Finished with him

tasha_111
tasha_111 Member Posts: 2,072
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
Yet again he laid into me tonight infront of my son..........It's enough

I removed my engagement ring.

Thanks all........Jx
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  • Jadie
    Jadie Member Posts: 723
    #2
    Tash
    Kick his arse to the curb!
  • phoenixrising
    phoenixrising Member Posts: 1,508
    #3
    I don't think your son
    I don't think your son should see stuff like that esp when he doesn't see you very often.
    I hope you showed Chucky (that's his name right???) some spit and fire, heavy on the fire!!! Good luck to you.
    hugs
    jan
  • CR1954
    CR1954 Member Posts: 1,390 Member
    #4
    Tash......
    Now he knows that you have had enough. I know that it hurts, and even though you didn't ask for my opinion, you deserve far better...

    Hugs,

    CR
  • rjjj
    rjjj Member Posts: 1,822 Member
    #5
    CR1954 said:

    Tash......
    Now he knows that you have had enough. I know that it hurts, and even though you didn't ask for my opinion, you deserve far better...

    Hugs,

    CR

    no excuse
    for him to be that way in front of Jamie (or at any other time)is inexcusable. CR is right you do deserve better!
    hugs, jackie
  • bfbear
    bfbear Member Posts: 380
    #6
    rjjj said:

    no excuse
    for him to be that way in front of Jamie (or at any other time)is inexcusable. CR is right you do deserve better!
    hugs, jackie

    Cut him loose...
    because you CAN do much better!
    That kind of stuff in front of young adults/kids IS inexcusable. Stay strong, and whatever you do know that I support you and love you.

    Hugs,
    Debi
  • Aortus
    Aortus Member Posts: 967
    #7
    Hasta la vista, pendejo!
    He's no good for you, he's no good for Jamie, and he's no good for the precious little turquoise guppies. Sod him.
  • Alexis F
    Alexis F Member Posts: 3,598
    #8
    Why remove your engagement
    Why remove your engagement ring? It is yours, you can sell it and get some money after you kick his arse out! I don't know why you put up with his abuse. Finally, get rid of that loser!
  • dmc_emmy
    dmc_emmy Member Posts: 549
    #9
    Tasha-I'm so sorry...
    you do not deserve to be treated as you have been treated. You have been through your share of trials and you need to someone to be there for you-not against you. What you need is is someone with genuine and loving understanding and support; you need someone who truly cares about you as person and appreciates what you have to give to others.

    Though we have not physically met, I feel that I know what kind of person you are by the loving support you give so many here; you have befriended and cared about our physical, mental, and spiritual challenges. You have given countless cyber hugs when we have felt alone, tormented by illness, hurt, and fear.

    I will never understand the cruelty and insensitivity that humans show to one another, thus explains why I often prefer my four-legged companions to the two-legged human variety.

    Hugs to my friend,
    dmc
  • Moopy23
    Moopy23 Member Posts: 1,751 Member
    #10
    Good for You
    Tasha, I am so sorry this man has treated you so badly. He is not worthy of you. Good for you that you have had enough, and more than enough. You will be better off without him.
  • tgf
    tgf Member Posts: 950 Member
    #11
    Moopy23 said:

    Good for You
    Tasha, I am so sorry this man has treated you so badly. He is not worthy of you. Good for you that you have had enough, and more than enough. You will be better off without him.

    Tasha
    You deserve so much better than that "blob" ...

    I agree with Alexis ... keep the ring and remove the guy!

    hugs.
    teena
  • jk1952
    jk1952 Member Posts: 613
    #12
    tgf said:

    Tasha
    You deserve so much better than that "blob" ...

    I agree with Alexis ... keep the ring and remove the guy!

    hugs.
    teena

    I'm sure this hurts, and I'm

    I'm sure this hurts, and I'm sorry that you have to go through it. I agree with everyone else: you deserve much better than this guy. He shouldn't treat you the way he does, with or without your son there! But, his actions in fromt of your son are totally inexcusable.

    Joyce
  • Jeanne D
    Jeanne D Member Posts: 1,867
    #13
    jk1952 said:

    I'm sure this hurts, and I'm

    I'm sure this hurts, and I'm sorry that you have to go through it. I agree with everyone else: you deserve much better than this guy. He shouldn't treat you the way he does, with or without your son there! But, his actions in fromt of your son are totally inexcusable.

    Joyce

    Tasha
    I hope that you do kick him to the curb. I have to say that I

    have been truly shocked by some of the things you have said that he has said to you. It is

    verbal abuse in the worst way. No woman should have to put up with that. And, why would you

    even want to Tasha? Please, leave him or kick him out. But, live your life without him

    please!

    Love, Jeanne
  • taleena
    taleena Member Posts: 1,612 Member
    #14
    Tasha... I am so sorry that
    Tasha... I am so sorry that your son had to witness his ugliness.... The general consensus here is "YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER" I hope you get that message loud and clear.... The longer we stay with mr wrong.... the higher the risk of letting mr right slip by...

    I know it's not easy... been there did that... but you can and you will be better off without him!!!

    Good luck stay strong... and kick his arse!

    ~T
  • ladybug22
    ladybug22 Member Posts: 646
    #15
    tasha
    you had 2 cancer one you are clean from the other well u need to run it off.If he cared about u at all he would help you.Please take care of your self ans jammie.
  • creampuff91344
    creampuff91344 Member Posts: 988
    #16
    taleena said:

    Tasha... I am so sorry that
    Tasha... I am so sorry that your son had to witness his ugliness.... The general consensus here is "YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER" I hope you get that message loud and clear.... The longer we stay with mr wrong.... the higher the risk of letting mr right slip by...

    I know it's not easy... been there did that... but you can and you will be better off without him!!!

    Good luck stay strong... and kick his arse!

    ~T

    Tasha
    LIFE IS TOO SHORT! Boy does that statement say it all. You are always giving such good advice, and now you have heard from those of us who care about you. Tomorrow is not promised, and to think you might miss out on even one smile because of the actions of another is certainly worth thought. Your decision, your life, and your happiness. Hope you make the right choice, and soon. Hugs. Judy
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159 Member
    #17
    Tasha~
    Sweet Lady, though it
    Tasha~

    Sweet Lady, though it is never easy to end a realtionship ( as kick-**** as you may be, and as much support as we get from our true friends and family)when I read your post I honestly thought HOORAH!! Engagement ring? It occurs to me that for the longest time, he has only been Engaged in dispictable behaviour, while you are Engaged in the business of Life After Cancer and all of its glorious possibilities...

    Again, my favorite movie quote surfaces: "We do what we have to do, so we can do what we want to do"...Grab life, Tasha, it's been waiting for you!

    Hugs,
    Claudia
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159 Member
    #18
    Tasha~
    Sweet Lady, though it
    Tasha~

    Sweet Lady, though it is never easy to end a realtionship ( as kick-**** as you may be, and as much support as we get from our true friends and family)when I read your post I honestly thought HOORAH!! Engagement ring? It occurs to me that for the longest time, he has only been Engaged in dispictable behaviour, while you are Engaged in the business of Life After Cancer and all of its glorious possibilities...

    Again, my favorite movie quote surfaces: "We do what we have to do, so we can do what we want to do"...Grab life, Tasha, it's been waiting for you!

    Hugs,
    Claudia
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    #19
    Dearest J...
    Find a way, I know you can.

    You fought hard to save your own life, and won.

    Please fight now for a GOOD life, a life you so deserve.

    Hoping, and always with...

    Kindest regards, Susan
  • cats_toy
    cats_toy Member Posts: 1,462 Member
    #20
    well you've heard the same thing from everyone here
    so I don't really need to repeat any of it do I?
    Take care of you and Jamie first, then worry about others. Toxic relationships do not help healing in any way.
    Be well and happy.

    =^..^=
  • GreeneyedGirl
    GreeneyedGirl Member Posts: 1,077
    #21
    cats_toy said:

    well you've heard the same thing from everyone here
    so I don't really need to repeat any of it do I?
    Take care of you and Jamie first, then worry about others. Toxic relationships do not help healing in any way.
    Be well and happy.

    =^..^=

    Sigh~Oh~Narah
    Bye Bye, Asta~la~veeesta,Later~Gater, Afterwhile~Crocodile.
    Life is too short to spend it with someone who treats you so inconsiderably. You have a lot of livin' to do girl....it is your choice.
    We are here no matter what!

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