Im devastated....need prayers!!!!

jo jo
jo jo Member Posts: 1,175 Member
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
I dont know if any of you have seen the nation wide news of a missing mother of two from
Iowa that disappeared last Friday (Sept 3). Her name is Stacy Wilson! She is also my very very close cousin...we grew up together as if she was my sister...we always hung out every mornin at my aunts house...we have been thru alot together since we were little, she was my best freind!
Yesterday (Sept 9) The police helicopter found her car in a field with her lifeless body in it. They are doing an autopsy this weekend to determine cause of death.
Since i have been on vacation no one told me till they found her body cuz they didnt want to ruin our vacation...now our vacation is cut short to hurry back home to be with my family so we can make funeral arrangements once they release her body.
The last time i talked to her she called me just before we left on our road trip and she wanted to go get lunch at our favorite resturant when i got back...i am so devastated, but im so numb right now...still in disbeleif.
It seems i turn to this board when i need strength and now i need it more than ever...even thou its not cancer related. But when this reality hits me its going to hit hard!!!!
Just need your prayers!!!

Im posting a pic of her in my expression page!
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  • cindycflynn
    cindycflynn Member Posts: 1,132 Member
    #2
    Dear Jo Jo
    I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your dear cousin. I also have two cousins that are like sisters to me, and I can only imagine losing one of them so tragically. I just don't even know what to say...

    I will be thinking of you through this difficult time and sending prayers to you and all of your family.

    Wishing you peace,
    Cindy
  • meena1
    meena1 Member Posts: 1,003
    #3
    I am so sorry for your loss,
    I am so sorry for your loss, jo jo. This is so shocking. do they have any idea who did this to her? I will pray for her and her family. I hope they can find peace and heal from this tragedy.
  • jo jo
    jo jo Member Posts: 1,175 Member
    #4
    meena1 said:

    I am so sorry for your loss,
    I am so sorry for your loss, jo jo. This is so shocking. do they have any idea who did this to her? I will pray for her and her family. I hope they can find peace and heal from this tragedy.

    They had a video of her at a
    They had a video of her at a local gas station buying 2 waters and that was the last time she was seen alive and we have no idea yet who or why????
    This is the same gas station that both of us use on a daily basis!
  • sal314
    sal314 Member Posts: 599 Member
    #5
    So, So Sorry Jo-Jo!!
    Don't even know what to say. No words. I will be praying for you and your family during this most difficult time.

    Just keep looking to Jesus! He loves you and is there for you!!

    Blessings and a BIG Hug!!!

    Sally
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member
    #6
    jo jo said:

    They had a video of her at a
    They had a video of her at a local gas station buying 2 waters and that was the last time she was seen alive and we have no idea yet who or why????
    This is the same gas station that both of us use on a daily basis!

    JoJO this is awful, just
    JoJO this is awful, just beyond words. We are here for you for anything. so sorry you have to deal with this and to you and your family for her loss. Will keep you in my prayers and keep us posted on how you are doing.
  • Marsha Mulvey
    Marsha Mulvey Member Posts: 597 Member
    #7
    jo jo said:

    They had a video of her at a
    They had a video of her at a local gas station buying 2 waters and that was the last time she was seen alive and we have no idea yet who or why????
    This is the same gas station that both of us use on a daily basis!

    cousins
    Cousins are special, 6 of my 8 cousins were my companions, playmates, and friends. We also went to school and church together.

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I did see it on the news and believe they said that her father had recently died. Do you think she was depressed over that or other things going on in her life? Regardless of the outcome, my prayers are with you, Stacy, and your family(ies). I believe they also reported that she had a young daughter. I'm so sorry.

    Marsha
  • Heatherbelle
    Heatherbelle Member Posts: 1,226 Member
    #8
    im so sorry to hear that
    im so sorry to hear that Jojo. My cousin is my best friend also and we too have been close as sisters since we were toddlers. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
    *hugs*
    Heather
  • Hubby
    Hubby Member Posts: 325
    #9
    I'm so sorry
    Sorry for your loss. Reality has a way of smacking us in the face. I was just thinking about how nice it was that you and VickiSam met; having a well earned vacation; and now this. Don't know what to say;

    But one thing; my heart sank when I read the title of your post; and as sorry as I am for your loss, I am equally relieved that your post didn't have to do with your health.

    Hugs

    Bob
  • ladyg
    ladyg Member Posts: 1,577
    #10
    So Sorry
    to hear about your loss. Any time a loved one is lost it is a really hard thing to deal with. One thing to remember is that she will always be in your heart. I will keep you in my thoughts.

    Hugs
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
    #11
    ladyg said:

    So Sorry
    to hear about your loss. Any time a loved one is lost it is a really hard thing to deal with. One thing to remember is that she will always be in your heart. I will keep you in my thoughts.

    Hugs

    I am so sorry about this
    I am so sorry about this loss. Prayers are with you and your family.
    Stef
  • sea60
    sea60 Member Posts: 2,613
    #12
    What devastating news!
    I am so sad for you and the family! I hate to hear of such tragedies. I hope and pray they find out what happened to this beautiful person.

    Dear sister, I will be praying for you and your family to get through this. I am so very sorry.


    Hugs,

    Sylvia
  • Dawne.Hope
    Dawne.Hope Member Posts: 823
    #13
    Dearest JoJo
    I am so sorry for your loss. No words ... but know that I'm praying for you and your family. I am so sorry.
    xo
  • RE
    RE Member Posts: 4,591 Member
    #14
    My Deepest Heartfelt Sympathy
    Oh JoJo I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your dearest Stacy I wish there was something I could say to make this better but there is not. Please know that I will be praying for you, Stacy's children and her loved ones, this is such a tragedy. It sounds like you were blessed with a truly wonderful cousin who cherished you as much as you cherish her. Hang in there JoJo, I wish you comfort and strength in the coming days.

    (¯`v´¯)
    .`*.¸.*RE´
  • New Flower
    New Flower Member Posts: 4,294 Member
    #15
    RE said:

    My Deepest Heartfelt Sympathy
    Oh JoJo I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your dearest Stacy I wish there was something I could say to make this better but there is not. Please know that I will be praying for you, Stacy's children and her loved ones, this is such a tragedy. It sounds like you were blessed with a truly wonderful cousin who cherished you as much as you cherish her. Hang in there JoJo, I wish you comfort and strength in the coming days.

    (¯`v´¯)
    .`*.¸.*RE´

    Jo Jo
    I am very sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family in this difficult time.
    Hugs
  • missrenee
    missrenee Member Posts: 2,136 Member
    #16
    New Flower said:

    Jo Jo
    I am very sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family in this difficult time.
    Hugs

    Sweet JoJo, I'm so sorry for you and your family
    All I can send are prayers. I can't imagine what you're going through right now. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Hugs and prayers, Renee
  • tommaseena
    tommaseena Member Posts: 1,769
    #17
    missrenee said:

    Sweet JoJo, I'm so sorry for you and your family
    All I can send are prayers. I can't imagine what you're going through right now. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Hugs and prayers, Renee

    JoJo
    Prayer and thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
    Sorry for your loss.

    Hugs,
    Margo
  • smalldoggroomer
    smalldoggroomer Member Posts: 1,184
    #18
    Dear JoJo
    I'm so very sorry to hear this news about your precious cousin Stacy. My heart breaks for you and your family. You are all in my prayers. Please keep us updated.
    God bless you all Kay
  • cavediver
    cavediver Member Posts: 607
    #19
    so sorry.....
    Oh JoJo, I am so sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you and your family.... words escape me, but my heart is heavy for you and I am praying ............
  • Jean 0609
    Jean 0609 Member Posts: 2,462
    #20
    Dear jo jo,
    I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers to you and your family. Hugs, Jean
  • pinkkari09
    pinkkari09 Member Posts: 877 Member
    #21
    Oh Dear JoJo, I'm so so
    Oh Dear JoJo, I'm so so sorry for your loss and it's got to be very hard not having answers and being in limbo at this moment. The only words I can give you is rest assured she is in a wonderful place right now and you will someday be with her again, in Gods time. My prayers are with you and your family and may you find peace and strength in this trying time.
    Big Hugs~Kari

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