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love9kidz
love9kidz Member Posts: 23
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
Hi Everyone,

Thanks for all of your prayers and words of encouragement to me and others. I had my MRI the other day and will be having lumpectomy on June 15th. Continue to pray for me that surgery goes well without complications. I am nervous about being put to sleep. I have never had general anesthesia before. I am trying not to think about it. I believe that God will be with me. May God continue to bless you all.
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  • CR1954
    CR1954 Member Posts: 1,390 Member
    It will be........
    It will be ok. You will come through your surgery just fine. I have every confidence that not only will God be with you on that day, but so will all of us here!

    I will keep you in my prayers, and I will especially ask that your fears are eased. Hang in there and before you know it, the surgery will be over, and you will be helping others as they face their surgery.

    Hugs,

    CR
  • Jan_M
    Jan_M Member Posts: 116
    Good luck and remember one
    Good luck and remember one step at a time so you don't get over stressed.

    Hugs to you.
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
    Try not to worry about anesthesia....
    I know it can be scary the first time, but you will be fine (I've been thru it 7 times, Wed makes the 8th).
    If this helps any....here has been my experience....
    When you get to the hospital, they will take you back after you registar to put a gown on (yes....you will be butt naked underneath!)
    Then they will bring you out to a pre-op area & put you into bed....here, they will ask you questions, take your vitals, start your I.V. and at this point I pretty much start to weaken in my strength (after the stick for the I.V.) soooooo.....
    This is when I request the shot to relax me. My Dr always ordered something to relax me while I waited my turn (We should be use to "waiting" by now!)....
    When it is your turn, they will take you back to the operating room ....
    This may seam scary because there is alot of buzzing going on & alot of things are going to happen very quickly...
    They will transfer you to a little skinny table (Yep, you will feel like you are going to fall off the sides, but trust me you wont't!!)...
    They will put a "grounding" pad under your thigh and hook you up to a few more wires (none of this hurts it's just scary)....
    At this point I usually ask for a warm blanket (ahhhhh.......it feels so good! Right from the heater to my body {which has been shaking non stop till now})....
    The anesthesiologist will tell you "23 seconds" and you will answer "what?" and soon will find out this is how long it took you to fall asleep.....
    Then....wah la!!....you wake up in recovery thinking "darn", I was rather enjoying my nap!!
    Hope this help to give you a picture of what it may be like.
    Two things to remeber....sedative and warm blanket!!
    I'm sure you will be fine....I will say a prayer for you t ease your fear. :) Pammy
  • bfbear
    bfbear Member Posts: 380
    Akiss4me said:

    Try not to worry about anesthesia....
    I know it can be scary the first time, but you will be fine (I've been thru it 7 times, Wed makes the 8th).
    If this helps any....here has been my experience....
    When you get to the hospital, they will take you back after you registar to put a gown on (yes....you will be butt naked underneath!)
    Then they will bring you out to a pre-op area & put you into bed....here, they will ask you questions, take your vitals, start your I.V. and at this point I pretty much start to weaken in my strength (after the stick for the I.V.) soooooo.....
    This is when I request the shot to relax me. My Dr always ordered something to relax me while I waited my turn (We should be use to "waiting" by now!)....
    When it is your turn, they will take you back to the operating room ....
    This may seam scary because there is alot of buzzing going on & alot of things are going to happen very quickly...
    They will transfer you to a little skinny table (Yep, you will feel like you are going to fall off the sides, but trust me you wont't!!)...
    They will put a "grounding" pad under your thigh and hook you up to a few more wires (none of this hurts it's just scary)....
    At this point I usually ask for a warm blanket (ahhhhh.......it feels so good! Right from the heater to my body {which has been shaking non stop till now})....
    The anesthesiologist will tell you "23 seconds" and you will answer "what?" and soon will find out this is how long it took you to fall asleep.....
    Then....wah la!!....you wake up in recovery thinking "darn", I was rather enjoying my nap!!
    Hope this help to give you a picture of what it may be like.
    Two things to remeber....sedative and warm blanket!!
    I'm sure you will be fine....I will say a prayer for you t ease your fear. :) Pammy

    Slightly different here...
    At my hospital, they put me out before I went to the OR(probably with the "relaxing shot" -- I'm a lightweight when it comes to any kind of drug...or alcohol, for that matter!).

    So from the time in pre-op, when they got me all ready and treated me like a queen(warm blanket, leg massage, surgical stockings/tighty-whities!,IV set-up)to waking up in my room, I was totally out,i.e. no recollection of anything.

    General anesthesia is no big deal. Oh, and in my case, I always ask for as much anti-nausea stuff as they can add to the mix, because otherwise I start vomiting after I wake up. You might ask them if they could do this as a precautionary measure. (At my hospital, the anesthesiologist came in and talked to me for quite awhile before he did anything, so I had a chance to discuss and ask questions about everything related to the anesthesia.)

    And after you wake up, suck on ice chips and drink as much water as possible to get the anesthesia out of your system sooner. It takes weeks, they say, to get all of it out, so drink, drink, drink (pee,pee, pee!!).

    All this is to say that you just have to let go and let God, basically. Between now and the 15th, try not to dwell on it -- stay busy and do some fun stuff.

    Love you,
    Debi
  • Kat11
    Kat11 Member Posts: 1,931 Member
    Hi love9kidz, I just had the
    Hi love9kidz, I just had the surgery for a lumpectomy 2 days ago. Don't worry about the anesthesia. Thats the easy part. When they were ready to take me to the OR, the gave me a shot though the IV. I remember kissing my husband and thats it,until I woke up in recovery. The pain is not horrible. The pain Meds take care of that. I also had 10 nodes taken out so there is some pain in my arm, again its not to bad. I also was scared and glad that part is over. Really I am not telling you not to be scared, all I can tell you that for me it's not that bad. There are so many people praying for us,you just can't go wrong. As far as thinking about it, your going to think everyday until you wake up in recovery. The nurses in recovery room were great. First your on the bed and then in a chair, then they give you somthing to drink and eat, then you pee and go home. Then you wait again for path report. Thats it. Its going to be just fine.It's always the waiting, this is the bad part and there is nothing you can do about it. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
    bfbear said:

    Slightly different here...
    At my hospital, they put me out before I went to the OR(probably with the "relaxing shot" -- I'm a lightweight when it comes to any kind of drug...or alcohol, for that matter!).

    So from the time in pre-op, when they got me all ready and treated me like a queen(warm blanket, leg massage, surgical stockings/tighty-whities!,IV set-up)to waking up in my room, I was totally out,i.e. no recollection of anything.

    General anesthesia is no big deal. Oh, and in my case, I always ask for as much anti-nausea stuff as they can add to the mix, because otherwise I start vomiting after I wake up. You might ask them if they could do this as a precautionary measure. (At my hospital, the anesthesiologist came in and talked to me for quite awhile before he did anything, so I had a chance to discuss and ask questions about everything related to the anesthesia.)

    And after you wake up, suck on ice chips and drink as much water as possible to get the anesthesia out of your system sooner. It takes weeks, they say, to get all of it out, so drink, drink, drink (pee,pee, pee!!).

    All this is to say that you just have to let go and let God, basically. Between now and the 15th, try not to dwell on it -- stay busy and do some fun stuff.

    Love you,
    Debi

    I'm jealous!!
    You got a leg massage??!! Me & the staff will have to have a talk....although this is the first time I will be out at this particular Hospital...hmmm...things could be different...yikes!! :) Pammy
  • kugiek
    kugiek Member Posts: 13
    It will be ok...
    It will be ok..

    for me I am kind of a lightweight also.. I do not remember going from the pre-op area to the OR.. My daughter said I talked to her.. but I don't remember anything,,
    I do however, remember my dream.. I was sort of cheated on that one.. they say that the dream is suppose to be really a nice place and relaxing.. I dreamt of work.. LOL.. of all things.. Work...

    You will be fine.. let them know when you get there that you are afraid of this and they will help you through it..

    Good luck and keep us posted

    Katie
  • CR1954
    CR1954 Member Posts: 1,390 Member
    bfbear said:

    Slightly different here...
    At my hospital, they put me out before I went to the OR(probably with the "relaxing shot" -- I'm a lightweight when it comes to any kind of drug...or alcohol, for that matter!).

    So from the time in pre-op, when they got me all ready and treated me like a queen(warm blanket, leg massage, surgical stockings/tighty-whities!,IV set-up)to waking up in my room, I was totally out,i.e. no recollection of anything.

    General anesthesia is no big deal. Oh, and in my case, I always ask for as much anti-nausea stuff as they can add to the mix, because otherwise I start vomiting after I wake up. You might ask them if they could do this as a precautionary measure. (At my hospital, the anesthesiologist came in and talked to me for quite awhile before he did anything, so I had a chance to discuss and ask questions about everything related to the anesthesia.)

    And after you wake up, suck on ice chips and drink as much water as possible to get the anesthesia out of your system sooner. It takes weeks, they say, to get all of it out, so drink, drink, drink (pee,pee, pee!!).

    All this is to say that you just have to let go and let God, basically. Between now and the 15th, try not to dwell on it -- stay busy and do some fun stuff.

    Love you,
    Debi

    Same here..
    Same here Debi. I was "out" before I ever got near the OR. The last thing I remember was "we're going to give you a little something to relax you". Bonk! Out!
    Couldn't tell you what the OR looked like....lol!

    Ummmm, never got a leg massage though. I'm jealous!

    CR
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
    kugiek said:

    It will be ok...
    It will be ok..

    for me I am kind of a lightweight also.. I do not remember going from the pre-op area to the OR.. My daughter said I talked to her.. but I don't remember anything,,
    I do however, remember my dream.. I was sort of cheated on that one.. they say that the dream is suppose to be really a nice place and relaxing.. I dreamt of work.. LOL.. of all things.. Work...

    You will be fine.. let them know when you get there that you are afraid of this and they will help you through it..

    Good luck and keep us posted

    Katie

    I FEEL CHEATED AGAIN!!! (HA,HA)
    You got to dream too??? Sorry for what your dream was about, but you mean there is a potential to have a really pleasant dream? 7 times and I never dreamed once!! First I don't get the leg massage....now I don't get to dream about some "hottie" giving me the leg message? Ghezz.......They need to be giving me the "right" drugs...we'll just have to have a talk when I get there!!! :) Pammy
  • jk1952
    jk1952 Member Posts: 613
    CR1954 said:

    Same here..
    Same here Debi. I was "out" before I ever got near the OR. The last thing I remember was "we're going to give you a little something to relax you". Bonk! Out!
    Couldn't tell you what the OR looked like....lol!

    Ummmm, never got a leg massage though. I'm jealous!

    CR

    The only thing I had on my

    The only thing I had on my legs were compression hose and the little machines to keep my blood circulating. I feel cheated, too.

    I hate and am afraid of anesthesia, but the more you have it, the easier it is. Ten years ago, I was wide awake going into the operating room; now my husband says goodby before the relaxation drug, because I'm out as soon as they give it to me and wake up in the recovery room a 'few minutes' (actually hours) later.

    Joyce
  • kugiek
    kugiek Member Posts: 13
    Akiss4me said:

    I FEEL CHEATED AGAIN!!! (HA,HA)
    You got to dream too??? Sorry for what your dream was about, but you mean there is a potential to have a really pleasant dream? 7 times and I never dreamed once!! First I don't get the leg massage....now I don't get to dream about some "hottie" giving me the leg message? Ghezz.......They need to be giving me the "right" drugs...we'll just have to have a talk when I get there!!! :) Pammy

    I heard some of the dreams can be pretty good..
    I heard some of the dreams can be pretty good..
    but yes.. work.. who wants to dream about work... haha

    I didn't get the leg mesages.. I only had the hose things to keep the blood circulating.. and they were more annoying than anything
  • CR1954
    CR1954 Member Posts: 1,390 Member
    kugiek said:

    I heard some of the dreams can be pretty good..
    I heard some of the dreams can be pretty good..
    but yes.. work.. who wants to dream about work... haha

    I didn't get the leg mesages.. I only had the hose things to keep the blood circulating.. and they were more annoying than anything

    Haha, I didn't......
    I didn't dream, but my warped sense of humor suddenly appeared when they called for a "transporter" (formerly known as an orderly) to take me to my room from recovery. The guy showed up....he was all of 12 years old....and as he pushed me onto the elevator, he said in a cocky little teenaged voice..."so what are you in for"? I replied that I had just had a mastectomy. He said "oh, what's that"? I said...they cut off my right boob.
    Oy, the poor guy looked at the floor & never said another word.
    Me, for some insanely morbid and vindictive reason...I giggled.

    My bad............
    CR
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
    CR1954 said:

    Haha, I didn't......
    I didn't dream, but my warped sense of humor suddenly appeared when they called for a "transporter" (formerly known as an orderly) to take me to my room from recovery. The guy showed up....he was all of 12 years old....and as he pushed me onto the elevator, he said in a cocky little teenaged voice..."so what are you in for"? I replied that I had just had a mastectomy. He said "oh, what's that"? I said...they cut off my right boob.
    Oy, the poor guy looked at the floor & never said another word.
    Me, for some insanely morbid and vindictive reason...I giggled.

    My bad............
    CR

    ahhhhhh........
    poor kid...didn't know what he was getting himself into!! Can you imagine the conversation with his friends?? "So, Joe, I'm telling you.....you touch them too many times it must wear them out....some lady today had to have her's CUT OFF!! For real...she told me herself!!" (LMAO!!). :) Pammy
  • CR1954
    CR1954 Member Posts: 1,390 Member
    Akiss4me said:

    ahhhhhh........
    poor kid...didn't know what he was getting himself into!! Can you imagine the conversation with his friends?? "So, Joe, I'm telling you.....you touch them too many times it must wear them out....some lady today had to have her's CUT OFF!! For real...she told me herself!!" (LMAO!!). :) Pammy

    LOL Pammy.......
    Even my husband chastised me for sending the kid into a tailspin. Pffftttt, somehow, the mood I was in at the time...I just didn't care. LOL!

    CR
  • Kat11
    Kat11 Member Posts: 1,931 Member
    CR1954 said:

    Haha, I didn't......
    I didn't dream, but my warped sense of humor suddenly appeared when they called for a "transporter" (formerly known as an orderly) to take me to my room from recovery. The guy showed up....he was all of 12 years old....and as he pushed me onto the elevator, he said in a cocky little teenaged voice..."so what are you in for"? I replied that I had just had a mastectomy. He said "oh, what's that"? I said...they cut off my right boob.
    Oy, the poor guy looked at the floor & never said another word.
    Me, for some insanely morbid and vindictive reason...I giggled.

    My bad............
    CR

    LOL OMG How funny, Can you
    LOL OMG How funny, Can you imagine what he told his Mother or friends. He may be scared for life. LOL
  • taleena
    taleena Member Posts: 1,612 Member
    Kat11 said:

    LOL OMG How funny, Can you
    LOL OMG How funny, Can you imagine what he told his Mother or friends. He may be scared for life. LOL

    Okay.. missed this one when
    Okay.. missed this one when I could have used it... OMG.... LMAO... husband is looking at me like I'm crazy.....

    Here's to you!
  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member
    I will continue to pray for
    I will continue to pray for you ofcourse, as others will. Don't worry about being put to sleep. Sleep is good! Just focus on getting healthy!
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    CR1954 said:

    Haha, I didn't......
    I didn't dream, but my warped sense of humor suddenly appeared when they called for a "transporter" (formerly known as an orderly) to take me to my room from recovery. The guy showed up....he was all of 12 years old....and as he pushed me onto the elevator, he said in a cocky little teenaged voice..."so what are you in for"? I replied that I had just had a mastectomy. He said "oh, what's that"? I said...they cut off my right boob.
    Oy, the poor guy looked at the floor & never said another word.
    Me, for some insanely morbid and vindictive reason...I giggled.

    My bad............
    CR

    Awww, Cindy...
    No, not "insanely morbid" nor "vindictive"...

    That wasn't YOU - it was just the drugs talking! :-)

    Kindest regards, Susan

    P.S.: Nevertheless, that poor traumatized kid (tee hee!)...
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    Best wishes to you, love9kidz...
    Will hope for the best possible outcome from your upcoming surgery. I understand your apprehension - for me, lumpectomy was my first anesthesia and surgery, ever. Next only to the diagnosis itself, it was the scariest point of all.

    Kind regards, Susan
  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member
    Akiss4me said:

    I FEEL CHEATED AGAIN!!! (HA,HA)
    You got to dream too??? Sorry for what your dream was about, but you mean there is a potential to have a really pleasant dream? 7 times and I never dreamed once!! First I don't get the leg massage....now I don't get to dream about some "hottie" giving me the leg message? Ghezz.......They need to be giving me the "right" drugs...we'll just have to have a talk when I get there!!! :) Pammy

    LOL Pammy!

    LOL Pammy!