My Dad's At Peace

mindy10
mindy10 Member Posts: 182 Member
edited March 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1
Hi Everyone, I want to thank everyone for all their support over the last year. My dad passed away this morning at 12:55. I didnt make it there to be with him but I am at peace with that. The funny thing is my mom told him at 12:45 that I could not be there I was home taking care of the baby and he passed on at 12:55. I was sound asleep on the couch and at exactly 12:55 I woke up and went up stairs. I believe that he came to say goodbye and thats why I woke up at 12:55. I was so relieved when I got that call because I know he is finally at peace now and no more physical or mental pain. Thanks again for all your support throughout the months. Mindy

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  • 2bhealed
    2bhealed Member Posts: 2,064 Member
    #2
    ((((mindy)))))

    I completely believe that you did feel the presence of your father and that he woke you up. How comforting that is that you can carry that feeling with you as you walk through your grief of losing him.

    My prayers are with your family.

    peace, emily
  • spongebob
    spongebob Member Posts: 2,565 Member
    #3
    Mindy -

    I am sorry for your loss, but you are absolutely right that he is at peace now. I think it is wonderful that you were able to share a moment in his presence - what a beautiful thing.

    You have been an amazing advocate and supporter of your dad throughout his battle. My hat's off to you and I am humbled by your courage, tenacity and strength.

    I hope you don't move on from our little group - you have volumes of knowledge to share with others who are caring for sick parents and loved ones. They can learn so much from you and your experience.

    Be well, Mindy. Take some time and rest now and heal your heart and your spirit. No doubt your dad will be right there with you, helping you through it all.

    Peace.

    - SB
  • WendyMarie
    WendyMarie Member Posts: 48
    #4
    I am kind of new to this group but have followed your posts about your father. What a fabulous source of support you were for him. Caregivers are special and amazing people!! You and your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers!!

    Thinking of you,
    Wendy
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    #5
    Oh, my gentle lady!
    Hugs are coming your way. I had a similar thing happen with my mother-in-law...came to say goodbye and not to worry about her.
    Remember my saying 'He has just moved, from in front of your eyes, into your heart, where he will live forever'.
    PLEASE stay with us...we need to keep up with family here!
    BIG Hugs, Kathi
  • Btrcup
    Btrcup Member Posts: 286
    #6
    {{{{Mindy}}}} I'm sorry for your loss, but your dad is no longer suffering. My children like to say that the devil gave their dad cancer, but God took him so he wouldn't suffer anymore.

    Linda
  • AuthorUnknown
    AuthorUnknown Member Posts: 1,537 Member
    #7
    Dear Mindy,

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your Dad will always be with you. You are right - He is now at peace and free with God. We will pray for him. Take care of youself and your mom now. She now needs you more than ever. E-mail me any time if you want to talk.

    God Bless, Eleonora
  • goldfinch
    goldfinch Member Posts: 735
    #8
    Mindy,
    I am sorry for your loss, but am glad to see that you are at peace, as I know your dad is. May the many, wonderful memories you've shared with your dad support you in the coming days, weeks, months, etc.
    Mary
  • themis01
    themis01 Member Posts: 167
    #9
    Mindy I am sorry to hear about your dad. It is a tough time for you and your family. I hope that you all pull together and are able to cope as well as possible.
    Erika
  • midnte0708
    midnte0708 Member Posts: 166
    #10
    I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad.
    You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Sue
  • MarkWalz
    MarkWalz Member Posts: 58
    #11
    Mindy,
    Praying for you in time of sorrow. I am so very sorry.
    Mark
  • Moesimo
    Moesimo Member Posts: 1,072 Member
    #12
    My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Cherish those good memories.

    Maureen
  • alihamilton
    alihamilton Member Posts: 347 Member
    #13
    Mindy, I am sorry to hear of your father's passing but glad you are at peace. Your Dad knew how devoted you were as a daughter and that he could leave this world even though you could not be there with him. You were there for him during his illness and that is what is important. I know everyone on this board would want to send love and support to your mother at this time.
    Take care of yourself.
    Ali
  • jerseysue
    jerseysue Member Posts: 624 Member
    #14
    My thoughts are with you and your family.
  • suezav
    suezav Member Posts: 42
    #15
    jerseysue said:

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

    mindy, your posts have brought me to tears several times. your dad has got to be so proud of you and what a loving and caring daughter you are. may his memory be a blessing to you. susan
  • fedester
    fedester Member Posts: 753 Member
    #16
    mindy,
    i am sorry for your loss. dad is at peace now.
    take care of yourself and mom.
    be well
    all the best
    bruce
  • jenalynet
    jenalynet Member Posts: 361 Member
    #17
    Mindy,
    I am sure your dad is now at peace. You were very supportive of him during his fight..Bless you and your family, take care of yourself, Audrey
  • Betsydoglover
    Betsydoglover Member Posts: 1,248 Member
    #18
    Dear Mindy,

    I am so sorry but know that your Dad is at peace now and I am glad you can also have more peace. Wonderful that he "visited" you at his passing - I really believe that is what happened. He was letting you know what a wonderful daughter you are and how much he knows you cared for him.

    We are never ready to lose a parent, but try to remember that he is at peace as you work though the grief.

    And, I realize you may well want to keep a distance, but don't stop coming here just because you Dad has passed. We're still a great group and would love to hear how you are doing - and besides as long as Ying is posting, there's that Friday Giggle to look forward to!

    You and your Mom and the rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Take care,
    Betsy
  • micheleamw
    micheleamw Member Posts: 62
    #19
    ((Mindy))

    I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bring you comfort during your time of sorrow.

    In Sympathy~
    Michele

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