Here's my story

I'm 61. I was on active surveillance for two years. When my 3+4 turned to 4+3 and my PSA went to 10, they told me I was no longer a candidate for active surveillance.

I had a prostatectomy in early March. I wore Depends for at least six weeks, most of the time with a pad inside the Depends and sometime even with toilet paper stuffed around the edges if I was going somewhere. Three and a half months later, I'm down to two pads a day and can sleep through the night without any pad at all. I started pelvic floor physical therapy three weeks ago. I can tell it is helping a lot.

I take 5 mg of Cialis daily. I've had a few floppy erections that can't 'do the deed' but hopefully show signs of eventual recovery. I've masturbated (with a lot of concentration and lubricant) to a few of what I assume are my new orgasms. I still don't have any spontaneous or morning erections.

Things are definitely better. I hope they continue to do so.

All the best to anyone that reads this.