Why wait?

aysemari
aysemari Member Posts: 1,596 Member
edited May 2011 in Breast Cancer #1
GOOOOOD Morning twisted sisters!!!

So I had this epiphany over the weekend, why wait? What was I waiting for?
Saturday, I was just went out for lunch did my usual,lounged and thought
about how great it would be if I was already on the east coast. Then Saturday
night, I thought what to heck?? I have a long weekend coming, all I need is
48 hours to get there and a temporary apartment till I can find my home.
Now it is monday morning and in one day I have sold everything I owned,
leased an apartment, set up phone and cable at the new address but most
important of all.. I feel vibrant, alive and EXCITED!!

So just like that I am leaving THIS weekend! I am throwing all my fears and
worries in the wind and I kind of feel like I am getting a do-over, a brand
new life! So for all of you who worry, there's life after BC, BELIEVE it!

Love,
Ayse
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  • natly15
    natly15 Member Posts: 1,941
    #2
    Ayse you go girl!! You are
    Ayse you go girl!! You are such an inspiration. I cant wait to hear about your life in the "city".
  • VickiSam
    VickiSam Member Posts: 9,079 Member
    #3
    natly15 said:

    Ayse you go girl!! You are
    Ayse you go girl!! You are such an inspiration. I cant wait to hear about your life in the "city".

    You are a true 'Twisted Sister' without
    question! I am happy about your 'Epiphany' - mind blowing, isn't it? Everything comes into clear focus, and you know where your next part of your life, and journey is taking you. I am thrilled beyond words ... so so so HAPPY for you, Ayse! You deserve all the best, that life has to offer you -- now, go out and get it!

    Your Twisted Sister in Southern California,

    Kekee
  • lynn1950
    lynn1950 Member Posts: 2,570
    #4
    What a beautiful bird
    What a beautiful bird creature you are. Wishing you everything good.........xoxoxox Lynn
  • Gabe N Abby Mom
    Gabe N Abby Mom Member Posts: 2,413
    #5
    I am soooooo happy for you!!
    I am soooooo happy for you!! Isn't it amazing what we can accomplish once we set our minds to it? I hope the move goes smoothly. And I'd love to set a lunch/dinner date for the next time I'm in NYC.

    Big hugs,

    Linda
  • VickiSam
    VickiSam Member Posts: 9,079 Member
    #6
    natly15 said:

    Ayse you go girl!! You are
    Ayse you go girl!! You are such an inspiration. I cant wait to hear about your life in the "city".

    You are a true 'Twisted Sister' without
    Kekee .. Ugh!!! Double post .. Another, Blond moment today.
  • aysemari
    aysemari Member Posts: 1,596 Member
    #7
    Gabe N Abby Mom said:

    I am soooooo happy for you!!
    I am soooooo happy for you!! Isn't it amazing what we can accomplish once we set our minds to it? I hope the move goes smoothly. And I'd love to set a lunch/dinner date for the next time I'm in NYC.

    Big hugs,

    Linda

    I KNEW you would get it!
    This is a huge step for me and I knew you would understand.
    I think unconsciously I was a little worried to make such a big
    move, so shortly after being out of treatment. But I figured I can
    sit here and fear what may come or I can simply live.

    You are ALL welcome to my home, should you be in the area. I
    would love to show you "MY" New York (:

    Hugs,
    Ayse
  • roseann4
    roseann4 Member Posts: 992 Member
    #8
    aysemari said:

    I KNEW you would get it!
    This is a huge step for me and I knew you would understand.
    I think unconsciously I was a little worried to make such a big
    move, so shortly after being out of treatment. But I figured I can
    sit here and fear what may come or I can simply live.

    You are ALL welcome to my home, should you be in the area. I
    would love to show you "MY" New York (:

    Hugs,
    Ayse

    Where did you decide on as your new home?
    Last I knew you were considering CT. PM me once you get settled and I'll treat you to a welcome lunch.

    Roseann
  • MAJW
    MAJW Member Posts: 2,510 Member
    #9
    roseann4 said:

    Where did you decide on as your new home?
    Last I knew you were considering CT. PM me once you get settled and I'll treat you to a welcome lunch.

    Roseann

    You go girl!
    Fantastic! Don't you feel free as a bird?

    I wish you a smooth transition and wonderful days ahead....
    You're an inspiration......now you can be our Sex in the City pink sister...
    Hugs, Nancy
  • aysemari
    aysemari Member Posts: 1,596 Member
    #10
    roseann4 said:

    Where did you decide on as your new home?
    Last I knew you were considering CT. PM me once you get settled and I'll treat you to a welcome lunch.

    Roseann

    CT is my new home
    Roseann, that is so sweet of you!!

    I can hardly wait. Isn't this sisterhood something amazing?
    I feel like I can go ANYWHERE in the country and a kindred
    spirit will reach out to me. I am blessed with so many twisted sister (:

    Hugs,
    Ayse
  • Mitzi333
    Mitzi333 Member Posts: 511 Member
    #11
    aysemari said:

    CT is my new home
    Roseann, that is so sweet of you!!

    I can hardly wait. Isn't this sisterhood something amazing?
    I feel like I can go ANYWHERE in the country and a kindred
    spirit will reach out to me. I am blessed with so many twisted sister (:

    Hugs,
    Ayse

    Way to Go!!!
    Time for a Fresh New Start!!! My prayers are with you through your tranisition.

    Good for you to forge ahead!!! Change IS GOOD!!!

    You Go Girl!!!
    Mitzi ;0)
  • Bella Luna
    Bella Luna Member Posts: 1,578 Member
    #12
    I am so HAPPY for YOU! Yes,
    I am so HAPPY for YOU! Yes, there is LIFE after cancer. You are setting a fine example for we Survivors. When you have a chance, tell us about your new life in New York.

    Take care, God bless.
    Ines
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159 Member
    #13
    This about says it all! LOL

    Oh Freundin! Ich bin so glücklich für dich. Sind alle Tiere reisen mit dir auch? Ich weiß, du hast ein liebevolles Menagerie, die keinen Zweifel würde Ostküste Wetter für einen Wechsel Liebe, nicht wahr? Bleib in Kontakt, du hast jetzt Kindred Spirits von einem Ende des Landes zum anderen! Herzlichen Glückwunsch zum lebst deinen Traum, ich bin so stolz auf dich!

    Yay Yay Yay!

    Hugs,
    Chen

    PS...I forgot to tell you! I went to a Women's Literary Festival and one of the authors, who is a poet and teaches poetry at UCLA quoted from her favorite poet~ one of the poems from the book you sent to me!!!
  • missrenee
    missrenee Member Posts: 2,136 Member
    #14
    chenheart said:

    This about says it all! LOL

    Oh Freundin! Ich bin so glücklich für dich. Sind alle Tiere reisen mit dir auch? Ich weiß, du hast ein liebevolles Menagerie, die keinen Zweifel würde Ostküste Wetter für einen Wechsel Liebe, nicht wahr? Bleib in Kontakt, du hast jetzt Kindred Spirits von einem Ende des Landes zum anderen! Herzlichen Glückwunsch zum lebst deinen Traum, ich bin so stolz auf dich!

    Yay Yay Yay!

    Hugs,
    Chen

    PS...I forgot to tell you! I went to a Women's Literary Festival and one of the authors, who is a poet and teaches poetry at UCLA quoted from her favorite poet~ one of the poems from the book you sent to me!!!

    Ayse, I am so proud of you--living your dream!
    I knew you were special the moment I met you. I see all wonderful things coming your way. You so deserve it, twisted sister. I'm going to email you--I want to see you and hug you before you leave Phoenix!

    Hugs, Renee
  • deeb111
    deeb111 Member Posts: 141 Member
    #15
    aysemari said:

    I KNEW you would get it!
    This is a huge step for me and I knew you would understand.
    I think unconsciously I was a little worried to make such a big
    move, so shortly after being out of treatment. But I figured I can
    sit here and fear what may come or I can simply live.

    You are ALL welcome to my home, should you be in the area. I
    would love to show you "MY" New York (:

    Hugs,
    Ayse

    Hello I think its great and
    Hello I think its great and doctors in ny are great should u need but i hope u stay well keep enjoying ur life still i will continue with prayers for all I live very close to nyc so where r u exactly going may know it no fears all cheers for you best wishes in your ne
    w home
  • aysemari
    aysemari Member Posts: 1,596 Member
    #16
    chenheart said:

    This about says it all! LOL

    Oh Freundin! Ich bin so glücklich für dich. Sind alle Tiere reisen mit dir auch? Ich weiß, du hast ein liebevolles Menagerie, die keinen Zweifel würde Ostküste Wetter für einen Wechsel Liebe, nicht wahr? Bleib in Kontakt, du hast jetzt Kindred Spirits von einem Ende des Landes zum anderen! Herzlichen Glückwunsch zum lebst deinen Traum, ich bin so stolz auf dich!

    Yay Yay Yay!

    Hugs,
    Chen

    PS...I forgot to tell you! I went to a Women's Literary Festival and one of the authors, who is a poet and teaches poetry at UCLA quoted from her favorite poet~ one of the poems from the book you sent to me!!!

    Claudia dein deutsch ist so gut
    Vielen dank fuer all warmen wuensche. Ja alle meine monster kommen mit mir. I can't possibly
    keep them all, but I hope to find homes for them. I buried one, and that was already too much.
    So I am saving as many as I can. So if anyone wants a kitty, I will be en routee with my kitty mobile.. lol

    I am so happy that you are enjoying Wislawa Szymborska, I know she has definitely enriched my life.

    Ich schaetze deine freundschaft sehr.

    Vielen dank Schatzi!

    Ayse
  • aysemari
    aysemari Member Posts: 1,596 Member
    #17
    missrenee said:

    Ayse, I am so proud of you--living your dream!
    I knew you were special the moment I met you. I see all wonderful things coming your way. You so deserve it, twisted sister. I'm going to email you--I want to see you and hug you before you leave Phoenix!

    Hugs, Renee

    I wouldn't dream of leaving without giving you a big old hug!!!
    We are sisters of the special kind after all

    Hugs,
    Ayse
  • sbmly53
    sbmly53 Member Posts: 1,522
    #18
    Ayse,
    You are such an inspiration! I have so much to do in my house, I would love to just sell, or even heave out stuff.

    Now that you'll be an east coast girl, we have to get you to Hershey in October.

    Sue
  • linpsu
    linpsu Member Posts: 747
    #19
    Yay!
    That is so exciting, Ayse! You are such an inspiration! We should all take a lesson from you - when we are thinking of doing something, we need to just go out and DO IT! Hugs, Linda
  • aisling8
    aisling8 Member Posts: 1,627 Member
    #20
    linpsu said:

    Yay!
    That is so exciting, Ayse! You are such an inspiration! We should all take a lesson from you - when we are thinking of doing something, we need to just go out and DO IT! Hugs, Linda

    I say
    go go go into your life. Do it NOW. Now is what we've got!

    xoxo
    Victoria
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member
    #21
    aisling8 said:

    I say
    go go go into your life. Do it NOW. Now is what we've got!

    xoxo
    Victoria

    congratulations. Ihope you
    congratulations. Ihope you love your new adventure!

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