molimoli update

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  • Charissa
    Charissa Member Posts: 129 Member
    #22
    My heart is so saddened. I

    My heart is so saddened. I can't imagine what you girls are going through. I, also, just recently joined this group, so I never got the opportunity to chat with your precious mother. But, my eyes filled with tears, just reading this post. There is a bond created here, like no other. I can't explain it. It is a beautiful bond. This group is wonderful. They truly care and love each other, as family. They have been a true blessing to me.

    From some of the posts I have read written by your mother; she appears to have been a phenomenal woman. How blessed that her words of encouragement and wisdom will continue through her posts. I pray the Lord will wrap His kind and loving arms around both of you and comfort you in the days ahead. I will look forward to meeting her, some day, in our eternal home. In the meantime, virtual hugs to each you. I am sincerely sorry for your loss.

  • Soup52
    Soup52 Member Posts: 908 Member
    edited July 2016 #23
    I am so saddened to learn of

    I am so saddened to learn of Moli's passing. I am a newer member also, but I did read her posts and was encouraged by them. My deepest sympathy to you all. May she rest in peace.

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,688 Member
    #24
    debrajo said:

    Janh

    Thank you Jan!  There is so little we can do,especially living all over the country, but if you will do this for all of us I would be so very grateful!  Still can't get my head around the fact I will never see her post and her Nuff, Nuff Love!  Thanks again, Debra(Jo)

    Janh,

    thank you so much for offering to  represent all of us.

  • TeddyandBears_Mom
    TeddyandBears_Mom Member Posts: 1,814 Member
    edited July 2016 #25
    ConnieSW said:

    Janh,

    thank you so much for offering to  represent all of us.

    Thank You JanH. It makes such

    Thank You JanH. It makes such a difference knowing that we have someone there to represent us and our love for our friend Moli.

    Love and Hugs,

    Cindi

  • Sandy3185
    Sandy3185 Member Posts: 229 Member
    #26
    So, so sorry

    Your mom will be profoundly missed! She was a wonderful person, an inspiration to all of us. Thank you so much for letting us know. I know you would have liked to be there for her the entire time, but she knew how much she was loved and did not want to allow her illness to interrupt your lives. She loved you so much and was sustained by seeing you moving forward with your plans. Believe that the greatest support you could have provided your mom was letting her protect you from the knowledge of her illness. She was convinced that freeing you from the concern for her health was the very best for both her daughters and herself and comforted her throughout this journey.

    Love, Sandy

  • janh_in_ontario
    janh_in_ontario Member Posts: 151 Member
    #27
    update

    So the funeral will be Thursday, July 7 at 1:30pm. I will attend on all of our behalf.

     

    The funeral is at RS Kane funeral home. The online condolences are not yet available but will be shortly.

    Moli's name is Betty Grant

    If you would like to send a card you can send to:

    1604 Sagebrush Ciurt, Windsor, ON  N9G 3B8

    Let me know if there is anything I should be saying or doing on Thursday other than hugging the girls and passing along all your love.

    Jan

  • debrajo
    debrajo Member Posts: 1,095 Member
    edited July 2016 #28
    janh_in_ontario said:

    update

    So the funeral will be Thursday, July 7 at 1:30pm. I will attend on all of our behalf.

     

    The funeral is at RS Kane funeral home. The online condolences are not yet available but will be shortly.

    Moli's name is Betty Grant

    If you would like to send a card you can send to:

    1604 Sagebrush Ciurt, Windsor, ON  N9G 3B8

    Let me know if there is anything I should be saying or doing on Thursday other than hugging the girls and passing along all your love.

    Jan

    Funeral

    Is the address yours or the funeral home?  I have a card ready to go on the 5th.  Do you think it will get there in time?  Maybe make a list of all our names who knew Moli at CSN to put in the pages of the funeral book?  Just a thought.  Dear God, this just can't be hapening again! As Sandy said, be sure to let the girls know that the not telling them was Molis strongest wish.  It gave her Peace of mind!  Thank you Jan, Debra(jo)

  • janh_in_ontario
    janh_in_ontario Member Posts: 151 Member
    edited July 2016 #29
    debrajo said:

    Funeral

    Is the address yours or the funeral home?  I have a card ready to go on the 5th.  Do you think it will get there in time?  Maybe make a list of all our names who knew Moli at CSN to put in the pages of the funeral book?  Just a thought.  Dear God, this just can't be hapening again! As Sandy said, be sure to let the girls know that the not telling them was Molis strongest wish.  It gave her Peace of mind!  Thank you Jan, Debra(jo)

    mail and thursday

    The mail will not cross borders that quickly but I would send the card anyway.

    The address is one her daughter gave me so I am presuming it is one of the daughters' addresses.

    I love the idea of filling in the guest book. If you want your name listed please private message me so I can make a list for Thursday! GREAT IDEA!

    Jan

  • janaes
    janaes Member Posts: 799 Member
    #30
    I didnt know your daughter. 

    I didnt know your daughter.  I joined the forum not to long ago but still feel sadend by her loss. I hope the best for you and your family as you go forward in this journey. 

  • pinky104
    pinky104 Member Posts: 574 Member
    edited July 2016 #31
    Molimoli

    I'm someone who has managed to survive NED for 6 years after having stage IVb UPSC and have read her posts for some time.  I always found your mother's writing on here very intriguing. She had a fascinating way of expressing herself and I always read them wishing I could express myself as well as she could.  She must have had a really great mind.  We were all hoping she just needed a little time to recover and then she'd be back. We'll all miss her for a long time. 

  • janaes
    janaes Member Posts: 799 Member
    edited July 2016 #32
    Im so sorry.  I wrote

    Im so sorry.  I wrote daughter but meant your mother on my post.

  • MAbound
    MAbound Member Posts: 1,175 Member
    #33
    Thinking of you

    I didn't get a chance to know your mother, but clearly what she shared here mattered deeply to others and I hope that brings you some comfort. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

  • ncg007
    ncg007 Member Posts: 138 Member
    #34
    Molimoli's Daughters

    i am heart broken to hear the passing of your mom.  As you can see from the responses we all loved her wisdom and words of encouragement she gave us all.  She was a true warrior of this sisterhood.  May Betty rest in peace.

    Nancy

  • Kaleena
    Kaleena Member Posts: 2,088 Member
    edited July 2016 #35
    Sorry for your loss

    Dear Molimoli daughter

    So sorry to hear of Moli's passing.  I haven't been on for awhile and was sadden to hear about moli.  Sorry, I am at a loss of words.  But in the words of your

    mom,  Nuff Nuff said.

    Rest in peace dear friend.  Until we meet again.

    Kathy

  • Double Whammy
    Double Whammy Member Posts: 2,832 Member
    edited July 2016 #36
    I am so sad

    Dear Daughters of our Molimoli:

    I, too, just got online to read the sad news about your mother.  She will be missed by all. 

    Suzanne

  • txtrisha55
    txtrisha55 Member Posts: 693 Member
    #37
    Deepest sympathy for the loss

    Deepest sympathy for the loss of your mother.  She was always so gracious to all of us on this site.  May God hold the family in His arms while you go through this difficult time.  Know that she did love her kids.  Trish in Texas.

  • TAyers
    TAyers Member Posts: 86 Member
    #38
    Sorry

    i am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing, prayers are sent.

  • giggs100
    giggs100 Member Posts: 91 Member
    #39
    Deepest sympathy on the loss of your mom

    My deepest sympathy on the loss of your mom.   She was quite a woman - so wise and so kind.  My prayers are with your family during this difficult time.

    Jerri

  • janh_in_ontario
    janh_in_ontario Member Posts: 151 Member
    #40
    Sad day

    i was honorsd to represent you all at Molimoli's funeral. I gave her daughters your hugs, condolences and best wishes. I tried to assure them their Mom loved them and was protecting them by not telling them of her illness but I am not sure they were ready to accept yet.

    It was very evident Moli had told very few people (if anyone) and there were many very sad people there with heavy hearts and some regrets.

    I am mot sure Moli made the right decision - she gave me lots to ponder today.

     

    More later. 

    JanH

  • TeddyandBears_Mom
    TeddyandBears_Mom Member Posts: 1,814 Member
    #41
    janh_in_ontario said:

    Sad day

    i was honorsd to represent you all at Molimoli's funeral. I gave her daughters your hugs, condolences and best wishes. I tried to assure them their Mom loved them and was protecting them by not telling them of her illness but I am not sure they were ready to accept yet.

    It was very evident Moli had told very few people (if anyone) and there were many very sad people there with heavy hearts and some regrets.

    I am mot sure Moli made the right decision - she gave me lots to ponder today.

     

    More later. 

    JanH

    Jan, thanks for representing

    Jan, thanks for representing all of us. It means a lot.

    I have never been good at being subtle. I'm going to try my best right now...

    I believe Moli felt like she was doing the best for everyone by keeping this to herself. Many of us begged her to not keep the secret. From a daughter's point of view I would want to know. From a sister, parent, friend the same thing. It saddens me to think that she may not have realized how many people loved her deeply. Maybe she did and this was her way to protect them. Maybe she was in denial. Maybe she really believed that the surgery was the answer. I know we all have to make our own decisions about treatment but I so wanted her to give chemo a chance. I believe she was more afraid of it than everything else. That makes me cry every day for her! I wish things would have been different.

    I'm not passing judgment at all here. So, I hope I haven't offended anyone. I loved our Moli and miss her very much.

    Love and Hugs,

    Cindi

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