Scared about my marriage
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Hubby i believe that is howms.sunshine said:Going thru treatments made
Going thru treatments made me realize how selfish my husband really is. I knew right away not to expect him to step-up, just wasn't going to happen. I looked for the women in my life to step-up, and they did. I was shocked and disappointed in his behavior, and words spoken. I didn't ask for much, but on a few occasions I told him what I needed him to do for me. He looked right at me, his answer was "no". I lost so much respect for him. He wasn't the man I thought him to be. I'm not going to leave, he isn't that bad. He isn't my knight in shining armor anymore.
Nowadays I do more for me. I have learned to put some of my needs before him. I quit trying to be the 'perfect wife' which is liberating. I'm happier,and more relaxed.
It will get better for you once the treatments have ended.
Hubby i believe that is how my husband felt, and he had to survive this too. I wasnt mad , well ok a couple of times I was, but I did understand. We all just do our best.0
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