Hope for those about to face surgery

As I looked at the calendar today, I noticed that it was two months ago today that I had the MIE in Pittsburgh. My diet is back to normal pretty much but just less. I still have some problems with sugar and dairy but as long as I watch my intake of those two, it's fine. One nice side effect of the surgery is I seem to have developed a disdain for soda pop. A treat that I too often indulged in. I've tried it a couple of times but it really doesn't do much for me.

I have lost a good bit of weight but it seems to be slowing down so I'm eating enough to maintain. For the most part, I am fairly pain free. Don't get me wrong, I have some bad days but all in all, it's good.

Unfortunately, some cancer was found in three of my nodes that were removed so I'm preparing to start my fifth week of chemo. I have found post-op chemo to be considerably rougher but I understand that isn't the rule. Some breeze through it and shoot, many don't even need it.

Two weeks ago, I bought an RV and my wife and I took it out for it's maiden voyage. Had a blast. That was something we had talked about for years. Today is much more important to me than it ever was before. I did tend to put things off some but no more.

It's a tough road but one of the things that always keeps me going is I feel a responsibility to honor and fight for all of the stage IVs that would welcome the chance for a cure.

I hope this shows, there is life after surgery. It's not always going to be easy but we are collectively a tough group. Often not by choice but out of necessity. Even in the dark days, make them a little brighter for someone around you. Give your caregiver a little hug and a kiss just because you appreciate them. Remember, they have it pretty tough also.