wish I knew

monica302009 Member Posts: 3

I wish I knew about this forum  a year ago. I am 30 years old. My dad died august 29 2014. Prostate cancer.... he was 53. It was always me and him. My mother left when I was 5 and died 6 years ago... my dad got diagnosed in june 2013. By the time we found it the cancer had already spread to all bones from knees up.... he went from doing everything to doing nothing in a matter of 8 months. I put my family business and life on hold to move in with him so he could stay at home on hospice. When the cancer got to his brain it was so hard. It wasn't my dad. He would say mean things to me. I miss him daily. Can't believe he's gone. I hate cancer....  I am married but my husband don't get it. He's never had a loss.... would like people to chat with... maybe give advice too.....


  • soul-mate
    soul-mate Member Posts: 82

    Feel free to come in to chatroom as eveyone has been there in one way or other. It's like a family and no conditions attached,everyone helps each other. It's busiest at 9:30 pm central time most nights but open 24/7 . Hope to see you there in the near future .Take Care


  • cheatinlil
    cheatinlil Member Posts: 197
    I'm so sorry for your


    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I'm scared.  My husband has Stage 4 kidney cancer and has been in bed since June 26th.  I don't have any words for you except that you are not alone :(