The vigil goes on HAS ENDED AT 2 AM TODAY

jim and i
jim and i Member Posts: 1,788 Member
edited April 2014 in Head and Neck Cancer #1

12:50 am and the vigil goes on. All the children are here safely. Jim has went through a lot of changes in breathing, temperature and heart rate. I slept well last night know he had good care. I didn't hear the nurse come in three times, Jim's Nurse and Cna last night were angels. So gentle and loving when handling him. I wish they could have been here tonight. Finally got everyone settled elsewhere. granddaughter asleep in recliner I am going to try and get some sleep on the cot. Thanks for your continued prayers.

Debbie

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  • TheOtherDitto
    TheOtherDitto Member Posts: 58
    #2
    Grateful the family got in safely

    and it sounds like Jim is resting peacefully.  It appears that he's coming to the end of his earthly journey so my prayer for you and your family is that everyone has gotten the chance to tell him what a wonderful husband, father and grandfather he is to them and how much you all love him.  I pray that you feel God's presence around you and know that he has all of you wrapped in his arms offering comfort and peace as he gently holds Jim in the palm of his hands, waiting to take him to his heavenly home. 

    Whispered a prayer for all of you again as I type this.  Know that I will be praying for you all throughout the next days ahead. 

    Thoughts and prayers are with you and God Bless.

    Doug and Diane Ditto

     

     

  • Guzzle
    Guzzle Member Posts: 710
    #3
    TheOtherDitto said:

    Grateful the family got in safely

    and it sounds like Jim is resting peacefully.  It appears that he's coming to the end of his earthly journey so my prayer for you and your family is that everyone has gotten the chance to tell him what a wonderful husband, father and grandfather he is to them and how much you all love him.  I pray that you feel God's presence around you and know that he has all of you wrapped in his arms offering comfort and peace as he gently holds Jim in the palm of his hands, waiting to take him to his heavenly home. 

    Whispered a prayer for all of you again as I type this.  Know that I will be praying for you all throughout the next days ahead. 

    Thoughts and prayers are with you and God Bless.

    Doug and Diane Ditto

     

     

    thoughts

    You are the in my thoughts and prayers. G.

  • pattyanny
    pattyanny Member Posts: 544
    #4
    My prayers are with you and

    My prayers are with you and your family. Comforted to hear that you were able to get some much needed sleep, and that Jim is surrounded by his loving family, and getting good care. Praying that the Lord will comfort and give you strength as you all go throught this journey. 

    Love & Continued Prayers Debbie

    Patty

  • katenorwood
    katenorwood Member Posts: 1,912
    #5
    continued prayers

    Debbie,

    My thoughts of comfort and my prayers of peace continue for Jim.  Having you and the family surrounding him is such a gift.  Bless you all.  Hugs sent !  Katie

  • Sunshine60
    Sunshine60 Member Posts: 81
    #6
    Prayers!

    You have been in my prayers every morning.  I'm happy family has arrived both for you and Jim.  May God comfort you in these days ahead.

    Shelley

  • debbiejeanne
    debbiejeanne Member Posts: 3,102 Member
    #7
    praying for comfort and peace

    praying for comfort and peace for all.

    God bless you,

    dj

  • KareGiver
    KareGiver Member Posts: 301 Member
    #8
    debbiejeanne said:

    praying for comfort and peace

    praying for comfort and peace for all.

    God bless you,

    dj

    Sending

    Prayers and peace for Jim, you and his whole family.

    Lynda

     

  • Grandmax4
    Grandmax4 Member Posts: 723
    #9

    so many memories have surfaced...watching my husbands grandma struggle and finally take her last breath was hard. I truly believe she knew we were all there with her, we sang to her, read poems , and played music softly. You and your adored Jim are in my prayers, and the family that loves you are there to lend support and love. Bless you Debbie, you're a wonderful wife

     

  • jim and i
    jim and i Member Posts: 1,788 Member
    #10
    Shortly after the original

    Shortly after the original post Jim's breathing started to change and he breathed his last breath soon after. I believe his spirit left before the last breath because I felt the most awful pain in my heart. Even though I thought it would be a relief, it was devestating when the nurse said, "He's gone."  I say, "Gone from my sight, but still in my heart."

    Debbie

  • KTeacher
    KTeacher Member Posts: 1,103 Member
    #11
    jim and i said:

    Shortly after the original

    Shortly after the original post Jim's breathing started to change and he breathed his last breath soon after. I believe his spirit left before the last breath because I felt the most awful pain in my heart. Even though I thought it would be a relief, it was devestating when the nurse said, "He's gone."  I say, "Gone from my sight, but still in my heart."

    Debbie

    So sorry

    So sorry for what you both had to go through.  I am glad that family is there with you.

  • Grandmax4
    Grandmax4 Member Posts: 723
    #12
    jim and i said:

    Shortly after the original

    Shortly after the original post Jim's breathing started to change and he breathed his last breath soon after. I believe his spirit left before the last breath because I felt the most awful pain in my heart. Even though I thought it would be a relief, it was devestating when the nurse said, "He's gone."  I say, "Gone from my sight, but still in my heart."

    Debbie

    I'm so sorry

    for your loss, Jim is finally at rest and peace. He'll be fishing the lovely waters of heaven and waiting on his Debbie.

     

  • CivilMatt
    CivilMatt Member Posts: 4,724 Member
    #13
    prayers

    Debbie & family,

    My deepest condolences on Jim’s passing.  I have appreciated this time spent with both of you and will always treasure the happy times we shared.

    Peace and love,

    Matt

  • sin9775
    sin9775 Member Posts: 199 Member
    #14
    jim and i said:

    Shortly after the original

    Shortly after the original post Jim's breathing started to change and he breathed his last breath soon after. I believe his spirit left before the last breath because I felt the most awful pain in my heart. Even though I thought it would be a relief, it was devestating when the nurse said, "He's gone."  I say, "Gone from my sight, but still in my heart."

    Debbie

    In God's Care Now

    Oh Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss.  Of course you are devastated by the loss of your true love.  Jim was so fortunate to have you near him, loving him to the very end.  We should all be so blessed.  My you find some measure of peace knowing Jim is once again whole and free of pain.  God bless you, Debbie.

    ~Shawn~

  • Ladylacy
    Ladylacy Member Posts: 773 Member
    #15
    You and Jim

    Debbie, I am so sorry to hear about Jim.  Just know that he is at peace now and free of pain. 

    Wishing you and your family peace and comfort.

    Sharon

  • GavinP
    GavinP Member Posts: 118
    #16
    CivilMatt said:

    prayers

    Debbie & family,

    My deepest condolences on Jim’s passing.  I have appreciated this time spent with both of you and will always treasure the happy times we shared.

    Peace and love,

    Matt

    So sorry...

    So sorry for your loss.

    Words really aren't enough at these times, so I'll just say you are and will be in my thoughts.

    Gav

     

  • HAWVET
    HAWVET Member Posts: 318
    #17
    Ladylacy said:

    You and Jim

    Debbie, I am so sorry to hear about Jim.  Just know that he is at peace now and free of pain. 

    Wishing you and your family peace and comfort.

    Sharon

    Debbie, my deepest

    Debbie, my deepest condolences.  Unfortunately in these critical times, the best alternative is to be with our lord.  May he rest in peace.  God Bless.

  • lornal
    lornal Member Posts: 428
    #18
    Peace

    May the Lord give you and your family Peace.

  • KB56
    KB56 Member Posts: 318 Member
    #19
    Jim

    Debbie, my thoughts are with you and your family.  

     

    keith

  • wolfen
    wolfen Member Posts: 1,324 Member
    #20
    lornal said:

    Peace

    May the Lord give you and your family Peace.

    Debbie

    I'm so very sorry. Jim is not gone. He has simply reached a new destination where there is no more strife and pain for him.

    I'm glad his children were able to arrive safely and be with both of you.

    Keeping you in my prayers.

    Luv,

    Wolfen

  • denistd
    denistd Member Posts: 597
    #21
    KB56 said:

    Jim

    Debbie, my thoughts are with you and your family.  

     

    keith

    God Bless

    God Bless Debbie

     

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