Condolences to Varmint 5 on the passing of her beautiful daughter

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  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #22
    Trubrit said:

    My heart weeps for your loss

    Dearest Sandy, how my heart weeps for the loss of your beautiful daughter. 

    Be good to yourself. No apologies to us, or to anyone.   

    Know that you and your family and your daughters family are in my prayers. 

    Bless! 

    Sue - Trubrit

    Thank you Sue

    I appreciate your support and understanding and prayers. I am trying to just get from one day to the next. Thanks for your kind words.

    Sandy

  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #23
    Momof2plusteentwins said:

    Sandy

    Just crying, just watched her video.  So awful, 35 years old and a 3 year old baby.  I just can't imagine.

    Thank you

    Yes, so awful. I'm living every mother's worst nightmare. I appreciate your support and empathy.

    Sandy

  • Varmint5
    Varmint5 Member Posts: 384 Member
    #24
    Easyflip said:

    Sandy

    I don't know you except that we're bonded through this horrible disease. There's a Chinese saying that the saddest thing in the universe is to bury your own child. I can't imagine your grief, condolences and my heart goes out to you.

    Easyflip/Richard

    Thank you Richard

    That saying is so right. Thank you for your support and sympathy. I appreciate it.

    Sandy

  • mukamom
    mukamom Member Posts: 402
    #25
    Easyflip said:

    Sandy

    I don't know you except that we're bonded through this horrible disease. There's a Chinese saying that the saddest thing in the universe is to bury your own child. I can't imagine your grief, condolences and my heart goes out to you.

    Easyflip/Richard

    I can't imagine

    your heartbreak.  Prayers for strength and peace in the coming days.

     

    Angela

     

  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member
    #26
    mukamom said:

    I can't imagine

    your heartbreak.  Prayers for strength and peace in the coming days.

     

    Angela

     

    Sandy

    Sandy I cannot even imagine your pain, loss and grief over the loss of your beautiful girl.  This must be the hardest thing anyone ever has to do.....Richard's quote is correct I think.

    I have only one daughter and my heart just aches for you.....it is almost impossible to imagine your pain

    with greatest love, maggie and a hug

  • UncleBuddy
    UncleBuddy Member Posts: 1,019 Member
    #27
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

    Sandy...

    I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you're going through. I watched the video of your beautiful daughter. She looked very happy. Her husband seemed to be a great support. Enjoy your beautiful grandson, she lives on, in him. 

    Lin

  • Dyanclark
    Dyanclark Member Posts: 296
    #28
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

    Such horror

    My sister lost her 33 year old son in 2009 of Testicular Cancer.  My heart breaks for you.

    Hugs George & Diane

     

     

     

  • LivinginNH
    LivinginNH Member Posts: 1,456 Member
    #29
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

     
    Sandy,
    I'm so very sorry

     

    Sandy,

    I'm so very sorry for your loss of your precious daughter, may she rest in eternal peace.  My sincere condolonces to you and your family.

    With sympathy,

    Cynthia

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    #30
    So very sorry

    So sorry to hear of her passing.  My prayers and thoughts are with the family. 

    Kim

  • marbleotis
    marbleotis Member Posts: 720 Member
    #31
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

    Loss

    Sandy,

    As I ready your daughter's obituary and watched the video tears came down my face.

    I will never understand this disease and how it continues to keep taking.

    My deepest sympathy to you, your family, son-in-law and grandson. 

    Their are really no words..... I am so sorry

  • Joy1216
    Joy1216 Member Posts: 290 Member
    #32
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

    Condolences

    I'm so sorry to hear that your daughter has passed away.  I remember you talking about her involvement with YES! Beat Liver Tumors.  The obituary and video were wonderful and I know you will cherish them.  She was an inspiration to others through the video.  I'm sure that you and your son-in-law will feel close to your daughter every time you see your precious grandson.  It's great that you live near them.  I'm in Lee's Summit in the far southeast part of the KC metro area.  I have no words of wisdom but I will pray for comfort and peace and hope for you and your family.  

    Joy

  • Helen321
    Helen321 Member Posts: 1,460 Member
    #33
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

    Wow Sandy, So unbelievably

    Wow Sandy, So unbelievably sorry to hear the news.  I can't pretend to imagine, I can only offer my support.

  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member
    #34
    Annabelle41415 said:

    So very sorry

    So sorry to hear of her passing.  My prayers and thoughts are with the family. 

    Kim

    My condolences. My the Lord

    My condolences. My the Lord give you the strength to get through the un barrage pain of the passing of your lovely daughter. I'm so sorry  

     

    We here will never get pass the pain of so many lost souls! so many friends. It's so heart wrenching. 

  • Brenda Bricco
    Brenda Bricco Member Posts: 579 Member
    #35
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

    Sandy, I read Melanies

    Sandy, I read Melanie's obituary and watched the interview. I just want to tell you how beautiful she was and you must be so proud to call such a wonderful spiri,t your daughter.  I am so sorry she has passed and don't even want to try to imagine your heart break. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers, please give that little Tate a squeeze for me. Again, I am so sorry.

    God's blessings.

    Brenda

     

  • Patteee
    Patteee Member Posts: 945
    #36
    OH wow

    I just read your daughters obit- all of my Dad's family from Chillicothe and then migrated to Brookfield.  My Dad is buried beside the highway coming into town.  Are you from Brookfield?  Would love to swap stories with you, bet we know some of the same people.  

     

    I am so sorry to hear of your daughter :(

  • Phil64
    Phil64 Member Posts: 838 Member
    #37
    Varmint5 said:

    Thank you Jen

    I don't have good news. My heart is broken. I read here but have not been able to post or respond because I just have not had the words. I still don't. I am thankful to you for not forgetting about me and my daughter, my only child. I am devastated. Here is why.

    Her obituary:

    http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=2665940&fh_id=11706

    Her interview with Suzanne Lindley of YES! Beat Liver Tumors:

    http://johnbrunedigital.com/melanie.html

    Her memorial video made by John Brune, videographer for Beat Liver Tumors. Melanie participated in fashion week in NYC as a survivor model at a fundraiser for YES! and at Night of 100 Stars Oscar gala in L.A. with YES! These events were magical escapes for her during her journey through stage IV CC. 

    Again, thank you. I am sorry for not being able to participate and offer my support here.

    Sandy

     

    Say YES to hope. Sandy thank

    Say YES to hope. Sandy thank you for sharing. The "Say Yes to Hope" interview was beautiful. And thank God you have a beautiful Grand Son to love and raise. And I'm so sorry for your loss. And I pray that Love will overflow your heart one again. Blessings to you.

     

  • sharpy102
    sharpy102 Member Posts: 368 Member
    #38
    Patteee said:

    OH wow

    I just read your daughters obit- all of my Dad's family from Chillicothe and then migrated to Brookfield.  My Dad is buried beside the highway coming into town.  Are you from Brookfield?  Would love to swap stories with you, bet we know some of the same people.  

     

    I am so sorry to hear of your daughter :(

    @Samdy: I am looking for the

    @Samdy: I am looking for the right words, but cannot find them *sigh*. I so so very sorry. Please, please always remind your grandson about how great his mom was. Look thorugh photo albums, make her favorite food, keep her in the family! I would pay a million if someone still was around to tell me about my Mother. It's hard to grow up without a mother. So, your job is to keep your daughter around the familyl, keep reminding your grandson about her. Make her food, do what she loved to do. Look at her photos, tell stories. It will help your son....and YOU TOO!!!! You will start to realize that she didn't go far, and that she will always be around. She will follow you, see how you take care of her son, how you help her husband keep going, and still be in the great family you also provided. I wish you ALL strength!!!! It willl not be quick....and it will not be painful. But you guys, together, can make it better...in a way she would love to see you all. Smile, celebrate, love and support each other! You guys are still all a family....ONE GREAT FAMILY! Hugs to all of you (You, the little boy and the husband)!

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