It's my vacation from cancer.

Alexandra
Alexandra Member Posts: 1,308
edited October 2013 in Ovarian Cancer #1

After only 9 months NED my very first ovarian cancer recurrence was confirmed in September. I have no symptoms yet, I don't want any more chemo and PARP trial doesn't start until end November or December; I may or may not qualify depending on the results of pelvic biopsy that has not yet been scheduled. It is getting cold in Canada. Cold and depressing.

I decided that it is the perfect timing to have some fun in the sun. It usually takes me 15 minutes between the idea and its implementation. This morning I booked 1 week all-inclusive resort in Jamaica. By myself. My husband doesn't know yet. He thought that cancer will keep me chained to the radiator. Not bloody likely. Then I got some highlights and a haircut, mani, pedi. Tomorrow I will be getting a semi-permanent henna tattoo over the hysterectomy / tummy-tuck scars. On Saturday after 4 hr flight and 2 hr bus ride I will be swimming in the Caribbean, eating jerk chicken, drinking "Dirty Banana" and "Sex-on-the-Beach" and sampling other fine things Jamaica has to offer. I am not gonna talk, read, write or think about cancer for 7 days.

Ladies, y'all stay healthy! I am coming back Nov. 3rd, hopefully with even tan and some wet, wild and wicked stories. Cool

Much luv,

Alexandra

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  • kikz
    kikz Member Posts: 1,345 Member
    #2
    Oh Alexandra!

    I am so happy and thrilled for you.   That sounds like a blast.  I am also in awe.  I have wanted to spend a few days in Half Moon Bay on my own for the last couple of years and can't find the courage.  I hope you have the best time.  You may have to carry a stick to beat 'em off since you got so prettied up.

    Have the best time ever.  I'll be thinking of you.

    Bon voyage

    Karen 

  • forme
    forme Member Posts: 1,161 Member
    #3
    Fun

    Hi Alexandra,

     

    You go girl! Have a blast, you deserve it, we all do..

    I just returned from Key West, oh so warm, I only wish it were more relaxing.

    Enjoy yourself to the max. The warm weather is so wonderful and the fun times are just waiting for you.

    I only hope that Jamaica is ready....

    I'll be thinking of you and wishing that I could be there too. I love the warm ocean and a great beach. Have a cocktail for me. Cheers!

    Lisha

  • Alexandra
    Alexandra Member Posts: 1,308
    #4
    kikz said:

    Oh Alexandra!

    I am so happy and thrilled for you.   That sounds like a blast.  I am also in awe.  I have wanted to spend a few days in Half Moon Bay on my own for the last couple of years and can't find the courage.  I hope you have the best time.  You may have to carry a stick to beat 'em off since you got so prettied up.

    Have the best time ever.  I'll be thinking of you.

    Bon voyage

    Karen 

    Karen, come with!

    If you can get the flight to Montego Bay for Oct. 26. I booked the room and it's double occupancy. I rarely snore.

    I can guarantee that you will enjoy it. I have been on many vacations (and business trips) alone, and it's OK but it's always better with a buddy.

  • Alexandra
    Alexandra Member Posts: 1,308
    #5
    forme said:

    Fun

    Hi Alexandra,

     

    You go girl! Have a blast, you deserve it, we all do..

    I just returned from Key West, oh so warm, I only wish it were more relaxing.

    Enjoy yourself to the max. The warm weather is so wonderful and the fun times are just waiting for you.

    I only hope that Jamaica is ready....

    I'll be thinking of you and wishing that I could be there too. I love the warm ocean and a great beach. Have a cocktail for me. Cheers!

    Lisha

    Thanks Lisha!

    Lets all go and paint Jamaica red teal!

  • scatsm
    scatsm Member Posts: 296 Member
    #6
    Have a wonderful time, Alexandra!

    I am so jealous! Enjoy the warm weather and the solitude (although what are the chances that you will not make friends?). I'll miss your posts but look forward to hearing all about it. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!

    Susan

  • NoTimeForCancer
    NoTimeForCancer Member Posts: 3,486 Member
    #7
    Even the smile in your picture seems happier!

    ENJOY!!!!!  LIVE!!!! and we will all be hear for the story!  So happy for you not letting anything stop you.

  • wholfmeister
    wholfmeister Member Posts: 315
    #8
    You are my hero!

    And I bet there are no "tan lines" when you return....because....!!!!

    You are our wild dreams come to life!

    Enjoy! Relax! Live!

  • mopar
    mopar Member Posts: 1,972 Member
    #9
    YOU GO, GIRL!

    Have a super time, Alexandra!  I envy you being in the warmth and sunshine, just as I read we may be getting snow to tomorrow!  Send us a 'postcard'!  Have a safe and SUPER trip!

    Monika

    :)

  • JulieBelle
    JulieBelle Member Posts: 61
    #10
    Sounds wonderful Alexandra!!

    What an exciting thing to do on the spur of the moment! Can imagine you in the sunny Carribean soaking it all up.  Love the sound of the temp tattoo!

    Enjoy - enjoy - enjoy! 

     

    Julie x

  • kikz
    kikz Member Posts: 1,345 Member
    #11
    Alexandra said:

    Karen, come with!

    If you can get the flight to Montego Bay for Oct. 26. I booked the room and it's double occupancy. I rarely snore.

    I can guarantee that you will enjoy it. I have been on many vacations (and business trips) alone, and it's OK but it's always better with a buddy.

    Thanks

    for the gracious invite but I am an old stick in the mud who is also afraid to fly.  Its been over 33 years since my last flight and I always say I would only fly to get to my son if he needed me.

    You'd think after cancer i'd have grown a pair and I have in many respects.  

    Have a great time and I'll live vicariously through your adventures. 

    Karen

  • zinaida
    zinaida Member Posts: 221
    #12
    Vacation !!!

    Oh! Alexsandra! It is very good idea! I wish you will have a lot good time! You are just pretty girl on this new photo, plus mani, padi and tatto. O, my God! Take stick with you for sure.Laughingas Karen told! Love you, Zina.

  • childofthestars
    childofthestars Member Posts: 251 Member
    #13
    Go Alex

    Yo Alexandra you have a FAB time and if you can't be good (no chance!!!) be careful loooool!!!! 

    Enjoy Enjoy Enjoy :))))))) 

    i am loving your new pic & also wishing you a very Happppppe Birthday for tomorrow.

    Big hugs

    Michelle xxx 

    PS: did u fix your comp yet??? 

    PPS: I love Sex on The Beach :) 

  • childofthestars
    childofthestars Member Posts: 251 Member
    #14
    Birthday

    Alexandra

    Is it your birthday tomoro ???

    if not Happeeeeeeee Day anyway!!! 

    Xxxxx 

  • Cafewoman53
    Cafewoman53 Member Posts: 735 Member
    #15
    Have a great time !

    What a great idea! We should all take a break from cancer even if it is just twenty minutes with a book or a movie. Soak up that sun !

    Colleen

  • poopergirl14052
    poopergirl14052 Member Posts: 1,183 Member
    #16
    Cafewoman53 said:

    Have a great time !

    What a great idea! We should all take a break from cancer even if it is just twenty minutes with a book or a movie. Soak up that sun !

    Colleen

    Fun in the sun

    you go and enjoy your me time..you can even go to a nude beach! Have a great time..take pics..drink..shop..indulge...safe travels...Val 

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,688 Member
    #17
    poopergirl14052 said:

    Fun in the sun

    you go and enjoy your me time..you can even go to a nude beach! Have a great time..take pics..drink..shop..indulge...safe travels...Val 

    Have a grand time

    Can't wait to see the tattoo.  I love henna.  Always wanted to get my hands done

  • Kaleena
    Kaleena Member Posts: 2,088 Member
    #18
    Enjoy your trip.    Looking

    Enjoy your trip.    Looking forward to hearing about your many great adventures.  I enjoy reading many of your posts. 

     

    Have be a relaxing time.

     

    Kathy

  • wholfmeister
    wholfmeister Member Posts: 315
    #19
    Happy Birthday, dear friend!

    Your new photo is gorgeous!

  • Pamela B
    Pamela B Member Posts: 108
    #20
    Happy Birthday!

    Love your sexy new photo!  Have a wonderful trip and drink a few for all of us who love you.  This board will miss you even if it is just a week without your great posts. Can't wait to hear all about your new adventures when you return.  Safe and fun travels!

  • Alexandra
    Alexandra Member Posts: 1,308
    #21
    Thank you very much everybody!

    Thank you for the birthday wishes. I am 46 today. Mentally - about 12.

    The real picture would violate a couple of CSN policies, so I cropped it. It was taken during my chemo days last year and the hair is a curly brown wig.

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