Anyone Stage 4 and still working?

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  • todd121
    todd121 Member Posts: 1,448 Member
    Richgels1 said:

    Todd,

    It is my understanding that you cannot work and apply for SSD at the same time. If you work, your application is disqualified. You must be out of work the full six months before the benefits kick in. It will take 6 months for benefits to start. What you have heard about Obama care is false. You can pick the plan you want when you sign up. Doctors do not check to see if you have insurance through the ACA site and they certainly do not put you down on some priority list. The plan you pick is the same plan that other people have that will pay a higher premium for. If you stopped working and applied for SSD, Then signed-up for Obama care you would qualify for maximum credits towards premiums the first year becuase of you income level. This means your premium would be around 60 dollors and your max out of pocket for the year would be $500 dollors. The second year you would pay a bit more because you would receive a full year of benefits so you income level would be higher which is how they determine you premium cost. After two years you would automatically be enrolled in Medicare. Do some research and you will see that what I am saying is true. Hope this helps some. Scott

    SSDI

    Thanks for the info. When I applied I was on short term disability and not working and had just been diagnosed Stage IV with my recurrence after my surgery. I wasn't sure frankly if I would go back to work. If you look at the website for SSDI, it lists metastatic kidney cancer as one of the conditions for approvaly, but I assume you're correct and that as soon as I went back to work it disqualified me. Still would have been nice to have heard something from them: a letter, a call, anything.

    What you say about Obamacare I would have thought is true. However, I've heard from 3-4 friends that they have it and have had trouble getting appointments. I had one friend say he was told by certain doctors that they don't take it because it doesn't pay as well as other regular policies. So I'm not sure about it. I don't know how to find out for sure. Perhaps I should ask the doctor's billing people directly. I hope it is so as you say it is.

    If I want to get really good care, I have to make sure that I keep insurance that will pay these top specialists in my area. I have such a high probability of needing it, I don't feel like I can risk going without it.

    Best wishes,

    Todd

  • foxhd
    foxhd Member Posts: 3,181 Member

    Thanks for your feedback

    Thanks for your feedback Brenda.  It looks like it is the Chemo pills that makes it unbearable for most.  Lucky you got to have surgery!  Just Kidding... I'm impressed with you and your strength.  xoxoxo

    I went

    back to work for 6 months after surgery. But when I applied for SSD, they went back to my diagnosis date, not end of work date.

  • Qt34167
    Qt34167 Member Posts: 41
    SSD online

    i went to a SS office an hour before it opened and had to be 50+ people in line.  I went home discouraged and decided to try applying online.  It was straight forward and was contacted three weeks later that it was sent to determination department.  Received a pack of documents to fill out and faxed in.  Two weeks later I received a deposit for two months, so five weeks total.  I was flabbergasted and relieved to have one less thing to worry about.

    there was no way I was going to spend one more day in the office after the diagnosis.

  • brea588
    brea588 Member Posts: 240
    MattInVa said:

    Thoughts

    I am stage IV Grade IV, mets to my lungs, had my right kidney removed at the end of Aug. I started Votrient 19 days ago. They gave me a very poor prognosis due to the Grade IV nature of my tumors. My first ONC said to plan for a 1-2 year life expectancy. I believe that it will be a good bit longer than that, proof is in the boards here.

    Votrients side effects have been mild so far. I do get bouts of nausea during the days and sometimes at night. 

    I am a bit younger at 45 than many here, but I get tired working for more than a couple of hours. I have a small mechanic shop so my job is physically demanding.  I am considering SSD also although  I have enough income from my property rentals to live on, but not very well.

    I to have considered starting to liquidate some of my 401k, since I am single with no dependents or heirs. My understanding is 401k can be used for medical expenses without penalty. That would free up money for other things I want to do.

    Its very difficult planning life around this disease. I have a good savings and don't want to burn through it, but I don't know what my future holds so I don't want to deny living either.

    I appreciate the information that RCC Stage IV is a SSD fast track. Its something for me to look into.

    I am also a vet and with SSD probably eligible for a military pension.

    Matt

    thoughts

    None of us really know how long we have on this beautiful earth, but some times doc gives some close estimates of what some have left.  My thought is ,  if 1-2 years is his opinion and you are single with no heirs,  WHAT are you waiting on.  Get your money and live like you want too. sign uup for your disability.  We have no guarantees but from waht you say I would do whatever Ihave always wanted to do while I felt like it and enjoy all of it.  If you are here longer and I sure hope you are and you have enjoyed yourself with things you want ,  then there is always government housing, and cheaper ways to live.  So see the best of both, if it has to be that way.  I am praying for you and hope you have many many years on this earth.  But live for today, tomorrow is not promised.   My   prayers daily for you.

  • Qt34167
    Qt34167 Member Posts: 41
    foxhd said:

    I went

    back to work for 6 months after surgery. But when I applied for SSD, they went back to my diagnosis date, not end of work date.

    SSD

    hi foxhad,

     

    i hope you are doing well.  I was recently approved for SSD.  I was wondering if it is permanent or will they come back and ask us to requalify?  RCC is incurable so I am guessing not.

     

    any ideas?  How long have you been on it?

     

    michael poggi

     

  • saintmont
    saintmont Member Posts: 63
    still working

    Hi Everyone, I am Stage 4 numerous lung mets. I still work full-time the only problem I have is sore feet and occansonianal diaherria. I still play golf , walk and do weights. Iam lucky because I get looked at work.

    Regards saintmont

  • foxhd
    foxhd Member Posts: 3,181 Member
    Qt34167 said:

    SSD

    hi foxhad,

     

    i hope you are doing well.  I was recently approved for SSD.  I was wondering if it is permanent or will they come back and ask us to requalify?  RCC is incurable so I am guessing not.

     

    any ideas?  How long have you been on it?

     

    michael poggi

     

    SSD

    I was told they may check on my status at some time. That won't matter. I haven't gotten better yet. It's been 3-4 years since benefits. I'm very thankful.

  • Footstomper
    Footstomper Member Posts: 1,237 Member
    foxhd said:

    SSD

    I was told they may check on my status at some time. That won't matter. I haven't gotten better yet. It's been 3-4 years since benefits. I'm very thankful.

    SSD

    Now retired disabled I've been told to get in touch with Social Security. But what do I want? What need I ask for?

  • mrou50
    mrou50 Member Posts: 389 Member
    Working

    I have been stage IV for a year I take the Votrient religiously and I still work.  I did fill out the FMLA papers as did my ONC, the school district I work for has been patient with me but they said they will always leave termination on the board (of course they would like idiots in the media firing a cancer patient and schools hate bad publicity).  Under the Votrient I have had numerous problems with bowel control, fatigue, chemo brain, and various others issues and I have thought about SSD but I have way to many bills and I would not get much from SSD.  I think this will be my last year of teaching full time, I was told when I contacted SSD I could make about 1000 dollars extra a month working so I figure I will Sub teacher a couple of days a week next year until I just don't feel up to it anymore.  All this being said I admit I have missed a lot of work days because the Votrient was kicking my butt, recently my ONC gave me a sort of  vacation by dropping my dosage down to 400 mgs and that has helped, however he said this week I will probably go back up which means the torture begins again.  I want to teach as long as I can because I love teaching and I have bills to pay but I know there will come a time that it has to end and I plan on getting some of that money from SSD that I have been paying into for so long.

     

    Mark

  • Footstomper
    Footstomper Member Posts: 1,237 Member
    mrou50 said:

    Working

    I have been stage IV for a year I take the Votrient religiously and I still work.  I did fill out the FMLA papers as did my ONC, the school district I work for has been patient with me but they said they will always leave termination on the board (of course they would like idiots in the media firing a cancer patient and schools hate bad publicity).  Under the Votrient I have had numerous problems with bowel control, fatigue, chemo brain, and various others issues and I have thought about SSD but I have way to many bills and I would not get much from SSD.  I think this will be my last year of teaching full time, I was told when I contacted SSD I could make about 1000 dollars extra a month working so I figure I will Sub teacher a couple of days a week next year until I just don't feel up to it anymore.  All this being said I admit I have missed a lot of work days because the Votrient was kicking my butt, recently my ONC gave me a sort of  vacation by dropping my dosage down to 400 mgs and that has helped, however he said this week I will probably go back up which means the torture begins again.  I want to teach as long as I can because I love teaching and I have bills to pay but I know there will come a time that it has to end and I plan on getting some of that money from SSD that I have been paying into for so long.

     

    Mark

    Mark

    You just wrote the story of my life up to september. Then I got pneumonia and spent a week in hospital. Then I got to thinking, was I helping anyone by carrying on. I'd used up all my sick days and was working half a day. Much more of that and I would jeapordize my pension. I was finding the students harder to control because I wasnt seeing them dailly. That also made it harder to monitor their progress

    In the meantime it was only a mattter of time before I shat myself in the classroom and my immune system was comromised so I was going to get sick again. Everyone I knew within the school system was incredibly supportive but the people at the level of middle management to whom I was only a number wanted me fired.

    All in all retirement was the best option. I retired last week.

  • cheatinlil
    cheatinlil Member Posts: 197 Member

    Mark

    You just wrote the story of my life up to september. Then I got pneumonia and spent a week in hospital. Then I got to thinking, was I helping anyone by carrying on. I'd used up all my sick days and was working half a day. Much more of that and I would jeapordize my pension. I was finding the students harder to control because I wasnt seeing them dailly. That also made it harder to monitor their progress

    In the meantime it was only a mattter of time before I shat myself in the classroom and my immune system was comromised so I was going to get sick again. Everyone I knew within the school system was incredibly supportive but the people at the level of middle management to whom I was only a number wanted me fired.

    All in all retirement was the best option. I retired last week.

    God Bless you Footstomper!
    I

    God Bless you Footstomper!

    I know it is a tough decision to make.  My husband still flip flops with the idea.  I see him and I can't imagine him working in his condition.  THe only time he wants to work is when he stresses about finances.  I hope he can make peace with it.  I think the resting is needed for healing.  It is a tough road this cancer.

  • Footstomper
    Footstomper Member Posts: 1,237 Member

    God Bless you Footstomper!
    I

    God Bless you Footstomper!

    I know it is a tough decision to make.  My husband still flip flops with the idea.  I see him and I can't imagine him working in his condition.  THe only time he wants to work is when he stresses about finances.  I hope he can make peace with it.  I think the resting is needed for healing.  It is a tough road this cancer.

    cheatinlil

    I actually sat down and made a list of reasons to keep working and reasons to stop. This was a very private activity I didnt share with anyone until I had finished.

    Basically I was working because I wanted to.

    I wasnt doing a good job.

    I was in danger of losing my pension

    I had run out of sick pay and the sick pay bank

    The students lacked a predictable environment

    You could never be sure of the quality of substitute teachers and so on.

    There wasnt really a decision to make once I got to the end of it.

  • mrou50
    mrou50 Member Posts: 389 Member

    Mark

    You just wrote the story of my life up to september. Then I got pneumonia and spent a week in hospital. Then I got to thinking, was I helping anyone by carrying on. I'd used up all my sick days and was working half a day. Much more of that and I would jeapordize my pension. I was finding the students harder to control because I wasnt seeing them dailly. That also made it harder to monitor their progress

    In the meantime it was only a mattter of time before I shat myself in the classroom and my immune system was comromised so I was going to get sick again. Everyone I knew within the school system was incredibly supportive but the people at the level of middle management to whom I was only a number wanted me fired.

    All in all retirement was the best option. I retired last week.

    Congrats I Think?

    FS I am sorry you had to retire under these conditions, that sucks.  But I can relate to what you are going through, with the cancer and all the pills I find my self less sympathetic at times, especially to crappy parents who treat their children poorly, I am wanting to lash out at them verbally and I keep getting closer and closer to doing it.  It may be time for me to hang up my pencils soon. 

     

    Mark

  • Footstomper
    Footstomper Member Posts: 1,237 Member
    mrou50 said:

    Congrats I Think?

    FS I am sorry you had to retire under these conditions, that sucks.  But I can relate to what you are going through, with the cancer and all the pills I find my self less sympathetic at times, especially to crappy parents who treat their children poorly, I am wanting to lash out at them verbally and I keep getting closer and closer to doing it.  It may be time for me to hang up my pencils soon. 

     

    Mark

    Mrou50

    I recognize what you say and I'm sure I grew less tolerant towards the end of my tenure. I loved that job, but definately congrats are in order, retiring was the only logical choice for everyone involved

  • Footstomper
    Footstomper Member Posts: 1,237 Member
    mrou50 said:

    Working

    I have been stage IV for a year I take the Votrient religiously and I still work.  I did fill out the FMLA papers as did my ONC, the school district I work for has been patient with me but they said they will always leave termination on the board (of course they would like idiots in the media firing a cancer patient and schools hate bad publicity).  Under the Votrient I have had numerous problems with bowel control, fatigue, chemo brain, and various others issues and I have thought about SSD but I have way to many bills and I would not get much from SSD.  I think this will be my last year of teaching full time, I was told when I contacted SSD I could make about 1000 dollars extra a month working so I figure I will Sub teacher a couple of days a week next year until I just don't feel up to it anymore.  All this being said I admit I have missed a lot of work days because the Votrient was kicking my butt, recently my ONC gave me a sort of  vacation by dropping my dosage down to 400 mgs and that has helped, however he said this week I will probably go back up which means the torture begins again.  I want to teach as long as I can because I love teaching and I have bills to pay but I know there will come a time that it has to end and I plan on getting some of that money from SSD that I have been paying into for so long.

     

    Mark

    As I retired unfit to work as a teacher, I have been warned that I cannot work as a sub as that will indicate I am fit enough to be a teacher

  • MattInVa
    MattInVa Member Posts: 50

    As I retired unfit to work as a teacher, I have been warned that I cannot work as a sub as that will indicate I am fit enough to be a teacher

    SSD

    Some further info on Social Security Disability.

     

    It took about 3 weeks for the approval after application. They date back to my diagnosis date (Aug 26th) but say I have to wait 5 mos prior to drawing my first check.

     

    Matt

  • DennisofAZ
    DennisofAZ Member Posts: 1 Member

    I am 55 years old now, and I have been dealing with my stage 4 cancer since July of 2024.

    My renal cell carcinoma cancer was stage 3 when it presented back in July of 2023. One day at work I saw blood in the urine. After lots of testing they found out I had kidney cancer in my left kidney. I reviewed all my options and I chose surgery to remove that kidney, along with any cancer in the area that they knew of. I then went on chemo and the side effects made work ( driving a city bus ) unsafe due to the fatigue and nausea.

    I was off almost a year and I was allowed back to work as my cancer was ( at that time ) gone according to my latest PET CT. I was only cancer free a few months. My next PET CT showed a couple of my lymph nodes near my heart and spine area was positive for cancer. That made me stage 4 at that time. After looking at my options I chose to do radiation, targeted chemo and immunotherapy ( Keytruda ). I knew I would be unsafe trying to continue to work with the side effects I would be dealing with so I went on medical leave again.

    At this time I put in for SSDI, as it takes 6 months until you actually start receiving it. I also put in for my STD ( short term disability ) so I would have some income until my SSDI would start to pay me. Medicare takes a full 2 years to get once on SSDI, so I am having to pay my medical insurance until that kicks in. My workplace still has me on that medical leave and that saves me a LOT on what I have to pay for my medical insurance. That approved medical leave is reviewed often and can be dropped at any time, putting me on ( expensive ) COBRA coverage once I am terminated.

    I am lucky that I had my home was on a 15 year mortgage, and I sold it so I could move close to family as I deal with my treatments and the side effects. I have the funds needed to pay my rent and all other expenses so I consider myself lucky in that. I am using dividend stock investment to supplement my SSDI income once I start receiving it. I will have close to what I made working only because I had the money in the home once I sole it. If not, I would have to live off SSDI and a modest savings alone.

    Weather you work or not is a pretty personal choice. My job would not be a safe one to keep working with the fatigue and nausea chemo and other treatments can cause. Other jobs may be safe to continue doing with those side effects. The other consideration is the 5 year survivability rate. Mine is 10-15%. That made me pretty set on NOT working and trying to enjoy what time I may have left as best I can. I did not want to work until I died. Those who run their own business may see working very differently as that is something they built and not so much just a "job" for them.

    I was a workaholic and put in countless overtime until this cancer put the "whammy' on me. I was very focused on paying off my home in under 15 years and then saving max amounts for a comfortable retirement some very distant day in the future. Sadly, that was just not in the cards for me now. It was difficult to accept my time was now much shorter than I expected. I accepted this in time, but it still sucks. Once you accept the situation you can then start making the best informed decisions for yourself going forward. Work or no work, sell the home and move close to family so they can help as needed. Deal with hellish side effects or not live as long overall.

    I am all for quality of life vs more years alive. I had some very hellish side effects, so I am going to have less overall time and easier to handle treatment instead of some chemo options that may give me a 'few" more years time. That is as personal a decision as one can make here. As of today I am in fairly decent health. I can drive safely and do basic stuff and I am thankful for that. At some point that will be taken from me, so I enjoy my freedom and pain free mobility while I have it. I had my bed ridden time under the chemo and bad side effects, and others can relate I am sure.

    If you are on this site you are dealing with cancer, and all that come with it. All you can do is make informed decisions based on your point of view and experience. I wish all of us the best in dealing with a most unfortunate situation. Take the help from family and friends if offered. Enjoy what you can, while you can. Fight the good fight and do the best you can as long as you can.

  • klarsen316a
    klarsen316a Member Posts: 18 Member

    Hi, I’m 55 and have stage 4 renal clear carcinoma. I still work as well. I only have 1 kidney because I donated my other to my sister in 2003. I have nodules on my lungs that are small, so they can’t biopsy them without fear of collapsing my lung. I was not given a time frame of life expectancy. I am on Keytruda and Lenvima. My mass was about 4” but it has shrunk down to about 3” now. Diagnosis of my cancer was June 2024. I too have sore feet and some nausea from time to time and of course tiredness. I work from home which is a blessing. I’m going to keep on that plan until I physically can’t any longer. My recent scan was last Friday and they said everything looks stable. So I just take it day by day and hope nothing spreads or grows. I’ve thought about going on SSID, but I don’t feel I’m ready for that yet.

  • KublaKhan
    KublaKhan Member Posts: 4 Member

    Diagnosed with metastatic Stage 4 Apr 2022 at 52yr. Have continued to work full-time, minus 2 FMLA leaves for surgeries. Continue on immunotherapy every 4 weeks. Have an office job and supportive company which has made a big difference to keep working as I am the sole income earner and have a college age kid. The SSDI information shared in this thread is very helpful when that point in time comes.

  • kpq1918
    kpq1918 Member Posts: 5 Member

    I was diagnosed with renal cancer in 2008 and got my kidney removed. I got checked every year and was cleared in 2013. In August 2024, I was diagnosed with stage 4 renal carcinoma. The main tumor attached itself to my spine and was pushing on the spine and was about to break it. I had surgery to insert rods and screws to stabilize my spine.

    I'm 56, and I was too scared to get my prognosis. Unfortunately, my insurance dropped me and I am left with about $350K in bills. Before this happened, I was working as a freelance software engineer. I have no benefits through work. I need to work since we have alot of bills, in addition to this new one.

    Before I got the cancer I would frequently work 12-14 hours a day, since the work was at home at my desk developing software. I can't do that anymore. I'm trying but I find myself starting to fall asleep after about 6 or 7 hours. I also need to take alot more breaks due to the pain. I'm starting to realize that I will probably never make the amount of money I need to keep up with the lifestyle we had before this.

    I'm trying to keep a positive attitude but it's getting more difficult. I need help, but don't know where to start.