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Hello all,

It is with the heaviest of hearts that we share with you that our mother lost her battle this morning. The support you provided her with was invaluable. We really appreciate that you continually encouraged her to confide in us. In the end, we were able to spend the past month and a half supporting her, although we desperately wish that we could have been more involved all along.

She spoke very highly of you all in the past few weeks, even though she didn't have enough energy to write. Just know that she cared about your opinions and well being very much.

Wishing you all the best. 

molimoli's daughters

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  • CheeseQueen57
    CheeseQueen57 Member Posts: 933 Member
    edited June 2016 #2
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    Our hearts are broken

    This is news we dreaded.  Our hearts are broken and our souls are aching.  Tears all around.  A warrior has gone on to paradise.  Thank you Molimoli for the support and love you gave to all of us.  And thank you daughters for letting us know about our dear Moli.  May God wrap you in his arms to comfort you. 

  • Unknown
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    I'm sorry

    I didn't know your mother as much as others, only recently joined.  But she posted back to me and encouraged me.  She had a wonderful humor and outlook on life, I thought and hoped that the surgery was a success.  Please know I thought your mother was a grand lady.  Hugs Nancy

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,680 Member
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    I was so afraid of this

    Thank you so much for letting us know.  We become surrogate family here and we care so very much.  I'm glad you had these last few weeks with her.  She wanted so much to spare you as long as she could.  Know that her words on this site have helped so many ( as you will see when you return here over the next days and weeks) and they will continue to help new members for years to come.  I consider that a good legacy.

    We kinda feel like we know the two of you, too.   Take care of each other and may your memories bring you peace.

    Connie

  • TeddyandBears_Mom
    TeddyandBears_Mom Member Posts: 1,814 Member
    edited June 2016 #5
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    Moli's Daughters

    I type this with shaking hands and tears down my face. I'm so sorry for your loss and ours on this board. I came to love Moli as a dear sister and had high hopes that her surgery would get her a clean bill of health.  She will be greatly missed. Her sense of humor, love of her daughters and general outlook on life were inspiring to say the least. Please know that she is pain-free and at peace.

    Please take care of each other and take comfort knowing that your Mom made a difference in our lives and that she loved you with her entire being.

    Love and Hugs,

    Cindi

  • Kvdyson
    Kvdyson Member Posts: 790 Member
    edited June 2016 #6
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    So very sorry

    So very sorry to hear this news. Please accept my most heartfelt condolence for your loss. I am fairly new to this board and didn't know your Mom well but could tell by her posts and the replies to them that she was well loved here. I am so grateful to have been given the gift of her humor and her wonderful attitude toward life. Thank you for sharing her with us. Wishing you peace and comfort. Kim

  • namedropper
    namedropper Member Posts: 102 Member
    edited June 2016 #7
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    So sorry to hear the sad news

    So sorry to hear the sad news. She will be missed by all of us who have gotten to know her. She loved you very, very much. Sue  

  • EZLiving66
    EZLiving66 Member Posts: 1,483 Member
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    I am so so sorry.  Your

    I am so so sorry.  Your mother loved you so much and wanted to spare you.  She was a wonderful woman and gave us all so much love and support.  My heart is just breaking.  I just emailed her yesterday to see how see how she was doing because I was worried about her.  She fought this horrible disease her own way but I'm glad, in the end, she had you girls.  Please go back and read her posts - so much love and humor.  It's hard to write this through the tears but I wanted you to know she was loved.

    Love, 

    Eldri

  • Virgil90012
    Virgil90012 Member Posts: 35 Member
    edited June 2016 #9
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    My Deepest Condolences

    I am so sorry to hear about your mother.  She was always uplifiting others on this website.  She was a godsend. 

  • NoTimeForCancer
    NoTimeForCancer Member Posts: 3,385 Member
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    Mmnn, thank you for taking

    Mmnn, thank you for taking the time at this difficult time to let us know about your mother, molimoli.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  • brissance
    brissance Member Posts: 192
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    God Bless and Keep You

    I am so so sorry for you. I am also new and did not know Moli as many of the long timers did but when they heard from Moli about her new challenge, all the women spoke of he so fondly I did as Eldri just suggested, I reviewed her post.  What a strong, loving and "alive" spirit she had. She gave me strength.

    Although you can rationally know death is coming to your mom, or any dear one, you are never ever ready.  She is (in my belief) in a better place and she is whole, healed and strong.  You will always miss her and not a day will pass that you won't want to share a joke, seek advice or just get strength from "your" mom.  Cancer took my mom 29 years ago next month..  and I still reach for the phone to call her.  But the emptiness and sadness will ease and the memories of her and her love will remain.  I can hear my mom's hearty belly laugh and see her red hair flaming in the sun now as I did 50 years ago.  

    Yes, you have pain and loss but you also have love and that will never die.  God Bless you and ease your as well as your family's sadness.

    Patty

     

  • Editgrl
    Editgrl Member Posts: 903 Member
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    I am so sorry.

    Moli was one of a kind and she did things on her own terms.  My eyes are burning, and I feel so sad that she has left you, and us, far too soon.  I will remember her humor, her strength, her determination, and her generosity in sharing on this board.  I am glad that you were able to share these last weeks with her.  She loved you so much.  Wishing you peace and strength during this difficult time.

    Chris

  • debrajo
    debrajo Member Posts: 1,095 Member
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    Moli

    Thank you for telling us...I just wrote her an e-mail yesterday.  I'm sorry, my heart hurts too much to continue this.  Will you let us know the arraingments, if any? Nuff, Nuff, Love,  Debrajo

  • Mmnn
    Mmnn Member Posts: 3
    edited July 2016 #14
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    debrajo said:

    Moli

    Thank you for telling us...I just wrote her an e-mail yesterday.  I'm sorry, my heart hurts too much to continue this.  Will you let us know the arraingments, if any? Nuff, Nuff, Love,  Debrajo

    Yes, of course. For anyone

    Yes, of course. For anyone who is based in Toronto, please send me a message and I can share details of the arrangements once they are confirmed this weekend.

  • debrajo
    debrajo Member Posts: 1,095 Member
    edited July 2016 #15
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    Mmnn said:

    Yes, of course. For anyone

    Yes, of course. For anyone who is based in Toronto, please send me a message and I can share details of the arrangements once they are confirmed this weekend.

    Moli

    I'm in Texas, but would love to sign the guest book.  Your mother ment a great deal to me.  God Bless Y'all   Debrajo

  • joyce6611
    joyce6611 Member Posts: 51 Member
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    Deepest Sympathy

    I am fairly new, but always read your Mom's postings.  We will all miss her very much.  She was such a strong person and had a great sense of humor.  Thank you for taking the time to let us know.

    Joyce

     

  • janh_in_ontario
    janh_in_ontario Member Posts: 151 Member
    edited July 2016 #17
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    Mmnn said:

    Yes, of course. For anyone

    Yes, of course. For anyone who is based in Toronto, please send me a message and I can share details of the arrangements once they are confirmed this weekend.

    your mom

    I am in Toronto and would be honored to represent this band of sisters. I messaged you for the details

    Stay strong and know your mom made a difference in many lives.

    Jan H

  • EZLiving66
    EZLiving66 Member Posts: 1,483 Member
    edited July 2016 #18
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    your mom

    I am in Toronto and would be honored to represent this band of sisters. I messaged you for the details

    Stay strong and know your mom made a difference in many lives.

    Jan H

    Jan, that would be wonderful!

    Jan, that would be wonderful!  Is there a place we can send a card?  

    Love, 

    Eldri

  • janh_in_ontario
    janh_in_ontario Member Posts: 151 Member
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    Jan, that would be wonderful!

    Jan, that would be wonderful!  Is there a place we can send a card?  

    Love, 

    Eldri

    moli

    As soon as I get the details I will post it here. I would be honored to take messages or cards or you will be able to post on a website as well, I would expect.

    It is Canada Day here so most things are closed, plans are probably delayed.

    Stay tuned!

    Jan

  • debrajo
    debrajo Member Posts: 1,095 Member
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    Janh

    Thank you Jan!  There is so little we can do,especially living all over the country, but if you will do this for all of us I would be so very grateful!  Still can't get my head around the fact I will never see her post and her Nuff, Nuff Love!  Thanks again, Debra(Jo)

  • Lou Ann M
    Lou Ann M Member Posts: 996 Member
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    Deepest sympathy

    Moli's daughters, you were loved so much.  I lover reading your mom'S post. She had such a way with words.  She will be missed here.  Thanks for letting us know this very sad news.

    Hugs and prayers, Lou Ann