36 with breast cancer - new to the family here

ScubaGirl
ScubaGirl Member Posts: 32
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
I had a lumpectomy and three lymph nodes removed three weeks ago and start six months of chemo next Thursday. I scared myself on the web since I'm triple negative, but was smart enough to put the iPad down and play with my dogs instead.

Anyone else out there in their 30's?
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  • aysemari
    aysemari Member Posts: 1,596 Member
    Welcome Scuba girl
    I am in my thirties and honored to be the first to welcome you.

    So I will set the tone. This site has been of immense value to me.
    I got great advice,support and laughs here.

    Sorry you had to join us but since that's not in your control,
    just know that you are in the best of company.

    I too had lumpectomy, acted fast, felt rushed. Then chemo, still
    have to do herceptin till the end of the year but am done with
    Carbo and Taxotere. I am Her2 positive.

    I have now decided to do the mastectomy,since that would
    out rule radiation. YEAY me!!

    Ayse
  • New Flower
    New Flower Member Posts: 4,294
    Welcome to the site
    We have several people under 40 among us I am sure they will get in touch with you. Do not be scared just stay in touch and connected. We can help you to go through your treatment. I was 46 when I got the news. Soon i will be celebrating 2 years free of cancer.
    Good luck,
    New Flower
  • New Flower
    New Flower Member Posts: 4,294
    aysemari said:

    Welcome Scuba girl
    I am in my thirties and honored to be the first to welcome you.

    So I will set the tone. This site has been of immense value to me.
    I got great advice,support and laughs here.

    Sorry you had to join us but since that's not in your control,
    just know that you are in the best of company.

    I too had lumpectomy, acted fast, felt rushed. Then chemo, still
    have to do herceptin till the end of the year but am done with
    Carbo and Taxotere. I am Her2 positive.

    I have now decided to do the mastectomy,since that would
    out rule radiation. YEAY me!!

    Ayse

    Ayse
    you are faster by 1 min. 10 years makes a huge difference
  • Dawne.Hope
    Dawne.Hope Member Posts: 823
    Dear Scubagirl,
    I was in my

    Dear Scubagirl,

    I was in my 30's when diagnosed. Prior to my diagnosis, the youngest woman I knew who had BC was 42. Since joining here, I've read about women in their 20's who have fought the beast.

    You are by no means alone. Although very sorry for the reason why you joined this board. There is young survivor's coalition that you can google and find many other young survivors.

    I've found a lot of advice and support from this board. And you will too.

    If you search 'triple negative' on this board, you'll find some really good discussion and other women who are young like you and had the same type of cancer you had.

    I'll try to find it and bump it up for you.

    Bless you,
    dh
  • ScubaGirl
    ScubaGirl Member Posts: 32

    Dear Scubagirl,
    I was in my

    Dear Scubagirl,

    I was in my 30's when diagnosed. Prior to my diagnosis, the youngest woman I knew who had BC was 42. Since joining here, I've read about women in their 20's who have fought the beast.

    You are by no means alone. Although very sorry for the reason why you joined this board. There is young survivor's coalition that you can google and find many other young survivors.

    I've found a lot of advice and support from this board. And you will too.

    If you search 'triple negative' on this board, you'll find some really good discussion and other women who are young like you and had the same type of cancer you had.

    I'll try to find it and bump it up for you.

    Bless you,
    dh

    This group is awesome!
    This group is awesome! Thanks to the three of you who replied. I look forward to taking this journey with you...although I wish we were journeying to Tahiti together instead!
  • aysemari
    aysemari Member Posts: 1,596 Member

    Ayse
    you are faster by 1 min. 10 years makes a huge difference

    New Flower
    AGE? That's your excuse? =)

    Ayse
  • Heatherbelle
    Heatherbelle Member Posts: 1,226 Member
    Hi there - I'm 34, diagnosed
    Hi there - I'm 34, diagnosed last week.
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member

    Hi there - I'm 34, diagnosed
    Hi there - I'm 34, diagnosed last week.

    hello this is my second
    hello this is my second primary, I was 34 when diagnosed the first time in 1994. You will find lots of support here, no question is stupid, nobody is judgemental, all ages, diagnosis, backgrounds, we are all sisters or supporters of sisters and sometimes we get men too, although not lately. there are other triple negative women out there, who will respond.
  • Dawne.Hope
    Dawne.Hope Member Posts: 823
    ScubaGirl said:

    This group is awesome!
    This group is awesome! Thanks to the three of you who replied. I look forward to taking this journey with you...although I wish we were journeying to Tahiti together instead!

    Tahiti would be fantastic!
    Tahiti would be fantastic! :)

    Search 'hogwarts' and chenheart posted a great story that i'd bet you would enjoy!

    :))
  • jo jo
    jo jo Member Posts: 1,175 Member
    Hey scubagirl...welcome to
    Hey scubagirl...welcome to the family!
    Im not in my 30's anymore but im only 42! :)
  • Balentine
    Balentine Member Posts: 393
    jo jo said:

    Hey scubagirl...welcome to
    Hey scubagirl...welcome to the family!
    Im not in my 30's anymore but im only 42! :)

    Did they find any cancer in your lymph nodes
    I was curious because maybe I missed it but did they find any cancer in your lymph nodes?
    Lorrie
  • CypressCynthia
    CypressCynthia Member Posts: 4,014 Member
    I was 33 at diagnosis and
    I was 33 at diagnosis and had a large tumor and 4 + nodes and wasn't at all sure that I would see 43. I just turned 57 in March! Sorry that you had to join this club, but please know that there is hope.
  • Moopy23
    Moopy23 Member Posts: 1,751 Member
    An Oldster
    Well, I am not thirtysomething anymore, but I thought you might like to know about youngsurvivors.org. Several of the regular posters had a TN diagnosis, and issues unique to younger woman are discusssed regularly. Also, if you want to research here, Mimivac is another young TN survivor who has posted quite a bit, and very informatively, too.

    As for this board, like my friend Lili always says, welcome, I am glad you found us, though I am sorry for the reason. You will find invaluable support, information, and understanding here.
  • greyhoundluvr
    greyhoundluvr Member Posts: 402
    ScubaGirl -
    I'm past the 30's but just wanted to say Welcome to you! As the others have said, we will be here for yu every steo of the way!

    Chris
  • VickiSam
    VickiSam Member Posts: 9,079 Member

    ScubaGirl -
    I'm past the 30's but just wanted to say Welcome to you! As the others have said, we will be here for yu every steo of the way!

    Chris

    Hey does 39 and holding -- Count ?
    I've been telling everyone that I am 39 years old and holding for a few years .. Yes, I am aware that I can't stay at this age forever .. Oh well!

    ScubaGirl ..


    We are a group of WARRIORS .. All sisters in PINK - with 1 common goal: Fighting Breat Cancer .. Welcome :D




    Vicki Sam .. who is 39 and holding for a few more years,, then I may age to 43 ..
  • mimivac
    mimivac Member Posts: 2,143 Member
    Welcome, ScubaGirl
    I'm 35, diagnosed at 34 and also triple negative. You are right to put down the ipad (I'm jealous, btw -- do you love it?) as there is some alarmist, outdated, and crappy information out there. There are also several of us here in our 30's. As Moopy said www.youngsurvival.org is a great site for younger women to discuss age-specific issues. If you search on "mimivac" or "triple negative" you will find an article I posted here about triple negative. If you'd like, I will PM it to you. For now, focus on your next steps and building an environment of support and low stress (as much as you can!). Take care and keep coming back.

    Mimi
  • laurissa
    laurissa Member Posts: 773
    Hi scuba
    I remember reading the statistics and chances and percentages, etc. Then I came across this site and haven't gone back to that kind of information again. I guess I'm considered a stage 4 since I have bone mets. I'll be starting Zometa for that, then I'll be done with treatment. I feel great today. You'll be fine.
  • Hubby
    Hubby Member Posts: 325
    Chemo Advise
    I started a thread early this week asking for pre-chemo advice for my wife, and got some real helpful suggestions.

    http://csn.cancer.org/node/194777

    She is also triple negative, but a but older 48 today.

    What chemo are you starting?

    Bob
  • ScubaGirl
    ScubaGirl Member Posts: 32

    Tahiti would be fantastic!
    Tahiti would be fantastic! :)

    Search 'hogwarts' and chenheart posted a great story that i'd bet you would enjoy!

    :))

    Thanks, Dawn.Hope
    I did love it. I'm in the right place!
  • ScubaGirl
    ScubaGirl Member Posts: 32
    jo jo said:

    Hey scubagirl...welcome to
    Hey scubagirl...welcome to the family!
    Im not in my 30's anymore but im only 42! :)

    Thanks for the welcome
    You are all fantastic!