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  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #22
    Marlene_K said:

    Sending all kinds of
    Sending all kinds of positive vibes your way and send a prayer that all will be fine and you will get that great sigh of relief we all wish we could've had the FIRST time around. I wanted to have a double mastectomy but the surgeon talked me out of it. He said there was only a 2% chance I could get it in the 2nd with it not being hereditary. I guess a 2% chance is a chance in and of itself. But heck, there are women that get a recurrence even with a mastectomy, so I guess there's just no sure guard against it. I truly hope you don't have to have a repeat because no one wants to go through it the first time, never mind a 2nd! Please post & let us know the results as soon as you can!

    With lots of hugs ~ Mar

    You're right Marlene, there
    You're right Marlene, there is just no ryhme or reason to it. Whatever happens, I don't want to have to deal w/chemo again. No way. Thank you for your kind thoughts!
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #23
    LC815 said:

    Prayers and Hugs
    Dear Eileen,

    I hope everything ends up okay. It's like that old Tom Petty song, "The Waiting is the Hardest Part." I hate waiting for results. I'm glad he got to do the biopsy right then and there. At least things are moving quickly . . . I'm praying that they're moving right to the Big O.K.!!

    I taught in a Quaker school for a long time. The Quakers have this "thing." When someone is going through a tough time, they "hold you in the light." It's a lovely image, I think . . . your friends holding you up to the a place where there is light and peace.

    I'm holding you in the light.

    Hugs,
    Linda

    Linda I love the light!!1
    Linda I love the light!!1 Thank you so much!
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #24
    Marcia527 said:

    So sorry you have to have
    So sorry you have to have this worry. Positive thoughts headed your way and hugs. Hoping it's benign.

    Thank you Marcia!

    Thank you Marcia!
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #25
    natly15 said:

    B9
    Eileen I pray thats what you hear on Monday. Prayer being said as I write. Please let us know as soon as you can.

    Thank you very, very much!

    Thank you very, very much!
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #26
    mimivac said:

    Damn it.
    So sorry this is happening, but chances are that it is benign. Doesn't help with the waiting and worrying though. Sending you lots of good thoughts. I'll be thinking about you this weekend.

    Mimi

    Thank you Mimi, you r right,
    Thank you Mimi, you r right, most likely it hould be benign. The whole biopsy thing is so stressful and painful.
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #27
    jk1952 said:

    Eileen, I'm so sorry that

    Eileen, I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. The waiting is the worst. I wanted to encourage you that I have had several mammograms where they found suspicious areas and did further testing and everything was fine. Especially having been treated for breast cancer, the doctors do want to be extra careful whenever they find anything that they may consider out of the ordinary.

    I'm praying that you'll receive good news on Monday.

    Joyce

    Joyce thank you so much for
    Joyce thank you so much for sharing about your mammos. That really makes me feel better. All this time I keep thinking; if the doc did the biopsy then she must think its something. But you are right, with my history, I'm sure they want to be extra careful.
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #28
    RE said:

    Keeping in my thoughts and Prayers!
    Eileen, here is a little prayer I thought you may like to have. You will be in my prayers!


    Circle me, Lord.
    Keep protection near
    And danger afar.

    Circle me, Lord
    Keep hope within.
    Keep doubt without.

    Circle me, Lord.
    Keep light near
    And darkness afar.

    Circle me, Lord.
    Keep peace within.
    Keep evil out.

    By: David Adam


    ♥ RE ♥

    I love it Re. Thank you!

    I love it Re. Thank you!
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #29
    maryruthk said:

    prayer
    oh i know this fear .. i was told i could have cancer all over my body and had to waith 5 days for the scan to come back.. what a time i had.. but it wasnt ,just in my breast and nodes. I pray for you to have peace that only our lord can give us .. may the report go well with you as we all ask for that.

    Thank you Mary:) S sorry for
    Thank you Mary:) S sorry for all you have been through.
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #30
    ritazimm said:

    Eileen
    I can't even imagine the stress and thoughts that are going through your head. You're right, don't jump the gun. BUT we all know that is easier said than done!!! God be with you!

    You're in my prayers!!!
    Rita

    Thank you Rita!

    Thank you Rita!
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #31
    cruf said:

    Thinking of you
    Eil, just want you to know I am thinking and praying for good news! I know it's so hard not to think the worst so I won't tell you not but try to relax, keep busy and believe that you will be ok. HUGS!!! Cathy

    Thank you Cathy and Diane!

    Thank you Cathy and Diane!
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #32
    tasha_111 said:

    Eil
    My thought are with you and I really hope this is Nothing to worry about (even though you will).. Huge Hugs coming your way... Jxxxxxxxxxx

    Thank you Tasha and Judy.
    Thank you Tasha and Judy. You are so kind.
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #33
    chenheart said:

    ((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))
    ((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) and every positive, encouraging, upbuilding, healthy , calming thought to you, sweet Eil!
    Chen♥

    Thank you Claudia.

    Thank you Claudia.
  • lynn1950
    lynn1950 Member Posts: 2,570
    #34
    I read the title of your
    I read the title of your post with a heavy heart. All of us here fear that visit. The one where we leave the doctor's office needing more tests, having to endure more waiting and the awful anxiety of the unknown.

    I am glad, at least, that all the testing could be done at once and that you will get the results soon. The image of holding you in the light resonates in me. I am holding you in that light, Eileen.

    xoxoxoxo Lynn
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
    #35
    Positive prayers are beaming
    Positive prayers are beaming your way. I know that nothing will keep you from worrying about this, but try to let it go. If it isn't a cancer you will have wasted all that worry for nothing and if (and I hope it isn't) it is cancer days of worrying right now won't change that one bit. Go out to dinner with that good looking fellow of yours and see a movie, or do some shopping and try to find some peace. We will be here for you no matter what it is.
    Stef
  • LC815
    LC815 Member Posts: 155
    #36
    So easier said than done, but . . .
    I was walking in my town tonight, and in the window of a shop was a bumper sticker that read: "Pray, Hope, and Don't Worry" -- St. Pio
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #37
    lynn1950 said:

    I read the title of your
    I read the title of your post with a heavy heart. All of us here fear that visit. The one where we leave the doctor's office needing more tests, having to endure more waiting and the awful anxiety of the unknown.

    I am glad, at least, that all the testing could be done at once and that you will get the results soon. The image of holding you in the light resonates in me. I am holding you in that light, Eileen.

    xoxoxoxo Lynn

    Thank you Lynn!

    Thank you Lynn!
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #38
    fauxma said:

    Positive prayers are beaming
    Positive prayers are beaming your way. I know that nothing will keep you from worrying about this, but try to let it go. If it isn't a cancer you will have wasted all that worry for nothing and if (and I hope it isn't) it is cancer days of worrying right now won't change that one bit. Go out to dinner with that good looking fellow of yours and see a movie, or do some shopping and try to find some peace. We will be here for you no matter what it is.
    Stef

    Thanks Stef, you're right,
    Thanks Stef, you're right, worry is a waste of precious time.
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #39
    LC815 said:

    So easier said than done, but . . .
    I was walking in my town tonight, and in the window of a shop was a bumper sticker that read: "Pray, Hope, and Don't Worry" -- St. Pio

    I love that! I will have to
    I love that! I will have to remember it.
  • Eil4186
    Eil4186 Member Posts: 949
    #40
    LC815 said:

    So easier said than done, but . . .
    I was walking in my town tonight, and in the window of a shop was a bumper sticker that read: "Pray, Hope, and Don't Worry" -- St. Pio

    I love that! I will have to
    I love that! I will have to remember it.
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
    #41
    Eil4186 said:

    I love that! I will have to
    I love that! I will have to remember it.

    Eileen....
    So sorry to hear this. I will keep you in my prayers. I know you were having a hard time dealing with all this BC stuff three years out and now this. I'm sure I don't have any words that can truly comfort you right now, so I will just ask the Lord to do that for me. You know we are always just a click away and give the biggest cyber hugs out there! Hugs and smiles, ♥Pammy

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