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The right words to saycindycflynn said:Dear Heidi
I'm so sorry to hear your news, and of course I am sending hugs, healing thoughts and prayers your way.
As Sally said, try not to get too discouraged by predictions of time. Nothing is decided, and many women have beaten the odds, and we all hope and pray that you will be in that number. You certainly deserve to be, brave sister.
Love, Stregth, and Hugs,
Cindy
The right words to say escape me too Heidi. Just know that you will be in my prayers.
Hugs and love,
Kylez0 -
What a shoke for you.Moopy23 said:Still Hoping
Heidi, you have been in my thoughts all day today. I am so sorry. Your oncologist and Meena's, and any other IBC experts can surely find a treatment plan that will work for you and do some blasting on the d____d cancer. MD Anderson also has an IBC center, and I'm sure your onc. is talking to specialists there. So, please keep hoping as I am for you to have better days. I am also praying that you have received medicine that is controlling your pain better.
Heidi,
I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through. Hang onto hope and expect a miracle. No one can predict what the future holds for any of us. We are not a statistic. Hugs.
Roseann0 -
Praying for a miracle forBella Luna said:Heidi I am so sorry to hear
Heidi I am so sorry to hear the news. This is such a wicked disease. I will pray for a miracle and for the doctors do something for the pain. Bear Hugs and cheek peck to you dear Sister.
BL
Praying for a miracle for you too Heidi!
Hugs, Lex0 -
Miss Heidi -- Cyber hugs to you .. prayersroseann4 said:What a shoke for you.
Heidi,
I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through. Hang onto hope and expect a miracle. No one can predict what the future holds for any of us. We are not a statistic. Hugs.
Roseann
coming your way, and may our Lord above provide a miracle, comfort and new round of treatment.
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart -- I am in awe of you and your courage.
Vicki Sam0 -
Just wanting to let you knowGabe N Abby Mom said:Jeeez Heidi...I wish I knew
Jeeez Heidi...I wish I knew what to say, and how to help. I do hope you won't have to travel to see Dr. C., and that he'll have some ideas that will help.
Know that I think about you and pray for you every day.
Huge hugs,
Linda
Just wanting to let you know Heidi that we went to church last night and I lit a candle for you.
Still praying for you,
Sue
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HeidiVickiSam said:Miss Heidi -- Cyber hugs to you .. prayers
coming your way, and may our Lord above provide a miracle, comfort and new round of treatment.
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart -- I am in awe of you and your courage.
Vicki Sam
I am so sorry to hear this news.
Sending huge hugs.
Praying dr's find the right treatment for you hon.0 -
I know from what Meena hassal314 said:So, So Sorry...
it truly sucks! My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Have you looked into "Therasphere" radiation therapy for your liver mets? It's somewhat new and not available everywhere, but they are finding it to be very promising for liver cancer and liver mets. If you google "Therasphere Therapy" you should find a link to their webesite.
They place little glass beads directly into the liver through an artery in the leg. The radiation from the beads kills the liver mets without killing other healthy surrounding tissue. It's done on an outpatient bases and the side effects are minimal.
I know that they will only do it if the cancer hasn't spread too far. But you could still be a canadate even with a few mets elsewhere. It may be worth looking into as it could give you more time. As for the doctor's prognosis, remember they are only doctor's and are giving you their best guess! I have several friends that had liver mets and mets to other areas that were told they only had months, but lived for quite a bit longer!
I know it's not what anyone want to hear, but you have to keep fighting and make the most of everyday. Oh...and the doctor's should be able to control your pain! You may want to look into seeing a pain specialist. There is no reason cancer patiences have to be in pain these days.
Blessings,
Sally
I know from what Meena has said that her doctor is great, so, I am happy to know that your doctor is conferring with him.
I really don't know what to say Heidi, except how very, very sorry I am. I pray that some treatment will help you.
Hugs, Debby0 -
Heidikya911 said:Heidi
I am so sorry to hear this news.
Sending huge hugs.
Praying dr's find the right treatment for you hon.
So sorry to hear about you.Never stop beleiving in miracles.Your fight makes mine seem like a walk in the park.
All sorts of hugs going out to you
Dee0 -
Praying for you Heidi!Katz77 said:Praying
I so pray for you and your family. Praying the two doctors can put their brains together and come up with a healing plan for you.
I absolutly hate the cancer that trys to steal our lives. Again praying so hard for you. Hugs and love to you,Katz
Praying for you Heidi! Please keep us updated as we are worried!
Hugs and prayers,
Noel0 -
Heidipbrndm5 said:Heidi
So sorry to hear about you.Never stop beleiving in miracles.Your fight makes mine seem like a walk in the park.
All sorts of hugs going out to you
Dee
Yes, our arms are all around you. Don't give up..my OH was given 30 months to live. that was 12 years ago and he is hiking and climbing. Doctors don't always know. However, i don't want to diminish how you are feeling...we are feeling it with you. Take care Pat0 -
I am praying for you andcindycflynn said:Dear Heidi
I'm so sorry to hear your news, and of course I am sending hugs, healing thoughts and prayers your way.
As Sally said, try not to get too discouraged by predictions of time. Nothing is decided, and many women have beaten the odds, and we all hope and pray that you will be in that number. You certainly deserve to be, brave sister.
Love, Stregth, and Hugs,
Cindy
I am praying for you and sending you love, strength and cyber hugs.
Angie0 -
I am so sorry that you gotBella Luna said:Heidi I am so sorry to hear
Heidi I am so sorry to hear the news. This is such a wicked disease. I will pray for a miracle and for the doctors do something for the pain. Bear Hugs and cheek peck to you dear Sister.
BL
I am so sorry that you got this news. This just isn't fair Heidi. I will also pray for you and pray for a miracle.
Huge hugs,
Megan0 -
Sorry
Heidi,
I am sorry to hear of this news you have received but am confident that you will do whatever it takes to keep fighting.
I have two words to say about this news: IT SUCKS!
Being overwhelmed is understandable and I truly wish that there was something I could do to make your pain go away. Know that I will be praying for you and that my thoughts are with you.
Take care.
Wolfi0 -
I wanted to add that I hopecreampuff91344 said:Heidi,
No words....just lots of prayers and thoughts coming your way. Your post was one none of us wanted to read, but please know that there are lots of us out here who are keeping you in our thoughts and sending hugs your way. Don't lose hope, and keep fighting the brave fight you have been fighting...we love you. Hugs, Judy
I wanted to add that I hope you will keep us updated Heidi. You know we love you and want to know what is going on. Hugs and prayers to you!
Megan0 -
When we went to church onJean 0609 said:Dea Heidi,
As I told you on facebook, you are one strong lady and I pray that you can beat this ugly beast. Sending positive thoughts, prayers and hugs to you, my friend. Hugs, Jean
When we went to church on Christmas Eve Heidi, my husband and I both said a prayer for you and lit a candle for you also.
Just wanted you to know..
Sue 0 -
ASK ABOUT AVASTIN!!!!!!!!!!!
Heidi......ask your oncologist about Avastin.......It's normally used for lung, colon and brain cancer...the FDA just said it's not effective but other studies have shown it is for bc...My best friend is fighting terminal brain cancer....she has lived 15 months longer than they originally said.......she has Avastin and Carboplatin every two weeks.........it is keeping her cancer at bay......wouldn't hurt to ask your oncologist about it....
Peace, prayers and hugs to you........
Nancy0 -
I thought of you overBoppy_of_6 said:Heidi
I am so soryy for the news you received. My prayers and thoughts are with you. God Bless
(((Hugs))) Janice
I thought of you over Christmas Heidi and prayed that a miracle would happen for you.
With hugs,
Diane0 -
Praying
I am praying for you. God Bless you.0
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