Fatigue

Looking back.......about a year before my wife was diagnosed she too was extremely tired. More so the last few months before but we thought back and can pinpoint about a year bac. She would literally fall sound asleep on the couch at night by 8:30 most nights. 

We just thought she was working hard and being in her mid 40s that she was slowing down. We should known but a cancer diagnosis was the farthest thing from our minds.

since having the "Demon" out she has more energy and can make it to a normal bed time now. Lol

it took a few months post surgery tho but she gets better every day.

hope you get some relief soon.

My husband had been feeling exhausted after coming home from work in evenings. We chalked it up to being 62 and a job he rather dreaded. He would come home and do a deep breath/sigh and I assumed it was his way of saying he was glad to be home. Would then sit in recliner and nap often until shower and bedtime.  He had begun really talking retirement in the last year because he felt so "old". Lab work always came back fine, cancer did not enter our thoughts.  He had full nephrectomy of right kidney on Sept 6 for ccrcc and still complains of fatigue on occasion but not like it was presurgery. Also noticed more pink in his cheeks since surgery. He had been looking pale and as before chalked it up to age. We are northerners and heading to Florida at the end of this month for a well deserved vacation and hope to get some sun, fun and relaxation in.  Wishing you the best of luck!

WOW Annisa, iron is at a 5? No wonder you are so fatigued. Look up foods that build iron and SLOW FE (non constipating) is usually recommended. What is your doctor telling you? 

I had to demand to have Iron checked following my nephrectomy. My surgeon didn't think it would be a problem, but turned out I was iron deficient. Also make sure your diet is rich in greens and other nutrients to build you up for this surgery. 

Many of the medicaitons, used for general anesthesia are strong and take awhile to leave our system. Plus then you'll be on opiates for awhile. Make sure you use ice packs over incisions to reduce swelling/edema which is natural after any surgery. It will reduce your need to need opiates for long. 

I also recommend using a lumbar, velcro wrap, used for back support to hold those aching muscles/tissues as you recovery. It helped me get up, and out of a chair or bed. I even wore it to bed. I place ice packs inside of it, but over underwear to help reduce swelling. It helped a lot! Therefore I didn't need opiates for very long.

Healing hugs, 

Jan

AnnissaP said:

Thank you everyone!!! As I

Thank you everyone!!! As I sit here it is even difficult to keep my eyes open. All of a sudden I just shut down and absolutely have to sleep. I see the surgeon/oncologist tomorrow. My urologist said it should be a partial nephrectomy I will have. I guess I will know by this time tomorrow!!! I cannot wait to have energy again. It bothers me bc I am used to being a super active and healthy person. I wish you all the best for your recoveries and futures!!!!!

Have you had your thyroid levels checked? My husband is Stage IV and the treatment (Sutent) has resulted in a significant drop in his thyroid levels which is contributing to his fatigue. He has felt quite a bit better now they are sorting that out. Not sure whether you've been having any treatment prior to surgery but there are quite a few medications that can mess with your thyroid. Might be worth getting it checked out. Good luck with your surgery and recovery.

I too had fatigue before being diagnosed. It wasn't normal tired but weary. Since surgery 3 weeks ago I do feel so much better. Also before surgery I was. Instantly having to empty my bladder and that has also stopped. I hope this good feeling lasts.

AnnissaP said:

He said it could def be

He said it could def be caused by the tumor. He said we will know for sure once it is out and if my iron starts to go back up. What an awful feeling!! Surgery is booked for Nov.7th! He is not 100% sure yet if he will take part or all of my kidney. I have read comments on using a lumbar wrap. We actually have one!!! Thank you for all of the info!!!!

Why on earth would ANY doctor make you wait till AFTER surgery to build up your iron? It could only be worse then. Slow FE is non-constipating, over the counter. Consult with your primary then, but please, do not wait till after surgery a you do have some blood loss. Geesh..

Let me know what your primary says ok?

Hugs, Jan

Jan4you said:

WOW Annisa, iron is at a 5?

WOW Annisa, iron is at a 5? No wonder you are so fatigued. Look up foods that build iron and SLOW FE (non constipating) is usually recommended. What is your doctor telling you? 

I had to demand to have Iron checked following my nephrectomy. My surgeon didn't think it would be a problem, but turned out I was iron deficient. Also make sure your diet is rich in greens and other nutrients to build you up for this surgery. 

Many of the medicaitons, used for general anesthesia are strong and take awhile to leave our system. Plus then you'll be on opiates for awhile. Make sure you use ice packs over incisions to reduce swelling/edema which is natural after any surgery. It will reduce your need to need opiates for long. 

I also recommend using a lumbar, velcro wrap, used for back support to hold those aching muscles/tissues as you recovery. It helped me get up, and out of a chair or bed. I even wore it to bed. I place ice packs inside of it, but over underwear to help reduce swelling. It helped a lot! Therefore I didn't need opiates for very long.

Healing hugs, 

Jan

Some of us get opiates for a while after surgery, some not. So don't feel bad if you don't or special if you do. Just make sure you've got a plan for keeping your pain under control before you leave the hospital (and a plan for what to do if THAT plan isn't adequate). Lots of TLCs - definitely!

I hadn't really thought about it, but looking back, I was fatigued a lot before diagnosis and nephrectomy. I was just chalking it up to commuting 90 minutes each way into NYC, which is enough to wear anyone out. But in retrospect, I think I was unusually tired. By three months post-surgery, my energy was MUCH better.

That's what those little b***ards are all about. 

Donna~