Helpful Hints?

ritazimm
ritazimm Member Posts: 171
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
When I was getting ready for work this morning I recalled a couple of things that I found helpful when I was going through chemo and even since then.......
so I thought I would share and encourage you to share your "helpful Hints".

HAIR: I hated my wigs but really didn't feel comfortable in scarves either so I made my own 'hats with hair'. I bought several different hats and caps and sewed the soft side of hook and loop ("Velcro") to the inside of the hat. Then I went to a local beauty supply store and purchased some 'human' hair. I believe this hair is usually used for putting extensions in. Some was really expensive but some was much more reasonable - I believe i paid 10-20 for enough to make at least 3 hair portions. The hair is sewn together at the top so I cut off what I needed to go around my head and sewed some hem tape onto it and then sewed this on to the harder side of the hook and loop tape. I made some that came a little closer to the temples and did not need bangs and I made others with a bang section. I left some a little longer and cut some shorter. There were a few different colors available too but I stuck to one. These hats were SO much more comfortable than my wigs and they looked good as well. They were really easy to whip off when I was alone in my office and having a hot flash too! (If I remember I will post a photo or two of me with one on.) This was really easy to do and quite inexpensive. (I would be willing to make one or two if someone is in need of a sample.)

EYEBROWS: I didn't lose all of my eyebrows but they certainly did thin out. I hated the drawn on look so I eventually figured out a way that I think looks more natural. I have a make-up brush that is fairly stiff. I brush the end of this brush on the eyebrow pencil and use the brush to apply the make-up to the brow. It gives it a much softer look. I then use a small amount of brown mascara on the eyebrow hair that is there so tha these hair become more visible.

UNEVEN BOOBS: I'm in my 40's so my natural boob sags a lot. Of course my tissue expander and then the saline implant is right up there where the boobs used to be when I was young so I was very lopsided. I did purchase a sports bra, with the hook closure, that was smaller than I usually wear. This helped keep the droopy one up where it belonged and much closer to the same height as the other one. I also had a piece of thick foam (maybe 4 inches thick) that I cut to size and then went at it with my electric knife. I scooped out the inside to approximate shape of my implanted breast but left the bottom portion thicker so that when I placed it over my tissue expander it lowered the bottom 'height' of that breast to be more level with my natural breast. Once I got it closer to the right shape with the electric knife I did some more shaping with my little Dremmel. It worked great. Actually much easier than the knife part.

That's all I can think of right now but I will post more if I think of them.
Would love to hear any tricks that others have figured out to make things easier.

God Bless You All!
Rita
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  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member
    You are a sweetie! I am
    You are a sweetie! I am sure everyone is thankful for your hints! Keep them up!
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    Good Ideas, Rita
    Hi, Rita. Your idea to pass along tips for getting through chemo is a great one! I hope many step forward in order to share & help others. I'm going to have to put my "thinking cap" on, because chemo was 5 years ago for me. Then, I'll come back & post again. For now...

    Re: HAIR. I'm really impressed by your crafty-ness! I bought a wig; but, couldn't stand the darned thing. So, went the hat/scarf route. If anyone reading here really likes your idea - but, doesn't feel talented enough to do it themselves... Go to the ACS "tlc" (Tender Loving Care) section. "tlc" offers ALL kinds of products for BC patients, including ready-made hair "sections" to add to hats/scarves for a more "natural" look. Bangs, "halos" (go all the way around the rim of a hat), etc. ... Relatively inexpensive, too. "tlc" is a great source for many items - I highly recommend it.

    One thing that comes to mind: my onc INSISTED that I drink AT LEAST 8 glasses of water each day during chemo. WATER. All other types of beverages didn't count. Reason: all that water helps to circulate the chemo drugs everywhere throughout the body, thereby increasing effectiveness. And, importantly, helps also to flush the drugs (toxins) from the body once they've done the job. I was so dehydrated, it wasn't difficult for me to drink that much water. Many days, drank even more. Even now, I still get those 8 glasses in each day, no matter what.

    Once I remember more, I'll be back.

    Kind regards, Susan
  • Aortus
    Aortus Member Posts: 967

    Good Ideas, Rita
    Hi, Rita. Your idea to pass along tips for getting through chemo is a great one! I hope many step forward in order to share & help others. I'm going to have to put my "thinking cap" on, because chemo was 5 years ago for me. Then, I'll come back & post again. For now...

    Re: HAIR. I'm really impressed by your crafty-ness! I bought a wig; but, couldn't stand the darned thing. So, went the hat/scarf route. If anyone reading here really likes your idea - but, doesn't feel talented enough to do it themselves... Go to the ACS "tlc" (Tender Loving Care) section. "tlc" offers ALL kinds of products for BC patients, including ready-made hair "sections" to add to hats/scarves for a more "natural" look. Bangs, "halos" (go all the way around the rim of a hat), etc. ... Relatively inexpensive, too. "tlc" is a great source for many items - I highly recommend it.

    One thing that comes to mind: my onc INSISTED that I drink AT LEAST 8 glasses of water each day during chemo. WATER. All other types of beverages didn't count. Reason: all that water helps to circulate the chemo drugs everywhere throughout the body, thereby increasing effectiveness. And, importantly, helps also to flush the drugs (toxins) from the body once they've done the job. I was so dehydrated, it wasn't difficult for me to drink that much water. Many days, drank even more. Even now, I still get those 8 glasses in each day, no matter what.

    Once I remember more, I'll be back.

    Kind regards, Susan

    Glug, glug, glug!
    Susan's advice is excellent - drinking all the water you can stand is CRUCIAL. Moopy was never a massive water drinker before chemo, but she sure puts it away in style these days. And her oncologist says she is handling the TAC just great. The water really helps.

    I think the Moopster's record is three quarts in one day. I think. And it always has to be Evian water, because that's the only water she could drink that much of. Not cheap (in January it was 10 liter bottles for $10 at Kmart, but no more), but an investment we cheerfully make over and over again.
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
    Aortus said:

    Glug, glug, glug!
    Susan's advice is excellent - drinking all the water you can stand is CRUCIAL. Moopy was never a massive water drinker before chemo, but she sure puts it away in style these days. And her oncologist says she is handling the TAC just great. The water really helps.

    I think the Moopster's record is three quarts in one day. I think. And it always has to be Evian water, because that's the only water she could drink that much of. Not cheap (in January it was 10 liter bottles for $10 at Kmart, but no more), but an investment we cheerfully make over and over again.

    Water, Water, Everywhere......
    RATS~ you just had to make me post, didn't you??? LOL Thanks a lot Aortus...but this is all your fault! You had to mention the expensive water your sweet Moopy drinks: A smart man like you has got to know that EVIAN spelled backwards is NAIVE! Get a Brita water filter,and fill up the empty Evian bottle! :-)

    Hugs and Glugs
    Claudia
  • Marcia527
    Marcia527 Member Posts: 2,729
    chenheart said:

    Water, Water, Everywhere......
    RATS~ you just had to make me post, didn't you??? LOL Thanks a lot Aortus...but this is all your fault! You had to mention the expensive water your sweet Moopy drinks: A smart man like you has got to know that EVIAN spelled backwards is NAIVE! Get a Brita water filter,and fill up the empty Evian bottle! :-)

    Hugs and Glugs
    Claudia

    Yikes!! Now I have to
    Yikes!! Now I have to confess. We have water delivered in 5 gallon jugs for a dispenser. We've been thinking about stopping but ... haven't. It's a job for the delivery person anyway.
  • 1surfermom
    1surfermom Member Posts: 396 Member
    Marcia527 said:

    Yikes!! Now I have to
    Yikes!! Now I have to confess. We have water delivered in 5 gallon jugs for a dispenser. We've been thinking about stopping but ... haven't. It's a job for the delivery person anyway.

    eyebrows
    Rita thanks for the helpful hints. I just finished my 3rd cycle of AC on 4-15-09 and have lost most of my eyebrows. I tried using taupe eyebrow powder and a brush (I used to have blond hair) and ended up looking like Joan Crawford. I'm going to try the eyebrow hint. I have also lost a good portion of my eyelashes, the video in look good feel better program suggests false eyelashes, but the program faciliator said not to use them beacause of infection. Even though I lost my hair after the first AC cycle, I didn't look sick. Now without the eyebrows and my sparce lashes I do look sick. I'm starting to not want to go anywhere because I feel like I am a giant sign that screams CANCER. Does anyone have any helpful hints or ideas? Thanks
  • ritazimm
    ritazimm Member Posts: 171

    eyebrows
    Rita thanks for the helpful hints. I just finished my 3rd cycle of AC on 4-15-09 and have lost most of my eyebrows. I tried using taupe eyebrow powder and a brush (I used to have blond hair) and ended up looking like Joan Crawford. I'm going to try the eyebrow hint. I have also lost a good portion of my eyelashes, the video in look good feel better program suggests false eyelashes, but the program faciliator said not to use them beacause of infection. Even though I lost my hair after the first AC cycle, I didn't look sick. Now without the eyebrows and my sparce lashes I do look sick. I'm starting to not want to go anywhere because I feel like I am a giant sign that screams CANCER. Does anyone have any helpful hints or ideas? Thanks

    I remember that feeling
    I completed my chemo last year April 3rd. I so remember that feeling of not wanting to be seen when I looked sick! For me the more disheveled I was inside, the more 'oerfect' I had to look on the outside (believe me it was never 'perfect' but the best I could possibly be anyway). I to tried the taupe eyebrow pencil but just couldn't get it right as it always looked fake to me. As for the eyelashes, I did try the false ones. Let me tell you, unless you have four hands or a teenager with very steady hand I wouldn't waste my time or money. Here is what I wrote in my journal the day I tried to apply them (I didn't lose mine until just after my final treatment):

    I thought of it the other day that I had previously bought some fake eyelashes for when I lost my eyelashes. Since I didn’t lose them during chemo I had completely forgotten about them.

    Well, I was late for work on Wednesday because I decided that morning to apply them. Let me tell you, it is not an easy task. How do you hold onto the lashes with two hands (you have to keep them shaped the same as your eyelid so I couldn’t hold it with just one hand) place those two hands right in front of your eyes and still be able to see what you are doing? I did eventually get them applied and made it to work, late. Of course, I was having an emotional day and cried through a couple of emails and managed to pull one of them off within 20 minutes of arriving at work.

    Thursday, I thought I would try again. Surely it would go better the second time! I got the first one applied fairly proficiently and had difficulty with the second one. Eventually I managed to apply that one too but a few minutes later noticed that the inner edge was not stuck to the lid. I took a little brush and tried to apply the glue to the lashes, which was not easy. It takes a few seconds for it to dry and it just so happened that my eye was watering at the time. Next thing I knew, I nearly had my eye glued shut. I decided I really didn’t want to walk around all day with one eye glued shut so I pulled the darn things off and went to work without them, late.

    Being a woman is not an easy thing! But I did get a good laugh out of it!

    Anyway, I then just applied eyeliner and mascara to the few that I did have and no one seemed to notice ude to the eyeliner.

    Good luck!
    Rita
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    Another helpful hint: for oral care - BIOTENE
    I had horrific & intense chemo. From the start, was strictly instructed to use the BIOTENE complete line of oral care products: toothpaste, mouthwash, etc. ... Easy to use, just replace the regular everyday stuff. Biotene helps with "dry mouth" - which chemo causes, which leads to painful mouth sores, which are difficult to heal once they begin during chemo. As things got worse for me, used the mouthwash often throughout the day - not just a.m. & p.m. Also available, Biotene gum - which I carried always in my purse. Great for when using the mouthwash isn't convenient, like when away from home.

    I didn't develop even one mouth sore, which my onc & nurses were very concerned about during treatment. Came close just once - immediately called my chemo nurse. She told me to rinse with warm salt water - as much salt as I could handle without gagging myself - as often as possible. (Something to do with PH level? Hard to recall.) I did that for an entire day, and it worked well to fend off the tiniest beginning of a mouth sore. (I was probably a little irrationally afraid of them!).

    Biotene products are available in all regular drug stores; but, sometimes found in the "oral care" specialty-type products aisle - not always alongside the everyday toothpaste, etc. brands. They cost more than the everyday stuff; but, I'm a testimonial for their worth. You'll save a couple of dollars if your local big box discounts carry the Biotene line. Not all of them do, I don't think. Locally for me, I was able to get Biotene at both Wal-Mart & Target.

    Kind regards, Susan
  • Aortus
    Aortus Member Posts: 967
    Only a Cheesehead
    ...would carve a foob out of foam with a Dremel Moto-Tool (the pride of my birthplace - Racine, WI)!

    It is an honor, Rita, to have been raised two blocks from the school where you once taught for a year.
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    Aortus said:

    Only a Cheesehead
    ...would carve a foob out of foam with a Dremel Moto-Tool (the pride of my birthplace - Racine, WI)!

    It is an honor, Rita, to have been raised two blocks from the school where you once taught for a year.

    What is a "foob"?
    My husband has a Dremel. Used to use the little sanding disk on the dog's nails, instead of cutting. That thing scares me; so, trimming (sanding) the dog's nails was always HIS job.

    Until recently when he splurged on a PediPaws, for ME. Actually, it was one of my birthday gifts - or was it for Christmas? I dunno... (Just one example of the downsides of a Christmas birthday.) Now it's my job.

    Kind regards, Susan

    P.S.: The PediPaws works great, more control (at least for me) than the Dremel. Has a safety guard built-in...
  • Moopy23
    Moopy23 Member Posts: 1,751 Member
    Many Thanks for Helpful Hints
    Thank you,Rita. Somehow I missed your post and this thread until today. I especially appreciate all of the eyebrow tips. Tasha said her eyebrows did not fall out until her last chemo, so I am still waiting to see if mine stick around.

    Also, I am going to get the Biotene products you recommended, Susan.

    Thanks to all.
  • Aortus
    Aortus Member Posts: 967

    What is a "foob"?
    My husband has a Dremel. Used to use the little sanding disk on the dog's nails, instead of cutting. That thing scares me; so, trimming (sanding) the dog's nails was always HIS job.

    Until recently when he splurged on a PediPaws, for ME. Actually, it was one of my birthday gifts - or was it for Christmas? I dunno... (Just one example of the downsides of a Christmas birthday.) Now it's my job.

    Kind regards, Susan

    P.S.: The PediPaws works great, more control (at least for me) than the Dremel. Has a safety guard built-in...

    Uh...
    Fake boob.

    Does the PediPaws really work? We get so tired of constantly taking Eefy and Nubi in (Yongy's nails are no problem) for nail trimming.

    Now R I M M I N G is a "no-no word?" That's pretty specialized if you ask me.
  • ritazimm
    ritazimm Member Posts: 171
    Aortus said:

    Only a Cheesehead
    ...would carve a foob out of foam with a Dremel Moto-Tool (the pride of my birthplace - Racine, WI)!

    It is an honor, Rita, to have been raised two blocks from the school where you once taught for a year.

    Cheap
    Yea, we're pretty cheap up here. Will do just about anything to save a buck. Cheapness is the mother of invention, you know. I know it goes something like that anyway.

    Love my Dremel. Very handy. Even makes foam Foobs.

    Besides being very inexpensive, I liked the foam foob to wear under my bathing suit. I would juet go to the restroom upon coming out of the water and squeeze the excess water out. Since mine was just temporary until my next surgery, I really didn't want to spend a lot of money on a prosthesis.

    Break out that Dremel Aortus.
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    Aortus said:

    Uh...
    Fake boob.

    Does the PediPaws really work? We get so tired of constantly taking Eefy and Nubi in (Yongy's nails are no problem) for nail trimming.

    Now R I M M I N G is a "no-no word?" That's pretty specialized if you ask me.

    Uh, I don't know what the heck happened there...
    Hate to admit this to a computer WIZARD, but...

    I typed TRIMMING. SAW trimming when I hit "Preview Comment" (like a weirdo, I always proofread my posts... I know, I know... nobody else here probably gives a darn about spelling & punctuation... kinda an obsessive habit of mine... and just about my own writings, I don't care about anyone else's).

    What can I say? Other than, the ol' iMacG5 is aging. Even with a brand spankin' new hard drive AND power supply within the last 6 months. Seems to be gettin' quirkier & quirkier...

    Kind regards, Susan
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member

    Uh, I don't know what the heck happened there...
    Hate to admit this to a computer WIZARD, but...

    I typed TRIMMING. SAW trimming when I hit "Preview Comment" (like a weirdo, I always proofread my posts... I know, I know... nobody else here probably gives a darn about spelling & punctuation... kinda an obsessive habit of mine... and just about my own writings, I don't care about anyone else's).

    What can I say? Other than, the ol' iMacG5 is aging. Even with a brand spankin' new hard drive AND power supply within the last 6 months. Seems to be gettin' quirkier & quirkier...

    Kind regards, Susan

    EGADS!
    IT HAPPENED AGAIN!

    What the heck about TRIMMING could be censored?!?

    Kind regards, Susan
  • ritazimm
    ritazimm Member Posts: 171

    EGADS!
    IT HAPPENED AGAIN!

    What the heck about TRIMMING could be censored?!?

    Kind regards, Susan

    Of course we can't have any
    Of course we can't have any trimming in here. We're all afraid of that!
  • rjjj
    rjjj Member Posts: 1,822 Member
    Moopy23 said:

    Many Thanks for Helpful Hints
    Thank you,Rita. Somehow I missed your post and this thread until today. I especially appreciate all of the eyebrow tips. Tasha said her eyebrows did not fall out until her last chemo, so I am still waiting to see if mine stick around.

    Also, I am going to get the Biotene products you recommended, Susan.

    Thanks to all.

    Hey Moopy
    mine are still hanging in their for dear life. They are thinned (but i always plucked anyway.) my eyelashes seem a little thinner..but i still have them. Maybe we will be spared?
    my best to our eye lashes/brows!!
    love ya
    jackie
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    ritazimm said:

    Of course we can't have any
    Of course we can't have any trimming in here. We're all afraid of that!

    What the heck?
    :-)

    Kind regards, Susan

    P.S.: Although we Midwesterners may have our differences (just teasing), I believe we share a certain unique sense of humor. :-)
  • Aortus
    Aortus Member Posts: 967

    What the heck?
    :-)

    Kind regards, Susan

    P.S.: Although we Midwesterners may have our differences (just teasing), I believe we share a certain unique sense of humor. :-)

    Weeeeird
    The "T" isn't the problem. It's all the other letters that the software objects to. And frankly, what it describes is pretty objectionable.
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
    Aortus said:

    Weeeeird
    The "T" isn't the problem. It's all the other letters that the software objects to. And frankly, what it describes is pretty objectionable.

    Auto Censor Strikes Again
    I don't even want to know why both of us know just what that objectional, graphic word means!!!! I used to always say ( whether it be music or a joke or a recipe) that my MOM taught it to me. This time I will not say any such thing! Sheeeesh!

    We're doomed, I tell you~ we're doomed!!!!!!

    Claudia