done

j916
j916 Member Posts: 141
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
ok....last friday, may 29th....i finished...i'm done with chemo.....and why am i typing in lower caps? because i thought i would feel so different...logically, i know that i am still just a week out from my chemo, and am still having the side effects...but darn it! i had that date so set in my head as the end of the cr@p, that still not having energy, still having the pain, etc.....it about to do me in. So, ladies, i have two questions:

how long did you have residual pain?

When the heck did your eyelashes come back! :(:(

thanks so much
jeanne

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  • Jeanne D
    Jeanne D Member Posts: 1,867
    CONGRATULATIONS JEANNE! So
    CONGRATULATIONS JEANNE! So proud and happy for you! You

    have accomplished so much. I, fortunately, did not have to take chemo, but, I know it is

    very hard to do. But, you DID it! YEAAAAAAAAA! Although, I can't post it, I am doing MY

    happy dance for you! Hugs, Jeanne
  • Kat11
    Kat11 Member Posts: 1,931 Member
    I don;t know the answer to
    I don;t know the answer to your questions, but I glad your done. Happy Days
  • tasha_111
    tasha_111 Member Posts: 2,072
    Jeanne D said:

    CONGRATULATIONS JEANNE! So
    CONGRATULATIONS JEANNE! So proud and happy for you! You

    have accomplished so much. I, fortunately, did not have to take chemo, but, I know it is

    very hard to do. But, you DID it! YEAAAAAAAAA! Although, I can't post it, I am doing MY

    happy dance for you! Hugs, Jeanne

    Congratulations Jeanne!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Wat to go! Well done you!

    Pain about 3 months for me but getting less all the time. Eyelashes almost immediately and very thick and fast!

    Hope this helps.........Huge Hugs Jxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • creampuff91344
    creampuff91344 Member Posts: 988
    Jeanne D said:

    CONGRATULATIONS JEANNE! So
    CONGRATULATIONS JEANNE! So proud and happy for you! You

    have accomplished so much. I, fortunately, did not have to take chemo, but, I know it is

    very hard to do. But, you DID it! YEAAAAAAAAA! Although, I can't post it, I am doing MY

    happy dance for you! Hugs, Jeanne

    Jeanne, my oncologist told
    Jeanne, my oncologist told us that it would take up to a year after completing all treatment before I would begin to feel like myself again. If you have just finished chemo, you are about a month away from starting the uphill battle of gaining strength. If you have radiation to go through yet, then it will be delayed by that length of time you are in treatment. The chemo rebound is the hardest, so don't get down on yourself for not waking up the next day after treatment is completed, and expect to get back into your normal routine. You are still healing, and will be for some time. Do what you feel up to, and don't worry about what doesn't get done. Your strength will return, as long as you exercise, and eat right. I know you want to get going, but just be patient. You are through the worst part, and it is only up from here. Hope you do well in the next few weeks. Hugs.

    Judy
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
    Keep your chin up
    Jeanne, I haven't begun my treatment yet, but I have been taking mental notes from everyones responses to post & I have gathered that most people seem to take about a year to recover (Give or take a few months). Your body has been in battle and now it needs to rebuild. Don't get discouraged on the time frame, just know it does get better...in time. :) Pammy
  • Kylez
    Kylez Member Posts: 3,761 Member
    Congrats on finishing chemo!
    Congrats on finishing chemo! And, give yourself time to heal. Good luck!
  • Jeanne D
    Jeanne D Member Posts: 1,867
    J E A N N E
    Oh, and I love your name! ( wink, wink )
  • Moopy23
    Moopy23 Member Posts: 1,751 Member
    Congratulations!
    Congratulations on finishing chemo, Jeanne! Isn't it wonderful to know you are done?

    I never had physical pain, so I can't really answer the question about residual pain. Fatigue was absolutlely the worst, and it was a few weeks before I felt any stronger. As for eyelashes, I did not lose them all but kept losing for awhile. After about 3 weeks, they stopped falling out and are beginning to thicken.

    Hope this helps!
  • taleena
    taleena Member Posts: 1,612 Member
    Jeann.. so glad that the
    Jeann.. so glad that the chemo is offically behind you! I have learned through this board more than I ever thought I would, though not yet through personal experience. Hang in there... CONGRATULATIONS ON BEING DONE!!!!

    ~T
  • CR1954
    CR1954 Member Posts: 1,390 Member
    Hi Jeanne........
    I had bone pain during chemo. It really hurt, I must say! The onc put me on steroids and it helped some. At least I could endure it.
    I finished chemo in mid December last year. (except for the Herceptin that I still get) I still get the occasional "zinger" every now and then. But less frequently as time goes by.

    I still get tired. Most days, i need an afternoon nap. But while I'm awake, I am usually busy, busy, busy!!
    Of course, now I'm taking care of my hubby, who had recent open heart surgery, so I have kind of had to put any of my issues on the back burner.

    Eyelashes. yes, i lost them and eyebrows too. It did not take long after finishing chemo for the eyebrows to start growing again. The eyelashes....it seems like one day, they were all gone and the next day, they were back again! They grew in that fast!

    Big ol' hugs!

    CR
  • jgridley
    jgridley Member Posts: 169
    done
    Dont be so hard on yourself...I didn't have chemo, but did seven weeks of rads.
    I was physically drained...and still feel tried alot and last day of rads was on march 23rd.

    Julie
  • mmontero38
    mmontero38 Member Posts: 1,510
    Way to go!!!!!!! Eyelashes
    Way to go!!!!!!! Eyelashes come back quickly. Probably you'll see a difference within 2 weeks after stopping chemo. I didn't lose all of mine, but they thinned out considerably and were pretty full after about 2 months. Now about the pain, what kind of pain are you talking about? I didn't have any pain after chemo, just the nausea that persisted for about 2 weeks. You will feel better hopefully fairly soon, but remember that your body has gone through a major war and it will take some time to recup. Hang in there, Lili
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    Congratulations, Jeanne!
    Done with chemo - a HUGE accomplishment! Glad it's behind you now.

    I had rads also after chemo. And, although the chemo side effects did diminish during rads - the body cannot truly begin to heal in earnest until all invasive treatment ends. Remember that everyone's different... My own doctors advised it would be "about" a year (their best "guesstimate") 'til I was fully recovered. Honestly, it felt more like two.

    Continue to take good care of yourself. Rest when you're achy and/or tired.

    Kind regards, Susan
  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member

    Congratulations, Jeanne!
    Done with chemo - a HUGE accomplishment! Glad it's behind you now.

    I had rads also after chemo. And, although the chemo side effects did diminish during rads - the body cannot truly begin to heal in earnest until all invasive treatment ends. Remember that everyone's different... My own doctors advised it would be "about" a year (their best "guesstimate") 'til I was fully recovered. Honestly, it felt more like two.

    Continue to take good care of yourself. Rest when you're achy and/or tired.

    Kind regards, Susan

    Congratulations for
    Congratulations for finishing chemo!
  • jnl
    jnl Member Posts: 3,869 Member
    Wishing you big congrats on
    Wishing you big congrats on being done with chemo! Your eyelashes will come back quickly and full!
  • j916
    j916 Member Posts: 141
    thank you all...
    ok....a year or so to recover...not what exactly what i wanted to hear....maybe, july 1st? LOL but thank you so very much for your kind words, and being so uplifting. I do not have to have radiation....and i should be celebrating....not bemoaning......i'll get better.
    thank you all so much!
    JEANNE