heartbroken

newperson
newperson Member Posts: 76
edited April 2011 in Colorectal Cancer #1
Dear Friends,

I'm sorry for posting another sad news. I haven't been on this board for a while because we just went through really really difficult time. My dear husband passed away on March 26 at age 47. He fought the disease so hard and held on the hope all the time even in the last few days. I still cannot believe he has left me alone here. I miss him so much, every day, every hour, every minute. I would trade him back with anything... I feel so sorry for recent bad news for friends and their family here who is having hard time. It just breaks my heart. The damned disease.

Lucy
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  • Sonia32
    Sonia32 Member Posts: 1,071 Member
    #2
    Lucy Hugs
    I am so sorry for the loss of your dear husband, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Hugs
  • Fb489
    Fb489 Member Posts: 69
    #3
    sad
    My sincere condolences,
    May god give you strength and perseverance during this difficult time.

    Saffie.
  • TMac52
    TMac52 Member Posts: 352
    #4
    My Heart goes out to you!
    Lucy I pray that you find peace with the loss in knowing your husband suffers no more.
    I am so sorry for your loss.
    Tom
  • pepebcn
    pepebcn Member Posts: 6,331 Member
    #5
    TMac52 said:

    My Heart goes out to you!
    Lucy I pray that you find peace with the loss in knowing your husband suffers no more.
    I am so sorry for your loss.
    Tom

    Feel so sorry for the loose!
    You and him will be in my prayers today.
    Take care of you too.
  • Buzzard
    Buzzard Member Posts: 3,043 Member
    #6
    pepebcn said:

    Feel so sorry for the loose!
    You and him will be in my prayers today.
    Take care of you too.

    Lucy.........Please, accept my sympathies
    know that we are behind you and in hopes that in time it will get better...Hope for peace and calm for you during these times....Love to you always...Clift
  • AnneCan
    AnneCan Member Posts: 3,673 Member
    #7
    Lucy
    I am so sorry for the loss of your husband.
  • plh4gail
    plh4gail Member Posts: 1,238 Member
    #8
    Lucy I'm so sorry for your
    Lucy I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish I could wrap my arms around you, so please accept this cyber hug my dear.

    Love and hugs to you and your family, Gail
  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties Member Posts: 3,364 Member
    #9
    Dear Lucy
    So very sorry that you have lost your loving husband to this disease.

    I hope that you may find some peace in your heart and mind as you remember the best days of your life together.

    Thank you for letting us know. Take care of yourself.

    Hugs,

    Marie who loves kitties
  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    #10
    Lucy
    Lucy,
    I am so sorry for the loss of your precious husband. I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers.

    Aloha,
    Kathleen
  • Lori-S
    Lori-S Member Posts: 1,277 Member
    #11
    Lucy
    I am so sad to hear that you have lost your husband. This disease ... damn it! HUGS
  • luvmum
    luvmum Member Posts: 457 Member
    #12
    I'm so sorry to hear that!
    Dear Lucy,

    I'm very sad to hear that... I hope you will try to stay strong!

    I hate this disease very very very very very.... much too!

    Love Dora
  • steved
    steved Member Posts: 834 Member
    #13
    Do not feel bad for posting this
    I am so sorry to hear your news. However do not feel bad for posting it here. All of us who live with cancer, live with our own mortality staring us straight in the face and we cannot live denying its reality. Your loss reminds us all the more to fight this damn thing and to enjoy all the time we are here. It also enphasises the need to enjoy the time with those we love and who fight this together with us.
    My thoughts are with you.
    steve
  • Unknown
    Unknown
    #14
    steved said:

    Do not feel bad for posting this
    I am so sorry to hear your news. However do not feel bad for posting it here. All of us who live with cancer, live with our own mortality staring us straight in the face and we cannot live denying its reality. Your loss reminds us all the more to fight this damn thing and to enjoy all the time we are here. It also enphasises the need to enjoy the time with those we love and who fight this together with us.
    My thoughts are with you.
    steve

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  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member
    #15
    unknown said:

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    Words don't bring much
    Words don't bring much comfort, but time will lessen the pain. One foot in front of the other. Be Strong! Big Hug!
  • jjaj133
    jjaj133 Member Posts: 867 Member
    #16
    My deepest sympathies
    Lucy, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband of 33 year at age 52. If you need a shoulder I am here for you. Feel free to PM anytime.
    There are no magic words. Just know you are in my prayers.
    God Bless,
    Judy
  • Fight for my love
    Fight for my love Member Posts: 1,522 Member
    #17
    Lucy,my prayers are with
    Lucy,my prayers are with you.I am so sorry for your loss.
  • Luv2lunch
    Luv2lunch Member Posts: 270
    #18
    So sorry
    Lucy,
    We are so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
    Linda and Mom
  • lisa42
    lisa42 Member Posts: 3,625 Member
    #19
    Hi Lucy
    Hi Lucy,

    I'm so sorry to hear of your husband's passing- please accept my condolences.
    I'm glad you joined this board- we are a very supportive group here, you will find.
    Please don't feel like you have to apologize for "bringing more bad news"- by any means. Although it is sometimes hard to hear sad news, we are here for the good and the bad & we want to be here for you when you need it.
    I am living with cancer & was diagnosed back in August of 2007. It has, unfortunately, become just part of my life- going for chemo every other week is just something I do- I don't think about it quite like I did at first.

    Your life is now quite changed, as you obviously already know- I do hope that you have a supportive group of friends and family to help you out when you need help or support. If not, come on here as often as you want.

    I will be thinking of you (and praying for you, if that's okay with you) as you go through this very difficult time.

    Take care & hugs to you-
    Lisa
  • LivinginNH
    LivinginNH Member Posts: 1,456 Member
    #20
    Dear Lucy, you have my

    Dear Lucy, you have my deepest condolences on the loss of your husband. I can feel the heartbreak in your words, and I'm so sorry that you've had to experience this loss. My hope for you is that the love that you've shared together will warm your heart and help to heal the pain. Please try to stay strong since I'm sure that your husband would want you to have a long and healthy life. You can do it, one day at a time. With my deepest sympathy, Cynthia
  • mommyof2kds
    mommyof2kds Member Posts: 519
    #21
    LivinginNH said:

    Dear Lucy, you have my

    Dear Lucy, you have my deepest condolences on the loss of your husband. I can feel the heartbreak in your words, and I'm so sorry that you've had to experience this loss. My hope for you is that the love that you've shared together will warm your heart and help to heal the pain. Please try to stay strong since I'm sure that your husband would want you to have a long and healthy life. You can do it, one day at a time. With my deepest sympathy, Cynthia

    Lucy, so sorry to hear of
    Lucy, so sorry to hear of your loss. I can only imagine the pain you feel. Hold onto those memories and the wonderful life you had together. God bless.

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