OK I'm here I'm fine...........

aztec45 said:

Think About This
When he starts running his mouth, wearing you down, working you, ask yourself, 'Do I want to live with someone like this for the rest of my life or do I want to be free and find a man like the one you met in the store who truly loved his wife.' I think you know what you want so get off the arse and go get it.

Love ya,

P

Tasha, just know how very
Tasha, just know how very proud we are all of you. We all know that this is taking a lot of strength on your part. Just stay strong!

Hugs,

Leeza

lynn1950 said:

Dear Julia,
Of course you are fine. You know I've ridden that same horse. My ex still calls about once a year- even though I have been married now since 1986! He always says something that is slyly abusive because, among other things, he is passive aggressive. Always remember and never forget! xoxoxo Lynn

Good for you, Tasha!!
I am just catching up, too. It if weren't for my pesky job, I'd be more in the loop. I am very proud of you Tasha. You're such a strong person, and this is absolutely so difficult to do. But here you are doing it, just like you persevered through your cancer diagnosis and treatment. If you got through that, you can get through this, too. I am wishing you all the best.

Mimi

And Lynn, the nerve of your ex calling you every year with his passive aggressive ways. Maybe next time you can just tell him you're too busy to talk and then hang up! Jeez, some people don't know when to quit.

mimivac said:

Good for you, Tasha!!
I am just catching up, too. It if weren't for my pesky job, I'd be more in the loop. I am very proud of you Tasha. You're such a strong person, and this is absolutely so difficult to do. But here you are doing it, just like you persevered through your cancer diagnosis and treatment. If you got through that, you can get through this, too. I am wishing you all the best.

Mimi

And Lynn, the nerve of your ex calling you every year with his passive aggressive ways. Maybe next time you can just tell him you're too busy to talk and then hang up! Jeez, some people don't know when to quit.

You are right, Mimi,but.....
To soften the blow of leaving him, I told him that I would always love him; I just wanted a different life - so I feel an obligation to at least talk to him when he calls. I am still good friends with his sister who I have known since Jr. High and who still lives in Chicago.

tasha_111 said:

WHEW!
Thank you all so much.... I went for the shelter meeting this morning, I qualify.........I CAN MOVE NEXT WEEK!
Thank you all for your support and help
Hugs Jxxxxxxxxxxxxx

That is great Tasha!
Good
That is great Tasha!

Good luck with the move!

It is a very good thing for you to do!

Hugs,

Kylez