My Ian

belindahill · September 2013

My bravest strongest man Ian passed away on the 27th August to this terrible disease, he was taken from me far too young, I hometown him when I was 17 and he was 18, we met 38 years ago today. I have had the best of life with him and he loved me very very much, we had 2 lovely daughters and 3 grandchilren. I'm so so angry, I miss him so much, why us???? He tried for 3 years to fight and gave his very best every day, the chemo made him so poorly, he never complained or moaned once, he worked all the way through, only gave up 5 weeks before he died. Ian if you can hear me pet I love you with all my heart, and never ever wanted to be without you life is so cruel .

lp1964 · September 2013

Dear Friend,

What can one say in a situation like this, but to say we are sorry for your loss. We ask ourselves questions that cannot be answered . Why we, why now, why so soon? This pain only can be eased by time and we have to go through the process. Can't rush it.

Just like the way he did, work through the pain and the tough times, celebrate the wonderful things and memories you and your family had and build the future without him on that.

I wish you and your kids the strength to work through this and to be able to honor his life by all of you living a wonderful, healthy life.

Laz

jasminsaba · September 2013

Sorry ...

words don't suffice ... but I want you to know that I am very sorry for your loss and pray for your strength during this very difficult time. You were blessed to have had each other and he will continue to live in your heart.

LivinginNH · September 2013

My heart just breaks for you,

My heart just breaks for you, I'm so very sorry...

My condolences,

Cynthia

Trubrit · September 2013

So very sorry

Such a tragic loss for you and your family. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

geotina · September 2013

Belindahill:

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your Ian. I also lost my husband after a 3 1/2 year battle. It is so very difficult.

With deepest sympathy - Tina

Lovekitties · September 2013

Sicere condolances

I am so very sorry to hear that you have lost your loving hubby.

May you and all who loved him find some ease of the loss by remembering the wonderful man he was and the good times together.

Marie who loves kitties

Chelsea71 · September 2013

I am so sorry. I, too, lost

I am so sorry. I, too, lost my husband one month ago. If you ever want to chat please send me a pm. I bet he was a really great guy.

My condolences,

Chelsea

LivinginNH · September 2013

Please feel free to send me a

Please feel free to send me a PM if you want to talk.

Cathleen Mary · September 2013

Chelsea71 said:
I am so sorry. I, too, lost
I am so sorry. I, too, lost my husband one month ago. If you ever want to chat please send me a pm. I bet he was a really great guy.

My condolences,

Chelsea

I am so sorry to hear of

I am so sorry to hear of Ian's death. My heart aches for you and your family. Your every post showed your love for him both as his wife and caregiver. I pray that your emptiness will be eased by peace and knowing what an amazing love you had. Nothing can take that from you.

Hugs,

Cathleen Mary

maglets · September 2013

Cathleen Mary said:

I am so sorry to hear of

I am so sorry to hear of Ian's death. My heart aches for you and your family. Your every post showed your love for him both as his wife and caregiver. I pray that your emptiness will be eased by peace and knowing what an amazing love you had. Nothing can take that from you.

Hugs,

Cathleen Mary

so so sorry

oh I am so so very sorry to hear this news. Your love does indeed shine through and always did...your incredible fight together against this ghastly disease.....

I send you deepest love.....and pray for strength for you and your family

mags