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Hey, you are going to do fine. Just remember that the anasthesiologist will come into pre-op and will talk with you about anasthesia. An IV will be started in pre-op and they will give you some drug and you will not be anxious after that. The drug also makes you forget much of what happens once you say “see you when I am done with surgery “ “ “Love you! “

You will have a urinary catheter in but remember they put that in once you are in the operating room. The priest or hospital chaplain will visit you in pre-op if you request it. Praying helps bring grace to you in pre-op. You may be very surprised how calm you are in pre-op because finally the long wait to get the cancer out of you begins!

You will also need to make sure that when you get out of bed that you have a pain pill 30 minutes before. The nurses will show you how to get out of bed using the best technique. Sounds like you are having laparoscopic approach versus an open procedure. Laparoscopic recovery is no where near as invasive as open. You will likely have no problem getting in and out of bed. Splinting your stomach with a pillow when you get up will help. In open procedures they give you an abdominal binder to help reduce pressure on incision when you get out of bed.

Drinks lots of water during recovery. Don’ t be afraid of taking stool softners (like Ducolax) and you can take 3 or 4 at a time if you get constipated badly. Just think how relieved you will be once your surgery is done! Lots of us are keeping you in our prayers. Sending my gaurdian angel to be with your gaurdian angel to bring you comfort and grace as you undergo your surgery and begin your recovery. ((Hug))

Lori

Saltycandy, also wrote on your other question but want to assure you all will be well. I had mine one year ago, Jan. 25.  At 77, I had lots of possible dangers but it went beautifully and I was on my feet and moving well 2 days after. I also had chemo and radiation and blood clots BUT today I am exercising 5 days a week, tutoring, volunteering and planning on a horseback ride in a month!!! Relax and have fun for the next 3 days. Go to a movie, buy new pj's, go to an expensive restaurant... you will be so glad it is over come Jan. 20!!!  

I had my laparoscopic hysterectomy in June 2015, everyone is different, I was up and about two days later, even went car shopping with my husband (OK, that was not a good idea, but I just needed to get out of the house). Got back to work in a week, (my job is not physically demanding). Let your body decide when you are ready to start getting back to your normal routines, dont push yourself.  Something that helped me a lot was tying up a bedsheet to the end of the bed, that way, when I needed to get up I could simply pull on the sheet as I got up, it was a huge help. I wish you a speedy recovery! Be kind to yourself.

Lucy

I know the anxiety well! I had my laparoscopic hysterectomy just last Thursday, and I am amazed at how good I feel already. I have no memory of the catheter, it was already out when I woke up. I had some post anesthesia nausea and dizziness, and my appetite was lousy for a couple of days, but honestly, today I feel pretty normal. I am also really , really glad to have it over with!  

The nurses taught me the best way to get in and out of bed. I am sleepimg in a recliner in the living room, seems to be the most comfortable And easier to get ina nd out, so if you have or can borrow a recliner, that may be a help to you. The constipation was handled with dulcolax and stool softeners, and went away as soon as I was off the narcotics 3 days post-surgery.

Be kind to yourself leading up to surgery, and know that you are Taking Care of Business, TCB!

evolo58 said:

Thank you, everyone!

Oops. Wrong thread. Sorry about my previous response. That made NO sense in this thread whatsoever!

But I echo what many write here ... take it easy and slow, and Mr. Pillow is your friend after surgery. I took that pillow around everywhere I went in the earlier days post my myomectomy.

You may be asked to use a spirometer. It is useful. I know I thought it silly, though I still followed instructions and used it, but a nurse here has already told us it's important. I would tend to believe the nurse!

Hope everything turns out even better than expected!

I've had two cancer surgeries which were both very extensive open procedures (for stage IVb UPSC) and to be honest, very painful.  One included an appendectomy and gall bladder surgery, the other had two resections of my intestines.  If you find yourself with a lot of pain after surgery (hopefully you won't), I would consider getting a visiting nurse to come to your house and advise you of the best way to do things.  I thought I'd pull myself off the john using my towel bar, but the nurse said sometimes towel bars fall off the wall, so she recommended putting my forearm on the nearby windowsill and pushing myself up on that.  She told me to roll over on my side in bed and push myself off my heavy nightstand to get up.  I found I couldn't even get into my very tall bed after surgery and had to spend a week and a half on a low sofa.  At the hospital, I had wicked pain running down the back of one leg and had to have a nurse or a tech lift my leg out of bed for a few days after surgery until I could tolerate doing it myself.  I tend to be very independent, so I felt like I was being a bit of a pansy, but the pain was just so bad that I felt I had no choice. 

For me, the Percocet I was given really didn't even work.  After taking it for 3 or 4 days in hopes that it was doing something for me, I was so constipated by it that I had to stop it.  The constipation was just making the pain worse.  If they give you that, my advice is to get off of it as soon as you can.

Beware of UTI's caused by the urinary catheter.  You probably have to have the catheter so you don't pee when you're unconscious in the middle of surgery, but watch for UTI symptoms after surgery, like burning and frequency of urination and ask for a urine culture and antibiotics if you get those symptoms.  The insertion of a catheter can push bacteria up into women's very short urethras into the bladder all too easily. 

I hope all goes smoothly for you and you don't have any of the problems I did.  Most people don't.

I want to wish you well with your upcoming surgery.  

I had a complete hysterectomy using DaVinci robotic In August. I also had two c sections.   Comparing the two procedures, it's abdominal surgery, your body has to heal and don't overdo it

I live alone so these are some tips and my experience so I hope it helps you.

Before surgery, I shopped bought all the heavy items like canned good, kitty liter, dog food and so on.  For food i bought soups, yogurt, fruits, for a light diet to recoup after surgery.  You wlll not have too much of an appetite...I know I didn't.  It will also help your body to get everything working.  

I received the annointing of the sick before surgery from my priest.  That helped me so I understand you want to see a priest. After that I was ready.

You will see the team prior to taking you into surgery including your surgeon.  You will be given something to keep you calm before you go into OR.  When you wake up in post-op you are carefully monitored and will have meds for pain.  You will not leave post op until they know all your vitals are stable and you are not in pain. Get up out of bed as soon as you can when you are in your room when they ask you to try. The quicker you can get up and move the better!  You will have assistance, however, do not leave that hospital until you know you can get out of bed by yourself, go to the bathroom and walk around.  I did not take any of the narcotics, I was able to control any discomfort with motrin.  I found that better than the tylenol.  I also wanted to be able to get around feeling stable on my feet.  I used a pillow to protect and cushion my abdomen.  That pillow was my best friend and I used it at home.  Just felt good to have there.

Be careful getting in the car, you will feel everything and the pillow will help you.  I was able to go up the stairs at my first  night to my bedroom.  Take everything slow and "listen" to your body.  I have two sons, one stayed until he went back to school that weekend.  My other son and his wife stayed in the house at night a few more days.  Overall, I was alone duirng the day, moved around, dressed myself, etc.  Just take it slow.  I also found having a grabber to get things, or pick up something from the floor.  Believe me if you drop a tissue you will not be able to bend down and get it.  

You will do well.  Just take it slow.  Be sure before you leave that you are mobile on your own, can move around, and you can go to the bathroom.  You will also have stool softners to help your body until everything was working.  I was fine by the time I left the hospital.  I was released the next day.

You will have little incisions.  I had 3 on each side and one above my belly botton.  They are topped off with a clear glue. 

I was grounded for 3 weeks from driving.  At home, I kept myself mobile by walking, going outside and walking around just don't do too much.. If you do, your body will let you know!

My post op appt was duirng my 4th week and I drove to my appointment.  My 5th week I started back to work, also began chemo and just took time off as needed during my treatments.

You will be in my thoughts and prayers.  Everything will go well and I wish you all the best.  I hope I eased some of your pre-anxiety.  You are on a wonderful site for support.  The ladies here helped me get through my preanxiety jitters when I was going to start chemo.  That is when I found this site.  You will find a lot of support courage and inspiration from all the wonderful ladies with this support group.  

I hope this helped you.

Hugs,

Sandra

That's a good point about the pillow.  i wish I'd had one going home from the hospital.  The roads I had to take to get home from Albany, NY were atrocious, full of potholes..  I'm sure there are a lot of roads across the country that are bad from the weather at this time of the year.  I had large incisions each time I had surgery and wanted to give the road crews a piece of my mind every time I got jostled.  A pillow underneath me would have cushioned the blows, and one to put on my belly would've been great, too.  

SaltyCandy13, Your big day for surgery is tomorrow! There will be many “sisters” keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Please post on the discussion board again once you feel up to it. ((Hug))

Lori

hi Karen,

just wanted to add my voice of support to the many others here. Everyone has shared great advice and wisdom; I hope you can draw strength from that and comfort from knowing that we are all rooting for you. Tomorrow we will all be Team Karen!