New to the "club" and having surgery soon
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Hi Sub3!
Welcome to the Board! I am 1 month new here myself, haven't had surgery as of yet so I can't offer advice there. It's the weekend so you may not get too many responses just yet, but you will! There is always someone here (24/7) that can help you that has been there & done that!
Prayers & Hugz,
Cathy0 -
HelloCat64 said:Hi Sub3!
Welcome to the Board! I am 1 month new here myself, haven't had surgery as of yet so I can't offer advice there. It's the weekend so you may not get too many responses just yet, but you will! There is always someone here (24/7) that can help you that has been there & done that!
Prayers & Hugz,
Cathy
I had a bilateral masectomy on July 29th with immediate reconstruction using my belly fat and skin. It was pretty rough but not unbearable. I didn't have much pain and had the morphine pump diconnected same night as surgery but I'm finding out I must have a high tolerance for pain.
Tips for home.
you will NEED a recliner!!!!!!!!
lots of rest
take it very slow
do not push yourself
drink lots of fluids
mild comfort foods
shower sitting down
Have someone read to you!!! passes time and you can get lost in the story and not think of your discomfort...
A special thing I did during my surgery... I bought a journal book and while I was having surgery my family and friends wrote special messages to me.. I will always have this reminder of my Loved ones thoughts of Love for me!!!
Calleen0 -
Welcome, sub3. I have not
Welcome, sub3. I have not had the surgery you describe, but I wish you the best.
A couple of things I have learned from previous (noncancer) surgeries is to have a small cooler by my bedside for drinks, so I do not have to ask my family to get me something to drink. BTW be sure you are drinking lots of fluids--once I got a bladder infection from not drinking after surgery.
Also, I tend to get confused on meds, so I made a chart & checked off the meds as I took them. One final thing I learned is that bowels naturally slow down with not being able to eat and with all the meds, so constipation might be a problem. I drink a can of prune juice each day post surgery and that seems to get things moving again.
Hugs & prayers headed your way....0 -
Hi sub3...
I did have a
Hi sub3...
I did have a double mastectomy but not a flap... I had expanders placed...
Advice... REST... REST... REST... and have someone on hand to help you. I have 3 young kids btw 7 - 2.. and had someone at the house to help me with them. you won't be able to do any lifting... Just remember be good to your self and listen to your body.. Good luck with surgery...0 -
sub
Welcome to the board! I was diagnosed with invasive ductal also,but just had a partial mastectomy. I do reccommend buying a nice big fluffy body pillow for sleeping.
Hope that your surgery and recovery go well when you have it!!0 -
Pillows
I had a bilateral a few weeks ago and found that having a few extra pillows on the bed made it a lot more comfortable. Since I had drain tubes on each side I was only able to sleep on my back each night. I put one pillow under each arm before I went to sleep and it kept me from rolling onto my drain tubes while I was sleeping. I also bought myself some new bed sheets and pajamas before I went to the hospital. It wasn't much, but they made me feel better when I was home.
Make sure to be focused on your movements at all times. I had a few times when I (while thinking of something else) moved too quickly and pulled my drain tubes or made my chest or arm sore from moving too much.
Don't try to do too much and get lots of rest.0 -
Hi and welcome to theWolfi said:Pillows
I had a bilateral a few weeks ago and found that having a few extra pillows on the bed made it a lot more comfortable. Since I had drain tubes on each side I was only able to sleep on my back each night. I put one pillow under each arm before I went to sleep and it kept me from rolling onto my drain tubes while I was sleeping. I also bought myself some new bed sheets and pajamas before I went to the hospital. It wasn't much, but they made me feel better when I was home.
Make sure to be focused on your movements at all times. I had a few times when I (while thinking of something else) moved too quickly and pulled my drain tubes or made my chest or arm sore from moving too much.
Don't try to do too much and get lots of rest.
Hi and welcome to the boards. I had a lumpectomy back in June, so I can not really help you, but I wanted to welcome you and wish you the best of luck.0 -
Hi Sub3, welcome
I just wanted to add my welcome. I had a partial mestectomy also. I stayed in bed 2 days after my surgery. Kept my laptop by my side as this board was my lifeline during the healing process. If you will be recovering on a seperate floor of your home than where everyone will be, I suggest a small bell for your bedside to summon help when you need it. Good luck and keep us posted. ♥ Pammy0 -
bath suggestionsMyTurnNow said:Just wanted to welcome you
Just wanted to welcome you to the board. I had a lumpectomy so can't offer any advice but just wanted you to know you've come to the right place!!
I had a lumpectomy ... but found a few suggestions to make bathing easier. I found it much easier to use one of those hand-held spray things so I could aim the water where I wanted it to go. I also had a stool in the tub which made getting in and out much, much easier. Then the final suggestion is a BIG FLUFFY towel. It felt so much better than the ones I'd had around for years ... :-)
You'll do just fine!
hugs.
teena0 -
Thank you so much totgf said:bath suggestions
I had a lumpectomy ... but found a few suggestions to make bathing easier. I found it much easier to use one of those hand-held spray things so I could aim the water where I wanted it to go. I also had a stool in the tub which made getting in and out much, much easier. Then the final suggestion is a BIG FLUFFY towel. It felt so much better than the ones I'd had around for years ... :-)
You'll do just fine!
hugs.
teena
Thank you so much to everyone for the wonderful tips!0 -
just wanted to welcome you!sub3 said:Thank you so much to
Thank you so much to everyone for the wonderful tips!
I had 2 surguries, 1st a lumpectomy, and then a partial mastsecomy. All I can tell you is to listen to your bobdy, use the pain pills when ypu need the and get plenty of rest. Extra pillows help alot, and use all the help that offered to you. You'll get through fine. keep us posted and let us know how you're doing, and we'll help to answer any other questions you may have.
Good luck and God bless,
Aurora0 -
expanders vs. tummy tucke_hope said:Hi sub3...
I did have a
Hi sub3...
I did have a double mastectomy but not a flap... I had expanders placed...
Advice... REST... REST... REST... and have someone on hand to help you. I have 3 young kids btw 7 - 2.. and had someone at the house to help me with them. you won't be able to do any lifting... Just remember be good to your self and listen to your body.. Good luck with surgery...
just wondering what made you decide to go with implants vs the tummy tuck? I am having my bi-lateral at the end of the month and decided to go with implants - hope I'm making the right decision.0
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