Catheter Removal

Hi,

I let the Urologist pull mine just incase there was an issue. I know they pull lots of them so I wanted their professional opinion when they pulled it that everything appeared normal.

Dave 3+4

I don't want to scare anyone here, but in my humble opinion, catheter removal is the absolute worst feeling in the world!

I hate it so much, I would reconsider any future surgery that would require it during the recovery period - or demand to be anaesthetized to get it removed. I don't want to experience it awake ever again.

The only way I would do it at home is if I was extremely drunk and full of prescribed narcotics, then maybe I would tug it a bit at a time over several hours.

I know that sounds weak, but it's just me. I've had a horrible time with things going up there over the years, from my first cystoscopy which was done under anaesthetic many years ago to look for polyps in my bladder after having an infection, which, although I didn't experience pain, resulted in me peeing like I had a snake's tongue for years after (sometimes messy...). After my RP I had a hard time with my catheter in hospital (I was overflowing AROUND it) and the nurses decided to re-seat it to see if it would fix the problem. Barely. Despite still having some painkillers on board, I was also at my mental nadir, and this procedure felt like a giant nerve had been struck. It was the absolute worst acute pain I'd felt up to then. I made up my mind - never again.

Turns out that I took the catheter home (as expected) but I had it in me for three bloody weeks! My urologist went on holidays two days after my surgery and didn't want anyone to remove it in his absence because he wanted to eyewitness my first catheter-free flow test. After that length of time, it was physically difficult to remove. More excruciating pain! WTF had I done to deserve this, I thought. And, more forked tongue peeing afterwards.

Fast forward eight years and it was time to get my worsening incontinence dealt with, so I had an ATOMS sling fitted in August this year. A couple of weeks prior, as part of the pre-op procedure, I had to get a cystoscopy! My (different) urologist suggested that it would be done under a local anaesthetic. No worries, I had no aware memories of my last one I thought, and it couldn't be as bad as a catheter, could it? Wrong! The local anaesthetic did SFA, and it was a horrible day.

So, then I had the surgery which required an overnight stay only, and I was kitted up with a catheter. OMFG, can life get any worse? I was dreading its removal and was already aware that my urethra was restricted by the sling. In engineering terms, the catheter was more of an 'interference fit' than ever before. So the nurse began removing it, I was literally white-knuckle digging into the mattress and gritting my teeth to the point of breaking them, and she says - "Relax! I can't remove it if you're tensing up!" She's trying to drag a mains pipe through the eye of the needle, and she wants me to relax??? 😵

Never again. Not awake, anyway.

Hi,

My “pull” was not that bad, just a little uncomfortable. As lighterwood said I also took a diaper with me cause at least in my case I leaked pretty bad for a few days after the pull. The worse part for me was when they pulled the drain out of my side in the hospital before I was released, it felt like they were pulling my insides out with it. Very weird feeling for a 61 yr. old surgery first timer.

Good luck……….

Dave 3+4

Good decision!

I've never heard of anyone having problems with a catheter removal until recently and then happened on this Discussion only to discover while rare it does happen and more often that I had ever thought.

First off, I never had problems with my removal, the nurse who performed it probably does them 20 - 30 times a day was excellent. She sensed my apprehension and told my to lie back on the exam table and cough. I did. And it was all over. Total time, maybe 1/2 second.

A close friend experienced the exact opposite this past week. He's been wearing a catheter off and on (mostly on) for the past NINE MONTHS (long story). He changes the bag as needed and goes to the doctor's office twice a month to have the catheter changed. This time, the nurse couldn't get it out. She called in another nurse to assist, with the same results. He ended up with the two nurses, his doctor and another doctor in the room all trying to remove it. They ended up inserting two small wires trying to untangle whatever they were trying to untangle and finally got it out. Estimated total time just under an hour. He said the pain was the worst he has ever experienced. Then, he had to have a catheter reinserted pending surgery in a date TBD.

If he had known what was going to happen he would have asked for heavy sedation or surgery before he would knowingly volunteer to put himself through what he went through.

I'd have anesthetized myself with a hammer first.

I pulled mine at home. Took a second to get up the nerve but, wasn't too bad. A few seconds of discomfort. Did it in the shower to avoid any mess. What a relief to get that out.