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  • JR1949
    JR1949 Member Posts: 230
    griff 1 said:

    trew
    i like that statement, now someone tell me this is just a simple cancer. how true bro, i had someone come in my work and asked me why i had surgery to have my prostate removed. he said his father has it and its no big deal, man i wanted to whack him. i told him i,m 52 and your dad is in his 70,s. i just left it at that. man people should,nt say anything if they don,t know about it. as far as cath designer colors you could spray paint a few and they might look good. hang in there. griff

    No Big Deal????
    Anybody who says that prostate surgery is no big deal should be whacked or something....they just don't know. You some people say that prostate cancer is no big deal, you just have to walk away and consider their ignorance.
  • 142
    142 Member Posts: 169
    JR1949 said:

    No Big Deal????
    Anybody who says that prostate surgery is no big deal should be whacked or something....they just don't know. You some people say that prostate cancer is no big deal, you just have to walk away and consider their ignorance.

    Friday and "no big deal"
    Trew,
    Hope Friday went well. My best wishes to you.

    JR -
    I get the no big deal comments a lot, followed by "someone in my family had xxx cancer, so I understand" - I have polite, respectfully brutal, and "let me show you my soggy pad" type responses depending on who makes those ignorant remarks - some people just can't learn.
    That is right up behind "you haven't lost your hair - you don't have cancer!"
  • Trew
    Trew Member Posts: 932 Member
    142 said:

    Friday and "no big deal"
    Trew,
    Hope Friday went well. My best wishes to you.

    JR -
    I get the no big deal comments a lot, followed by "someone in my family had xxx cancer, so I understand" - I have polite, respectfully brutal, and "let me show you my soggy pad" type responses depending on who makes those ignorant remarks - some people just can't learn.
    That is right up behind "you haven't lost your hair - you don't have cancer!"

    I did lose my hair from
    I did lose my hair from radiation, but in a place I can't show anyone.

    PC is real enough to me. And my wife.
  • Bizman
    Bizman Member Posts: 4
    Trew said:

    I did lose my hair from
    I did lose my hair from radiation, but in a place I can't show anyone.

    PC is real enough to me. And my wife.

    The Gift That Keeps On Giving
    A year after robotic surgery, I found that my testosterone level had dropped dramatically. I was feeling weak, no energy, my emotions were fragile and my wife thought I was showing signs of depression. I thought I was depressed because I was still leaking 1-2 pads per day and struggling to get my penis to work properly. Evidently, nothing good happens to a guy that has low testosterone. I've been on weekly testosterone serum shots for about three months and it has made a world of difference. I feel much better, stronger and my penis seems to fill better.

    I have seen no evidence that a prostatectomy can cause a reduction in testosterone levels but I won't doubt it for a minute. If your cry too much and don't feel like yourself, check your testosterone level.
  • hightide
    hightide Member Posts: 26
    Trew said:

    I did lose my hair from
    I did lose my hair from radiation, but in a place I can't show anyone.

    PC is real enough to me. And my wife.

    Last try to turn on my AUS....
    I go to the hospital in the morning(Mon. the 30th) at 7:30 for a routine colonoscopy, so while they have me asleep another doctor from the urology practice is comming in on his day off to try to activate. The consensus is that the pump does not have enough fulid in it to force the "poppet" to unseat. I have printed off the pages from the operating manuel and they told me to bring them with me. They said they would try them all if takes it while I am asleep for the other procedure. Good thing the surgon doing the colonoscopy is a friend of mine that I have known all my life. That made it easy for me to get them in his O.R. to give it a try.
    Regards, hightide
  • Skid Row Tom
    Skid Row Tom Member Posts: 125
    hightide said:

    Last try to turn on my AUS....
    I go to the hospital in the morning(Mon. the 30th) at 7:30 for a routine colonoscopy, so while they have me asleep another doctor from the urology practice is comming in on his day off to try to activate. The consensus is that the pump does not have enough fulid in it to force the "poppet" to unseat. I have printed off the pages from the operating manuel and they told me to bring them with me. They said they would try them all if takes it while I am asleep for the other procedure. Good thing the surgon doing the colonoscopy is a friend of mine that I have known all my life. That made it easy for me to get them in his O.R. to give it a try.
    Regards, hightide

    More tools needed
    Oh man! Well, good luck. Rest assured that when you're "under", doctors will feel free to use every tool at their disposal to get this thing working-- hammers, impact wrenches, vice grips...
  • Skid Row Tom
    Skid Row Tom Member Posts: 125
    hightide said:

    Last try to turn on my AUS....
    I go to the hospital in the morning(Mon. the 30th) at 7:30 for a routine colonoscopy, so while they have me asleep another doctor from the urology practice is comming in on his day off to try to activate. The consensus is that the pump does not have enough fulid in it to force the "poppet" to unseat. I have printed off the pages from the operating manuel and they told me to bring them with me. They said they would try them all if takes it while I am asleep for the other procedure. Good thing the surgon doing the colonoscopy is a friend of mine that I have known all my life. That made it easy for me to get them in his O.R. to give it a try.
    Regards, hightide

    Leak
    I guess I would have two concerns: Was the recommended amount of fluid used during "installation?", and if so, there's obviously a leak somewhere. I know the fluid is supposed to contain a dye so they can locate leaks using x-ray, MRI, or something similar. GOOD LUCK!
  • hightide
    hightide Member Posts: 26

    Leak
    I guess I would have two concerns: Was the recommended amount of fluid used during "installation?", and if so, there's obviously a leak somewhere. I know the fluid is supposed to contain a dye so they can locate leaks using x-ray, MRI, or something similar. GOOD LUCK!

    GOOD NEWS AT LAST, THANK GOD, GOOD NEWS AT LAST
    Hey Tom, thanks for your two posts and support. They put me to sleep about 9:45am to do the colonoscopy and I woke up about 10:45am and they told me "colon all clear and you are good for another five years" and then they said "Oh! by the way, you are NOW DRY !!!! " Your urologist came in on his DAY OFF and turned on your AUS !!!!!! I was tempted to take them an old pair of water pump pliers and say when you all get me to sleep, squeeze it with these!!!!!! I don't know which method worked but I am sure glad it did. I had this put in June 23rd and just now am getting the results and boy is it worth it!!!!

    Trew, If you read this, IT WORKED!! and I have been DRY the rest of the day sofar. I have operated it three times so far and it is so easy. We just have to get you in shape to get YOURS because it is really all it is cracked up to be !!!!!!
    Regards, hightide
  • Trew
    Trew Member Posts: 932 Member
    hightide said:

    GOOD NEWS AT LAST, THANK GOD, GOOD NEWS AT LAST
    Hey Tom, thanks for your two posts and support. They put me to sleep about 9:45am to do the colonoscopy and I woke up about 10:45am and they told me "colon all clear and you are good for another five years" and then they said "Oh! by the way, you are NOW DRY !!!! " Your urologist came in on his DAY OFF and turned on your AUS !!!!!! I was tempted to take them an old pair of water pump pliers and say when you all get me to sleep, squeeze it with these!!!!!! I don't know which method worked but I am sure glad it did. I had this put in June 23rd and just now am getting the results and boy is it worth it!!!!

    Trew, If you read this, IT WORKED!! and I have been DRY the rest of the day sofar. I have operated it three times so far and it is so easy. We just have to get you in shape to get YOURS because it is really all it is cracked up to be !!!!!!
    Regards, hightide

    Hightide- I am so happy for
    Hightide- I am so happy for you!

    I get this cath pulled on Wed and then I don't see Dr latinin again until Nov 1. Until then it's self-cath 2x a day. And it the strictures don't return, then it will be my turn.

    If the strictures return then we do the surgery I had Friday over again and begin the process over. We repeat that until......

    But all that aside- it is great hearing your report. I can hardly wait to push my own little button.
  • hightide
    hightide Member Posts: 26
    Trew said:

    Hightide- I am so happy for
    Hightide- I am so happy for you!

    I get this cath pulled on Wed and then I don't see Dr latinin again until Nov 1. Until then it's self-cath 2x a day. And it the strictures don't return, then it will be my turn.

    If the strictures return then we do the surgery I had Friday over again and begin the process over. We repeat that until......

    But all that aside- it is great hearing your report. I can hardly wait to push my own little button.

    Trew- Your time is comming....
    I truly belive that good things are in store for you. I will be praying for your problems to resolve and you can get your AUS. I can already see a part of NORMAL returning.
    I will still be on this site and you will be in my thoughts every day.
    You have encouraged and help so many people on here, I just know good things have to start happening for you!
    Regards, hightide
  • Skid Row Tom
    Skid Row Tom Member Posts: 125
    hightide said:

    Trew- Your time is comming....
    I truly belive that good things are in store for you. I will be praying for your problems to resolve and you can get your AUS. I can already see a part of NORMAL returning.
    I will still be on this site and you will be in my thoughts every day.
    You have encouraged and help so many people on here, I just know good things have to start happening for you!
    Regards, hightide

    Congratulations!
    HOORAY! I've been waiting all day for your post. I knew it would work (eventually) and knew it would be worth it. After I got mine, I felt I was released from prison -- and I was. Incontinence kept me confined and limited (and at time prevented) everything I did or wanted to do. Now, if I could just get Ol' Sparky to stand at attention instead of "slumping", I would almost be back to normal.

    Hey Trew -- you're next!
  • Trew
    Trew Member Posts: 932 Member

    Congratulations!
    HOORAY! I've been waiting all day for your post. I knew it would work (eventually) and knew it would be worth it. After I got mine, I felt I was released from prison -- and I was. Incontinence kept me confined and limited (and at time prevented) everything I did or wanted to do. Now, if I could just get Ol' Sparky to stand at attention instead of "slumping", I would almost be back to normal.

    Hey Trew -- you're next!

    Cause for Celebration
    Hightide and SkidRow, you both are my inspiration right right now. I have this cathin until 11:30 Wed morning and then it comes out. I will once agian leak- but I was coming home from an appointment- me and my leg bag this afternoon and I almost had tears coming I was so happy to be dry since surgery Friday. when I got home I told the Mrs how wonderful it is to be dry- she should be thankful every day for it.

    But with hightide's excellent ending and skidrow's testimony I can hardly wait for my turn. I just need to get some tissue to stablize and I'm on my way.

    And i have the right doctor lined up to do the implant, too. I am so excited about the future to come. the present sucks big time, but this will pass.

    Tonight, let the population rejoice! A victory has been gained!!
  • hightide
    hightide Member Posts: 26

    Congratulations!
    HOORAY! I've been waiting all day for your post. I knew it would work (eventually) and knew it would be worth it. After I got mine, I felt I was released from prison -- and I was. Incontinence kept me confined and limited (and at time prevented) everything I did or wanted to do. Now, if I could just get Ol' Sparky to stand at attention instead of "slumping", I would almost be back to normal.

    Hey Trew -- you're next!

    Standing at attention.....
    Good morning Tom and Trew, and thanks for celabrating with me. I was begining to get a little concerned about the AUS not wanting to turn on. I don't know if I have mentioned it before but I had both the AMS-800 and the AMS-700 (three piece penile implant) all put in at the same time. I figured why not get it all over with one recovery!!!!! I am a big chicken, ha,ha. The AMS-700 has been working, starting seven weeks after the surgery .When it is pumped up it's worth writing home about, but the 800 was really getting on my last nerve!!! We are in the process of totaly remodeling the kitchen and some of the workmen are starting to arrive, better go for now but may be back on later today.
    Best regards, hightide
  • Trew
    Trew Member Posts: 932 Member
    Progress Notes, Tuesday, Aug 31, 2010
    I am greatly encouraged by the progress of two good forum buddies. They give me hope.

    Tomorrow, Sept. 1 I return to U of MI to get my cath pulled. I have been warned: "You will run a lot when the cath comes out." that is the nature of the beast I am dealing with.

    Looking at my U of MI papers I an scheduled for my next appointment with Dr Latini on Nov. 1 to have another cystoscopy. I am losing count of the number I have had this year already. The last one was done in the OR on Friday along with extensive cutting. I think this will be my 2nd or 3rd in the examine room in Nov.

    IF no scar tissue reforms I can get scheduled for an AUS.

    On top of all this I have a friend in Lansing who has just gone on hospice care. His ca (not prostate) has invaded his bones and other body tissues. He is sinking fast now.

    Very sobering, all of this.

    Skid Row and Hightide- thanks for hanging with this forum and sharing. I can hardly wait for my turn.
  • ejn
    ejn Member Posts: 64
    Trew said:

    Progress Notes, Tuesday, Aug 31, 2010
    I am greatly encouraged by the progress of two good forum buddies. They give me hope.

    Tomorrow, Sept. 1 I return to U of MI to get my cath pulled. I have been warned: "You will run a lot when the cath comes out." that is the nature of the beast I am dealing with.

    Looking at my U of MI papers I an scheduled for my next appointment with Dr Latini on Nov. 1 to have another cystoscopy. I am losing count of the number I have had this year already. The last one was done in the OR on Friday along with extensive cutting. I think this will be my 2nd or 3rd in the examine room in Nov.

    IF no scar tissue reforms I can get scheduled for an AUS.

    On top of all this I have a friend in Lansing who has just gone on hospice care. His ca (not prostate) has invaded his bones and other body tissues. He is sinking fast now.

    Very sobering, all of this.

    Skid Row and Hightide- thanks for hanging with this forum and sharing. I can hardly wait for my turn.

    Trew
    Sorry to hear about your friend. Just try to remember that is not you and your situation is looking up. Maybe there will be no further scaring and your Nov appointment will be to schedule your AUS. Either way your turn is coming soon for relief. Hey, since you liked the latest cath so much maybe you can talk them into squeezing 2 in there at the same time lol. Anyhow, think positive and this will someday be a memory.
    Good luck tomorrow.

    Ed
  • ob66
    ob66 Member Posts: 227 Member
    hightide said:

    Standing at attention.....
    Good morning Tom and Trew, and thanks for celabrating with me. I was begining to get a little concerned about the AUS not wanting to turn on. I don't know if I have mentioned it before but I had both the AMS-800 and the AMS-700 (three piece penile implant) all put in at the same time. I figured why not get it all over with one recovery!!!!! I am a big chicken, ha,ha. The AMS-700 has been working, starting seven weeks after the surgery .When it is pumped up it's worth writing home about, but the 800 was really getting on my last nerve!!! We are in the process of totaly remodeling the kitchen and some of the workmen are starting to arrive, better go for now but may be back on later today.
    Best regards, hightide

    Question of skid row and hightide
    First off, congrats to hightide. So happy the results seem to be good so far. I follow you by a couple of days. Sept 2 my AUS will be activated and I am hoping it goes as well as it did for Skid Row, and you too Hightide. It was put in May 10 but activation waited for me to finish radiation therapy + 3 weeks for reasons I don't really understand, but nevertheless I am almost there. Having had daVinci surgery June 6, 2009, then incontinence for almost a year with extensive Physical Therapy that took me down from 8-10 pads per day to 3-4 pads per day. Right now, after RT, I am right back up to 8-10 pads per day. As it turns out I wasted a lot of time with the PT considering the side effects of the RT completely reversed all the benefits. I will report on what I hope to be success Thursday PM....Meantime, I was wondering what you two do for MedAlert. I don't like bracelets, but it seems the safest way to go. My urologist suggested I have engraved: "Artificial Urinary Sphincter, Call Urologist" which sounds safe. I have talked to Internists, other MDS, emergency room trauma surgeons, and for the most part they really don't know what an AUS is, and how to work them. Imagine being by yourself, with a 911 incident, and hitting the Emergency Room without ID??????? You sure don't want to be catheterized in the closed position. Any suggestions or discussion other than what I reported? And Trew, I hope your future starts turning positive in this regard ASAP...
  • Skid Row Tom
    Skid Row Tom Member Posts: 125
    ob66 said:

    Question of skid row and hightide
    First off, congrats to hightide. So happy the results seem to be good so far. I follow you by a couple of days. Sept 2 my AUS will be activated and I am hoping it goes as well as it did for Skid Row, and you too Hightide. It was put in May 10 but activation waited for me to finish radiation therapy + 3 weeks for reasons I don't really understand, but nevertheless I am almost there. Having had daVinci surgery June 6, 2009, then incontinence for almost a year with extensive Physical Therapy that took me down from 8-10 pads per day to 3-4 pads per day. Right now, after RT, I am right back up to 8-10 pads per day. As it turns out I wasted a lot of time with the PT considering the side effects of the RT completely reversed all the benefits. I will report on what I hope to be success Thursday PM....Meantime, I was wondering what you two do for MedAlert. I don't like bracelets, but it seems the safest way to go. My urologist suggested I have engraved: "Artificial Urinary Sphincter, Call Urologist" which sounds safe. I have talked to Internists, other MDS, emergency room trauma surgeons, and for the most part they really don't know what an AUS is, and how to work them. Imagine being by yourself, with a 911 incident, and hitting the Emergency Room without ID??????? You sure don't want to be catheterized in the closed position. Any suggestions or discussion other than what I reported? And Trew, I hope your future starts turning positive in this regard ASAP...

    Medical ID
    I have a MedAlert bracelet, but seldom wear it. I also have a MedAlert dog tag and always wear it. I ordered both from American Medical-ID.com Here's what's on it:
    Line 1: NKA Type A+
    Line 2: Urinary prosthesis AUS
    Line 3: (Empty)
    Line 4: Birth date
    Line 5 Address
    Line 6: City/State
    Line 7: Phone #

    NKA is"No known allergies" and A+ is my blood type. You're right -- I haven't run into a doctor yet (other than a urologist), let alone a medic, that knows what an AUS is. I hope putting "urinary prosthesis" on the tag will give them pause and be more "descriptive". I even wondered about "AUS" thinking they may believe is was made in Australia. But if somebody calls a urologist and asks, "What the hell is a urinary prosthesis?", the AUS may make sense. There are two other things I do. I keep the activation/deactivation instructions in my wallet. When I visited my son in California this summer, or when I went on my 8,000 motorcycle trip with my friend, I tell them that if something bad happens, I have an implanted device and to tell all medical people "no catheters!" I also tell them I carry instructions in my wallet. All my close friends know that I've had cancer, trouble with incontinence, and have a "button" I push to pee. In fact, it you're old enough, there used to be a kid's show on TV called Andy's Gang. There was a character called Froggy. He had a "magic twanger", and some other character would ask him to "Plunk your magic twanger Froggy." So, my friends call my AUS my magic twanger.
  • Trew
    Trew Member Posts: 932 Member
    ob66 said:

    Question of skid row and hightide
    First off, congrats to hightide. So happy the results seem to be good so far. I follow you by a couple of days. Sept 2 my AUS will be activated and I am hoping it goes as well as it did for Skid Row, and you too Hightide. It was put in May 10 but activation waited for me to finish radiation therapy + 3 weeks for reasons I don't really understand, but nevertheless I am almost there. Having had daVinci surgery June 6, 2009, then incontinence for almost a year with extensive Physical Therapy that took me down from 8-10 pads per day to 3-4 pads per day. Right now, after RT, I am right back up to 8-10 pads per day. As it turns out I wasted a lot of time with the PT considering the side effects of the RT completely reversed all the benefits. I will report on what I hope to be success Thursday PM....Meantime, I was wondering what you two do for MedAlert. I don't like bracelets, but it seems the safest way to go. My urologist suggested I have engraved: "Artificial Urinary Sphincter, Call Urologist" which sounds safe. I have talked to Internists, other MDS, emergency room trauma surgeons, and for the most part they really don't know what an AUS is, and how to work them. Imagine being by yourself, with a 911 incident, and hitting the Emergency Room without ID??????? You sure don't want to be catheterized in the closed position. Any suggestions or discussion other than what I reported? And Trew, I hope your future starts turning positive in this regard ASAP...

    Good Question, Ob
    I'm glad you asked it. those with an AUS installed are tagged for life.


    I'm in the Medical Alert system for other issues- but the bracelet is sloppy on my wrist. I carry a card in my wallet right now- but when the AUS goes in I can see I will need something else.
  • Skid Row Tom
    Skid Row Tom Member Posts: 125
    Trew said:

    Progress Notes, Tuesday, Aug 31, 2010
    I am greatly encouraged by the progress of two good forum buddies. They give me hope.

    Tomorrow, Sept. 1 I return to U of MI to get my cath pulled. I have been warned: "You will run a lot when the cath comes out." that is the nature of the beast I am dealing with.

    Looking at my U of MI papers I an scheduled for my next appointment with Dr Latini on Nov. 1 to have another cystoscopy. I am losing count of the number I have had this year already. The last one was done in the OR on Friday along with extensive cutting. I think this will be my 2nd or 3rd in the examine room in Nov.

    IF no scar tissue reforms I can get scheduled for an AUS.

    On top of all this I have a friend in Lansing who has just gone on hospice care. His ca (not prostate) has invaded his bones and other body tissues. He is sinking fast now.

    Very sobering, all of this.

    Skid Row and Hightide- thanks for hanging with this forum and sharing. I can hardly wait for my turn.

    Hospitals
    I've been in the hospital so damn much because of PC and its related problems, the nurses refer to me as a "frequent flyer".
  • ob66
    ob66 Member Posts: 227 Member

    Medical ID
    I have a MedAlert bracelet, but seldom wear it. I also have a MedAlert dog tag and always wear it. I ordered both from American Medical-ID.com Here's what's on it:
    Line 1: NKA Type A+
    Line 2: Urinary prosthesis AUS
    Line 3: (Empty)
    Line 4: Birth date
    Line 5 Address
    Line 6: City/State
    Line 7: Phone #

    NKA is"No known allergies" and A+ is my blood type. You're right -- I haven't run into a doctor yet (other than a urologist), let alone a medic, that knows what an AUS is. I hope putting "urinary prosthesis" on the tag will give them pause and be more "descriptive". I even wondered about "AUS" thinking they may believe is was made in Australia. But if somebody calls a urologist and asks, "What the hell is a urinary prosthesis?", the AUS may make sense. There are two other things I do. I keep the activation/deactivation instructions in my wallet. When I visited my son in California this summer, or when I went on my 8,000 motorcycle trip with my friend, I tell them that if something bad happens, I have an implanted device and to tell all medical people "no catheters!" I also tell them I carry instructions in my wallet. All my close friends know that I've had cancer, trouble with incontinence, and have a "button" I push to pee. In fact, it you're old enough, there used to be a kid's show on TV called Andy's Gang. There was a character called Froggy. He had a "magic twanger", and some other character would ask him to "Plunk your magic twanger Froggy." So, my friends call my AUS my magic twanger.

    Medical ID
    Thanks Skid Row Tom. And yes, I am aged enough to know "Plunk your magic twanger Froggy"...I love it, for I can see some of the great back and forth you must have with your friends. Needless to say, I like your style. It is what it is, and you might as well make the best of it. I was not surprised to hear that you had not encountered an MD or medic, other than urologists that even know what it is about. I think I, for one, am going to use my acquaintances in the medical profession to disseminate such info at both trauma centers and emergency rooms locally, such that some poor soul can be spared the indignity of a catheteriztion on a closed AUS (perish the thought). That would really increase your frequent flyer miles with a twanger rebuild. Cheers, and I hope to report successful Twanger plunking by Thursday PM.