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dorookie
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Its not cancer related, but my son killed himself tonight, he had been very depressed and struggling with addictions..please pray for my partner it was her first born...My heart is just so painful..I dont have the words to type anymore, I just know I and my partner need your prayers...

Thank you
Beth

damama24
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Beth
I am so sorry to hear of this terable loss. My heart truly aches for you and your partner.I will be praying that God can hold and heal you during these trying times.Much love.
Deb

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herdizziness
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No words can express my sorrow at your loss.
Winter Marie

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KathiM
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It's inconcievable how anything can be worth stopping life...but there is for some. My dad was one, and so I can feel the shock you all must be in.

We should NEVER need to say goodbye to a child, but that, too, I have done....

Know that I am here, whenever you need me....I left some lights burning along my way....

Hugs, Kathi

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Kathleen808
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Beth,
I am so sorry about this tremendous loss for you and Wendy. I am praying for you now my friend. Oh what pain for the two of you.

Aloha,
Kathleen

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Beth, oh goodness, I am so sorry that you are all going through this.... Kids do things that we just never understand, depression sets in and it is so tough to reach someone that is in that stage, it's horrible. As a mother, I don't know what I would do, or think if my child, who is now an adult decided to take their life. I'm so sorry for your loss! Big Hugs to both of you!

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I am so very sorry to hear of this...I am here if you need me......Love ya both, Clift

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kristasplace
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My deepest condolences, Beth. Depression is just as serious of an illness as cancer. May your pain be eased by knowing he's no longer in pain. What a horrible tragedy. All my prayers are with you tonight.

Krista

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Joy1216
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I'm so sad to hear of your loss. I'll keep your family in my prayers.
Joy

dorookie
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Wendy is finally sleeping, I am going to go try and sleep, I dont want to leave her alone. Again thank you, and thanks for the prayers.

Hugs
Beth

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pepebcn
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to hear this new!
prayers for all your family.
Pepe.

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nudgie
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Dear God, please provide strength and guidance to this family during their time of grief and hardship. Show them your love and compassion. AMEN

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ktlcs
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I am so sorry to learn of your loss. It is so hard to understand why someone chooses to end their life, sometimes just the effort of living every day is too much

My prayers are with both of you

Kathy

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pepebcn
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AMEN

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I'm so sorry about your son. I can't imagine what both you and your partner are going through. I do know about depression and how bad it can get :-( My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Hugs to you both. Sonia

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Dear Beth,

So sorry to hear that you and family are faced with this terrible loss.

Depression is a terrible disease as is addiction.

We try to raise our children so they can live long happy lives, but sometimes other life issues creep in and put them in harms way.

Prayers to you all that with time you may find that remembering those lost will bring only smiles for the time you had together and not the tears and pain which you are feeling now.

Hugs,

Marie who loves kitties

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geotina
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I am so sorry for you and Wendy. To lose a child has to be the biggest heartache in the world.

You two are in my thoughts and prayers as you struggle through the next few days and months.

Take care - Tina

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angelsbaby
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Sorry beth and wendy .

michelle

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I am so sorry for this loss. I am thinking about you + Wendy. Please take good care of yourself + Wendy.

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Dear Beth,

I am so very sorry. My heart goes out to you and Wendy and your wider family.

Love,
Tara

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Beth,

Thinking of you and Wendy at this most difficult time.

Remember the Good Times and keep them in your heart and mind.

Lizzy

khl8
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Beth, I am so sorry for your loss.

Kathy

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Beth,

I'm so, so very sorry for your loss. Such a tragedy- my prayers will be with and for you and Wendy and all the family.

Hugs,
Lisa

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Dear Beth, Wendy, and family. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

-Pat

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coolvdub
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Beth,Wendy and family,

Such a sad thing to have happen. I can't even begin to say how sorry I am for your loss, and the loss of a child makes it all the harder to understand. I will pray for you guys during this difficult time.

Don

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Sundanceh
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Total tragedy!

Heart is with you both during this time. I do hope I can make CP8, 'cause I'd like to see you there and give you a hug:)

-Craig

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Dear Beth,

I am so sad to hear of your loss. I will be holding your family in prayer. Praying for peace and comfort.

Big Hugs and Prayers,

Debbie

dorookie
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Thank you all for thinking of me and being such a support to both of us in this unbelievable circumstance. Your prayers are felt in my heart as I walk through another fork in the road, Bless you all. You are some of the finest people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing through Beth.

May all your prayers be answered, stay well.

Love
Wendy

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braelee2
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so sorry for your loss. Prayer sent your way.

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I am so sorry that you are both going through this horrendous time in your lives. But I am so glad you have each other to lean upon, when there really are no answers to explain why this happened. Mikey no longer has the troubles that were plaguing him here on this earth and although we don't understand why he had to leave, he has continued on with his journey. The one thing neither of you should be doing is blaming yourselves "What did I miss? Why wasn't I there for him? Was there something I could have said or done so this tragedy was averted?" The answer is "Nothing. You were. No". For reasons we don't understand, things unfold as they were meant to unfold... and as much as we don't understand them or even like them, we must learn to accept them for what they are.

Surround yourselves with love and peaceful thoughts. Do not torture yourselves in thinking "What if..." because "What if..." didn't happen. It is going to be a tough couple of days/weeks/months to get through but you both are surrounded by the love and support of friends and family so hang in there!!

Hugggggs!

Cheryl

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karguy
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Oh I feel so sorry for you,I will be praying for you both.I lost 3 brothers to suicide.It's never easy.May god be with you.

sasjourney
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I'm so sorry to hear this news. You and your family are in my prayers.

God bless,
Sara

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462lt
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I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers going out to you and your partner. Laura

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Annabelle41415
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So sorry to hear this news. Sometimes we just cant understand why things so terrible as this happens. You both are in my prayers.

Kim

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sharpy102
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@Beth: I am very sorry to hear that. Of course, we will be thinking of you, cross our fingers, and pray for you and your family. This is horrible...>.< I am really really sorry...:(

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hugs to you and Wendy. I am so sorry!

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idlehunters
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Wow... I am so very very sorry to hear this. Oh man... this just made me cry.... this hit close to home and you know why. If there is anything I can do please let me know. I am at a loss for words. Definately sending prayers your way. Hugs to you both....

Jennie

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tootsie1
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Oh, my God. I'm so sorry. Beth and Wendy, you have my prayers.

*hugs*
Gail

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okthen
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You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.....I pray that God will help you through this painful time.
Chriss

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msccolon
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This is hard news to hear. His choice has left behind a terrible mess that will be difficult for you guys to clean up. I pray for strength and healing for you and Wendy. Big hugs
mary

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luv3jay
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Oh Beth, I'm so sorry to hear this. Nothing could possibly compare to the loss of a child. My heart aches for you both. You and your family are in my prayers.

Sheri

mom_2_3
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Beth,

I have no words. You and your family are in my prayers.

Amy

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lesvanb
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No words can express the shock and deep sorrow over the loss and death of your son. I hold you both close in my heart and pray that you be comforted.

Love, Leslie

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I'm so sorry to hear about this. Beth & Wendy - you and the rest of your family are in my prayers.

My grandfather took his own life, and so did my husband's stepson from his last marraige, and a friend of mine a few years ago that left behind elementary aged boys (my boys' ages). It never seems to make sense to us if we aren't suffering from depression. It is such an awful disease, and so hard for others to understand that it actually is a disease.

I hope you both consider counseling if you have trouble coming to terms with his death. This is different than losing a child for other reasons. I pray for comfort and strength for all of you to get through this very hard time.

dorookie
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This is a very hard time for Wendy and I, Thank you for all your posts and for keeping us in your prayers.

HUGS
Beth

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HollyID
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My husband and I are sending our deepest condolences. We pray for peace in your house.

God Bless...

Holly

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