I have been recently diagnosed with breast cancer and am scheduled for surgery in early July. I am more than a bit worried about this whole process. I have cancer in one breast and an "area of suspicion" in the other so I opted to do a double mastectomy with reconstruction so I only have to dance with the devil one time. I am going to have a TRAM procedure done for the reconstruction. The whole process is scarry and I just don't know what to expect. Any advice? I have researched the whole "mess" and have a good support network from my children and friends. Just making worry a part of my day now!