any others who don't panic or worry (prior to mammo etc)
I have never had this? Even when they called me back immediatly for another mammo (then biopsy , mri etc) I DID not panic-thought oh it's ok.
I have been going every 3-6mths (this week got the ok once a year) for mammo. I just go to the appts like I had prior to cancer....after reading I feel like I am the only one who does not lose sleep etc. I JUST GOT MY letter from mammo saying all ok..I SHOWED my husband and adult kids-
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Can't believe I haven't been freaking out either
So, now I know I'm not alone. I'm not panicking either. I was only diagnosed 2 1/2 months ago, had a mastectomy 2 weeks ago and seem to be recovering rather quickly from that. after about 4 days I felt great. Dr. said they got it all but are going forward with 5 1/2 months of chemo. & hormone therapy that should go through the end of next year. Precautionary only. I feel like I should be freaking out but I'm not. Lots of family and friend support. I guess if I was alone it would be different.0 -
so I am not alone-Suzie-Q-Z said:Can't believe I haven't been freaking out either
So, now I know I'm not alone. I'm not panicking either. I was only diagnosed 2 1/2 months ago, had a mastectomy 2 weeks ago and seem to be recovering rather quickly from that. after about 4 days I felt great. Dr. said they got it all but are going forward with 5 1/2 months of chemo. & hormone therapy that should go through the end of next year. Precautionary only. I feel like I should be freaking out but I'm not. Lots of family and friend support. I guess if I was alone it would be different.
Don't get me wrong..I cried many days...worried about what i would look like an all. But for routine tests etc. I just go like any other Dr appt..
I kept 2 journals the whole time...on occassion look back-yes scared at times of course-but never lose sleep waiting to hear etc.
Glad to hear you are doing okay with it all. The journals helped me-a friend gave me one and cancer center the other (which was book with misc sayings etc and space to write thoughts) Keep up the NOT FREAKING out! & yours is so new 2 1/2 mth and mine 2 1/2 yrs...0 -
Well .. as I figure it, I right in the middle of thingsdisneyfan2008 said:so I am not alone-
Don't get me wrong..I cried many days...worried about what i would look like an all. But for routine tests etc. I just go like any other Dr appt..
I kept 2 journals the whole time...on occassion look back-yes scared at times of course-but never lose sleep waiting to hear etc.
Glad to hear you are doing okay with it all. The journals helped me-a friend gave me one and cancer center the other (which was book with misc sayings etc and space to write thoughts) Keep up the NOT FREAKING out! & yours is so new 2 1/2 mth and mine 2 1/2 yrs...
8/14/09 .. told I had breast cancer .. chemo 6 months ..plus 1 year of herceptin , 8 surgeries which include a bi lateral mac'ty, staph infection to 1 breast due to a vacation to the Grand Canyon .. reconstruction surgery ..etc .. Yes, I still freak out .. even when I have to go and get a blood panel or pap smear!
What calms me .. is saying to myself .. I've had breast cancer, I bet the odds and I will and can do it, again.
Journaling helped me as well.
Strength and Courage:
Vicki Sam0 -
AtivanVickiSam said:Well .. as I figure it, I right in the middle of things
8/14/09 .. told I had breast cancer .. chemo 6 months ..plus 1 year of herceptin , 8 surgeries which include a bi lateral mac'ty, staph infection to 1 breast due to a vacation to the Grand Canyon .. reconstruction surgery ..etc .. Yes, I still freak out .. even when I have to go and get a blood panel or pap smear!
What calms me .. is saying to myself .. I've had breast cancer, I bet the odds and I will and can do it, again.
Journaling helped me as well.
Strength and Courage:
Vicki Sam
I'v been through a lot too, when I'v got a scan or something else that rattles my cage I take a pill! lol Hugs to all....alison0 -
I'm so happy with your news.cahjah75 said:Congrats
on the clear mammo :-) I don't lose sleep over any test. I will no longer be having mammos since I had bilateral mastectomy. My surgeon said I'll have an xray.
Char
I'm so happy with your news. I will have my first post treatment in Jan. and I hope I can keep my anxiety down to a liveable level. We shall see!!! Enjoy your great results.0 -
I have no anxiety, no panic eitherGayleMc said:I'm so happy with your news.
I'm so happy with your news. I will have my first post treatment in Jan. and I hope I can keep my anxiety down to a liveable level. We shall see!!! Enjoy your great results.
I have never suffered from anxiety, stress, or been depressed. I didn't stress when diagnosed, thru treatments (although I wanted the chemo to be over with) or now when I have tests, or dr. appts. Never lost sleep due to worry. I just don't worry.
I feel like you can only do the best you can do and leave the rest up to God.0 -
I am another one
I am another one who never panic nor had fear nor cried, both times when I was told that I had cancer because I firmly believe that I will live until my 90's. It is comforting to hear that there are others like me.
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I'm from 2005....
Nope, don't panic...just HATE the squishing...I'm in the camp of wanting to know if there is anything, so I can act upon it....my cancerous lump was 10 years feelable (word?) before being biopsied...
and then it took rectal cancer PET scan to find it!!!
I do despise MRI's for breast...only because I have, as it turns out, frozen shoulder from a fall while skating last year on the iced canal outside the house in The Netherlands....putting my arms over my head causes indescribible pain!!!
Also, the prep for a colonoscopy for the rectal cancer checkup...ewwww...but, I still do that, too...
You are not alone...
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so I am not alonedee1962 said:I never used to freak out
I never used to freak out either who knows maybe its a good thing.....whatever works for us.....great news...
I had read many posts losing sleep etc..I said to my husband is it just me...SHOULD i be in panic....
I just think we can't change it..and must go forward....enjoy life with out too much freat of what could/can be...enjoy it while good...0
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