work also, so she could have gone with me. I invited her and said we could go to lunch and shopping afterward. Then, she basically never wants me to discuss anything. My mastectomy…
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How do you handle the waiting without fear?
I guess I need some advice from you all... After dx in 7/10 of Stage 1C IDC, Triple negative, med grade I had 2 lumpectomies (to get clear margins). I've made it through 6 rounds of chemo but my tumor markers were going up instead of down (31-8/25/10, 36-1/7/11 & 41-1/25/11). My doctor didn't like the upward trend, so I…
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Im loosing my mind...
This is not breast cancer related but i just need some support or any advise or somebody to say something to calm me down cuz im freaking out. I have 2 daughters one is 20 yrs and lives 2 hrs away and the other is 24yrs and lives 6 hrs away. I just found out they are both in relationships with these punks who are closet…
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Got tread?
I know weird title but let me explain. Ever since my diagnosis and this whole cancer hooplah, I have become super sensitive, I was sensitive to begin with, and also my tolerance for stress is below what it used. I get overwhelmed quiet easy. I can cry at the drop of a needle. And therefore keep anything sad or depressing…
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1st chemo tomorrow...so scared!
I thought I was doing ok...now its just one more sleep till chemo and Im so scared! Sweaty palms, upset tummy, thumping heart...I dont want to do this AT ALL!! Please tell me it gets better?
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How to choose between two oncologists?
My mom saw an oncologist last Friday and they talked about her treatment. The oncologist told that she has breast cancer with lung and spine mets. He told her that he prefers that she starts with chemotherapy not radiation since the cancer has already spread to the lungs and the spine. He was still waiting for more tissue…
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Had markers and ct scan today
I had a CT Scan today and my markers done today and next Wednesday i have what they call a dry run and then I start rads on next Thursday. need to know more from ladies that have been there and done that. thanks MOLLYZ
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After Mastectomy and Reconstruction - Arms
I am having alot of trouble with my left arm. I have been through with mastectomy and reconstruction since October. My cancer was on the right side and lymph nodes taken out on that side but the left side shoulder and arm are causing me some problems. I do not notice any swelling but find that I cannot do some things with…
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happy and confused
Well here goes---had lumpectomy and radiation. Finished radiation, sent to medical oncologist to discuss chemo since HER2+. Told don't need chemo(YAY)because of such small tumor. I will be seen by oncologist every 3 mos. to monitor. I think this is great, but now I feel as if I need to do more. Dr. says herceptin won't be…
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Good to Go for Another Six Months
Well my fellow travelers (and Kindred Spirits), I can sum up my oncology visit today in one word: NED. Although I would have loved that Scrabble game with all of you, I must say that your presence alone was so calming that my blood pressure was 110/70! I love all of you. Thank you so much. xoxoxo Lynn
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Hello and update
I have been reading all the posts, there are so many new ladies here! I had my second round of Ixempra, and was sick again, i had a lot of nausea and the big D, and some vomiting. I am down to 112 lbs!! i have not weighed that much since i was about 12. I have been weak and tired from all this, but today i am up and going…
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Stupid stuff people say about us having Breast cancer.
I think we need some humor here.Whats the most stupid thing someone has said to you when they found out you had Breast Cancer?I know we done this before,but I am thinking maybe it would do us good to do it again.thanks everyone.
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Life
I found out on Valentines day that one of my friends passed away. She had battled breast cancer for so long and it kept coming back in other places. I am so sad, but I am also greatful to her. She was the one that talked me into getting my first mamogram. It was then that I found out that I had early breast cancer. The…
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did anyone watch Dateline last night?
I was surprised to hear that many chemo treatments haven't changed since the 70's. They interviewed someone who used hair samples at his clinic to come up with alternative treatments---I think they said 200 pills a day. The woman from a NYC hospital negated all of what the other doctor was doing...except for his compassion…