Condolences to Varmint 5 on the passing of her beautiful daughter

jen2012
jen2012 Member Posts: 1,607 Member
edited October 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1

Anyone hear from Sandy or know how her daughter is doing?    Sandy, if you see this, I hope you have a good update for us.

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  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #2
    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

  • jen2012
    jen2012 Member Posts: 1,607 Member
    #3
    Oh Sandy...I am so so sorry.

    Oh Sandy...I am so so sorry.  It's heartbreaking and so unfair.  Her obituary is beautifully written.    I can't imagine how difficult the last couple of years have been for you.  Take comfort in that sweet grandson.   

  • wolfen
    wolfen Member Posts: 1,324 Member
    #4
    jen2012 said:

    Oh Sandy...I am so so sorry.

    Oh Sandy...I am so so sorry.  It's heartbreaking and so unfair.  Her obituary is beautifully written.    I can't imagine how difficult the last couple of years have been for you.  Take comfort in that sweet grandson.   

    Sandy

    My heart is breaking for you. I can truly say I know what you are feeling after I lost my Debbie on July 27. It is gut wrenching and unbelievable to know that our beautiful girls are gone. No mother should have to watch the demise of their child.

    I read, but don't post often. I am not a good support person right now to so many with hope.

    Love,

    Karen

  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #5
    wolfen said:

    Sandy

    My heart is breaking for you. I can truly say I know what you are feeling after I lost my Debbie on July 27. It is gut wrenching and unbelievable to know that our beautiful girls are gone. No mother should have to watch the demise of their child.

    I read, but don't post often. I am not a good support person right now to so many with hope.

    Love,

    Karen

    Thank you Jen and Karen

    Jen and Karen, thank you for your support. Karen, I am so sorry I wasn't on here supporting you. I just could have not been able to come to the boards - this one and Colon Club - since things started to go downhill for us. I am so sorry about Debbie and I know you know exactly how I feel. I wish we could get together or something. I just don't want to talk to anybody and don't even want to answer the phone. Our girls could not catch a break. I am bitter and angry and devastated. I have nothing upbeat to offer anybody. I probably need to continue my hiatus from the boards. I wish everybody well who is fighting this damn disease and those who have put it behind them. I've lost my only child, you've lost your only daughter. We will never get over it.

    Sandy

  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties Member Posts: 3,364 Member
    #6
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

    Dear Sandy

    I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.

    She was a remarkable person.

    My sincere condolances to you and the family and all who loved her.

    Hugs,

    Marie who loves kitties

  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    #7
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

    Oh Sandy

    my heart just breaks for you, I have tears flowing with sorrow over your loss of your beautiful daughter, too many of you have lost your children to this horrible disease and I am so sorry for that.

    Don't worry about not offering support or participating, you and your daughter offers it plenty, it is we, that want to offer you our support.

    You and your daughter shall remain in my heart.

    I'm so, so sorry for your loss dear.  If I could do anything, please let me know.

    Winter Marie

  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    #8
    Sandy

    Sandy,

    I am so very sorry that your gorgeous, lovely daughter has passed on.  I can offer my love and know I am thinking of you hoping that there can be bits of hope for you  in the days ahead. 

    Aloha

    Kathleen

  • Cathleen Mary
    Cathleen Mary Member Posts: 827 Member
    #9
    Kathleen808 said:

    Sandy

    Sandy,

    I am so very sorry that your gorgeous, lovely daughter has passed on.  I can offer my love and know I am thinking of you hoping that there can be bits of hope for you  in the days ahead. 

    Aloha

    Kathleen

    Sandy, my heart hurts for you

    Sandy, my heart hurts for you and for those you love. Your lovely daughter's beautiful 'little guy' will need you to tell him what an incredible a mom he had.  Life isn't fair. Please know that even though I don't have the words, you are in my heart and prayer.

    Whether you come on the boards or not, you are held and remembered.

    i am so sorry.

    CM

  • janderson1964
    janderson1964 Member Posts: 2,215 Member
    #10
    I am so truly sorry Sandy for

    I am so truly sorry Sandy for your loss. I can not imagine the pain and emptiness you are feeling right now.

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,804 Member
    #11
    My heart weeps for your loss

    Dearest Sandy, how my heart weeps for the loss of your beautiful daughter. 

    Be good to yourself. No apologies to us, or to anyone.   

    Know that you and your family and your daughters family are in my prayers. 

    Bless! 

    Sue - Trubrit

  • Momof2plusteentwins
    Momof2plusteentwins Member Posts: 509 Member
    #12
    Sandy

    Just crying, just watched her video.  So awful, 35 years old and a 3 year old baby.  I just can't imagine.

  • annalexandria
    annalexandria Member Posts: 2,571 Member
    #13
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

    So horribly, horribly unfair.

    No parent would outlive her child in a just universe.  

    I'm so very sorry.

    Many hugs~AA

  • Easyflip
    Easyflip Member Posts: 588 Member
    #14
    Sandy

    I don't know you except that we're bonded through this horrible disease. There's a Chinese saying that the saddest thing in the universe is to bury your own child. I can't imagine your grief, condolences and my heart goes out to you.

    Easyflip/Richard

  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #15
    Lovekitties said:

    Dear Sandy

    I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.

    She was a remarkable person.

    My sincere condolances to you and the family and all who loved her.

    Hugs,

    Marie who loves kitties

    Thank you Marie

    I appreciate your support and sympathy. Hugs back to you.

    Sandy

  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #16
    herdizziness said:

    Oh Sandy

    my heart just breaks for you, I have tears flowing with sorrow over your loss of your beautiful daughter, too many of you have lost your children to this horrible disease and I am so sorry for that.

    Don't worry about not offering support or participating, you and your daughter offers it plenty, it is we, that want to offer you our support.

    You and your daughter shall remain in my heart.

    I'm so, so sorry for your loss dear.  If I could do anything, please let me know.

    Winter Marie

    Thank you Winter Marie

    Your story was one of several that gave us so much hope when this all started and I appreciate that. Keep on kicking this diseases butt. You have my support, even if I am not a regular presence here. Thank you for your support and condolences.

    Sandy

  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #17
    annalexandria said:

    So horribly, horribly unfair.

    No parent would outlive her child in a just universe.  

    I'm so very sorry.

    Many hugs~AA

    Thank you Ann

    You are so right. Thank you for the support. Hugs back to you, too.

    Sandy

  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #18
    jen2012 said:

    Oh Sandy...I am so so sorry.

    Oh Sandy...I am so so sorry.  It's heartbreaking and so unfair.  Her obituary is beautifully written.    I can't imagine how difficult the last couple of years have been for you.  Take comfort in that sweet grandson.   

    Thank you Jen

    Yes, it is so unfair. Her husband wrote the obituary. I thought it was beautiful, too. Their son is who keeps us all going. I can't imagine where we would be right now if we didn't have him. Thank you for the support.

    Sandy

  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #19
    Kathleen808 said:

    Sandy

    Sandy,

    I am so very sorry that your gorgeous, lovely daughter has passed on.  I can offer my love and know I am thinking of you hoping that there can be bits of hope for you  in the days ahead. 

    Aloha

    Kathleen

    Thank you Kathleen

    I am hoping for that, too. It's just so unbelievably hard. I am so sorry about your husband. We fought valiantly as well. Everybody does. Just such a ruthless disease.

    Sandy

  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #20
    Cathleen Mary said:

    Sandy, my heart hurts for you

    Sandy, my heart hurts for you and for those you love. Your lovely daughter's beautiful 'little guy' will need you to tell him what an incredible a mom he had.  Life isn't fair. Please know that even though I don't have the words, you are in my heart and prayer.

    Whether you come on the boards or not, you are held and remembered.

    i am so sorry.

    CM

    Thank you Cathleen

    Yes, you are right and I do it at every opportunity. I hope I will get to spend a lot of time with him. I appreciate your support and prayers. Thank you.

    Sandy

  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #21
    janderson1964 said:

    I am so truly sorry Sandy for

    I am so truly sorry Sandy for your loss. I can not imagine the pain and emptiness you are feeling right now.

    Thank you Jeff

    You're right. I don't think anyone can comprehend it. I know I couldn't not have until now. I appreciate your sympathy and support.

    Sandy

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