Lost my boyfriend to liver cancer last week

wordtrix
wordtrix Member Posts: 1
edited March 2014 in Liver Cancer #1
My boyfriend was diagnosed with liver cancer in Oct. and only lived two months. I don't know how I'm going to go on without him.

Terri

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  • offutt9
    offutt9 Member Posts: 88 Member
    #2
    I am very sorry for your loss. I just lost my brother to esophegeal cancer. I too have cancer. Its primary liver cancer. Just look to the Lord for strenth and guidance. He will never let you down. Its hard losing someone you love, but you just have to cry, scream, and shout and then you pull yourself together and go on with your life. That is what your boyfriend would have wanted. But most importantly, pray to God for he will see you thru. In Gods Love... Barbara
  • ezekea
    ezekea Member Posts: 121
    #3
    I have lost my wife to Liver cancer at 46
    It took her in 7 weeks it is a deadly form of cancer and have been told that it is called the silent killer and I beleave that.
    You must hold on and you will get by I have for 5 years with the help of the chat rooms and the great friends that I have made in there with there help I will continue to be here.
    You look at life as I cant go on now but in time but you will learn to live with your loss and improve with it as I know your boyfriend would want you to.
    Turn your hurt and anger in to help and Love and understanding for others to help them in there travels threw there time with us.
    Please look at my web site as there is a few things to read that might help.
    And you can contact me threw here on CSN mail our just Jump into the chat rooms yes you might cry a bit but slowly it will turn to a smile then a grin and then you will feel your life start to grow again I,m sure.
    God has Blessed you with your boyfriend and Him with you enjoy the time and memeiours you have they will never die and take what you have learned and turn it to help others as I think it would make your boyfriend happy as he watch,s you go threw life waiting for the day you rejoin him and all that have passed on before you.

    God Has Blessed You
  • joanneire
    joanneire Member Posts: 75 Member
    #4
    Dear Terri

    So sorry to hear that. My boyfriend had colon cancer that spread to his liver but is currently in remission.

    I'll be thinking of you.

    Take care,

    Jo
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  • aykt36
    aykt36 Member Posts: 28
    #6
    thanks
    thanks



  • irishrover
    irishrover Member Posts: 3
    #7
    Colon and Liver cancer!!
    Really sorry to hear that Terri. I do hope this site can help you.

    Just Joined site! I had colon cancer as a primary and Liver cancer as a secondary. Its 2 years now since the start of my treatment, Im still a live and got through 2 scans my next is a year after treatment I am nervous!!! Life is very uncertain but I do my best and pray as I am Catholic, even went to Lourdes with my Mum in August that was so inspiring!!

    Take care

    Rich
  • nanonano88
    nanonano88 Member Posts: 4
    #8
    Terri...
    I feel your pain as
    Terri...
    I feel your pain as my husband passed away in January of liver cancer. He was diagnosed in July and passed 6 months later. It is very difficult to deal with a death especially of someone you love with all your heart. The one thing that gets me out of bed each morning is the fact that I told my husband before he passed that I would go on living for the sake of our kids. Our children are all grown and most of them are married. I'm not saying it is easy to go on but we really haven't got a choice. Family is a good support so if you have any family members you are close to lean on them. It helps to talk to someone going through the same pain that you are. Your feeling the same emotions. I will keep you in my prayers.
  • Pennymac02
    Pennymac02 Member Posts: 332 Member
    #9
    Me too
    My husband was diagnosed with HCC in July and died on January 14th. Liver cancer is horrible. My sympathies.
    Penny
  • EylemTaylan
    EylemTaylan Member Posts: 13
    #10
    Pennymac02 said:

    Me too
    My husband was diagnosed with HCC in July and died on January 14th. Liver cancer is horrible. My sympathies.
    Penny

    Did he get any treatment?
    My husband is also liver cancer and on Nexavar treatment.

    Did your husband get any treatment? If so which one?

    How was his progression after starting treatment?

    Thank you
  • base44
    base44 Member Posts: 5
    #11
    joanneire said:

    Dear Terri

    So sorry to hear that. My boyfriend had colon cancer that spread to his liver but is currently in remission.

    I'll be thinking of you.

    Take care,

    Jo

    Liver Cancer
    It would be helpful to know from those that have had success in treating the liver cancer what the treatment is/was.

    Thanks and God Bless
  • poochie823
    poochie823 Member Posts: 1
    #12
    EylemTaylan said:

    Did he get any treatment?
    My husband is also liver cancer and on Nexavar treatment.

    Did your husband get any treatment? If so which one?

    How was his progression after starting treatment?

    Thank you

    Nexavar
    So sorry for both you and your husband. My husband was on Nexavar, but had to come off because his Platelets dropped dangerously low..other than that he tolerated it pretty well. How is your husband doing now? I wish you all the best.
  • BRinger3583
    BRinger3583 Member Posts: 5
    #13
    poochie823 said:

    Nexavar
    So sorry for both you and your husband. My husband was on Nexavar, but had to come off because his Platelets dropped dangerously low..other than that he tolerated it pretty well. How is your husband doing now? I wish you all the best.

    I am sorry for you loss
    I am sorry for you loss Terri, Penny and nanonano88. Liver cancer is a horrible thing.

    My dad was diagnosed with Stage 4 Liver Cancer in April 2011 and passed August 12, 2011 at the age of 57. His cancer had spread to his bones badly and he had a tumor on his shoulder the size of your fist. He tried Nexavar for a total of 62 days (I kept a Journal of EVERYTHING) and it did not help him at all. Dad actually only had about 1 or 2 good weeks out of his 4 month battle. He was extremely weak and unable to move around. He never once complained or asked why. He was my hero and an extremely strong man. He will always be in my heart and my #1 buddy.

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