Second Breast Cancer

My first cancer was Er/PR negative and HER2+. I had 4 infusions of Adriamycin and cyclophosphamide over 3 months. The next 3 months I was to have Taxotere for 4 infusions and Herceptin for a full 12 months. They had to stop the Taxotere after the first 2 infusions because of the neuropathy and the fact that my blood work was not returning to acceptable levels. I did continue the full year of Herceptin. I am now seeing my second oncologist, but she refuses to give me the Adriamycin/cyclophosphamide at all even after stating that is what she would use the first time I saw her. Her only reasoning when I asked her why the change was: I am just not comfortable with it. No reason given for the about face. Now she wants to give me paclitaxel and carboplatin every week for 12 weeks along with Keytruda every three weeks for a year. I am terrified of the paclitaxel because I already have serious permanent neuropathy from the Taxotere 14 years ago and still take pregabalin daily just to keep the pain mostly bearable. There is also the fact that in addition to the Paclitaxel, the Keytruda and Carboplatin can also cause peripheral neuropathy and a host of really dangerous side effects. I am about ready to just not have any treatment. She won't give me the drugs that worked last time and produced a complete pathologic response in just 3 months and I'm not willing to risk further damage to my already seriously damaged nerves. I really have nowhere to turn, but thanks so much for your reply.