Weight gain... how to plump up my hubby?

I am so impressed he has gained back that much weight!  We are just trying not to continue to lose weight.  The struggle is real here.  Also, so many things are directed to people trying to lose or maintain weight, I find I have to completely think diferently for my husband.  The dietician told us to try to substitute milk or another calorie containing drink for water when possible and that the real key is eating more snacks/meals in a day.  She encouraged him to eat at least 2 snacks a day.  Also, since liquid is helpful she suggested concentrating on meals that had liquid in them already so there would not be a need to supplement by drinking which as you have noticed is an appetite suppressant.  She pointed out that filling up with water is a weight loss tip not a weight gain tip but she said many HNC patients sruggle with balancing the need for liquids with the impact on calorie intake.  So, we try to pack the calories into smoothies and soups but it is still hard for him. You would be amazed what you can add an entire avcocado to and have them not notice.  He can barely or not eat meat and has ended up mostly vegetarianish right now.  I think you are doing great to be honest.  As mentioned activity level matters too but they need that to build stamina and preserve sanity so I never encourage him to be sedentary.  

Tonita said:

Are you saying he's at a

Are you saying he's at a plateau now with the weight gain?  10-15 pound gained over what period of time?  I don't understand what the rush is to gain more weight.  This all sounds perfectly normal and healthy to me.  I wouldn't do the dessert thing (sugar feeds cancer).  You might try some calorie dense things that are healthy.  Go to cinnamonhealth.com and find the peanut butter protein bars recipe.  Those are delicious and perfectly healthy.  Buy organic peanut butter, sugarless applesause also organic and it's not in the recipe but I drizzle melted dark chocolate over the top.  NO baking involved.  Don't push empty, unhealthy calories.  Diet is so important.

Not looking to get into the 'sugar debate' but everything you eat is eventually reduced to sugar in your body. You will never starve cancer of sugar. All of your cells require and use sugar (glucose). Not a single cancer doctor or ENT I spoke to suggested avoiding sugar - other than to be smart about it and don't be unhealthy in your eating. Moderation is the key.

Putting on weight really comes down to what weight should you be.

I was 194 pounds at 5' 11" when I started treatment. My normal weight was 175. The wife put 19 pounds on me pre-treatment. I dropped to about 158 at my lowest. However, the doctor reminded me that I really should weigh between 160 and about 175 at the most. So, while I am trying to put on weight, I'm not looking to put on much and don't want to get to my pre-treatment weight.

MMDowns,

Weight gain should be a piece of cake, making him taller is a stretch to my imagination.

I always added fats and oils.  Lots of olive oil, and lots of vegetable oil, and butter, and peanuts.

I never thought of it before, but if he will do tricks, I would give him a high calorie treat and some water to wash it down (you were always thinking).

Matt

Hi, glad to hear your husband is going well. I struggelled getting the weight back on my husband too, i got used to filling him up with custards and smoothies always putting in the good manuka honey to help the dryness, but it does take a long time and the first 2 years he was on resource plus drinks taking 5-7 per day of all different flavours This maintained his weight and he eventually gained back 10 pounds. But to date he never got back to his old weight and eventually got to a new old weight except now he is diagnosed with prostate cancer and we are going to radiation every day so weight is an issue again. Good luck I am sure if you keep experimenting with foods you will get that new old weight. regards Deb

I suggest talking to your husband about your plans.  I dropped from 6'1" 225 lbs to 6'1" 185 lbs and have every intention of NEVER regaining that weight.  I struggled in a yo-yo between 215 and 225 for decades, never could keep it off.  It's gone, I am now at BMI Normal for my height, something I thought I left behind in college.  Being overweight is misery, and keeping it off is far easier than taking it off.  I allow a 3 lb swing, when I hit 189 it's diet time, in the mean time I am trying to convert as much as possible to muscle.  When I hit the slopes this winter I'm skiing double blacks, I spent last December staring at a hospital room ceiling.  It's a gift, I'm keeping it.