Goodbye mama...(my tribute to her)

KathiM
KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
My mom was not just my mom, but a friend as well. She listened as I struggled with different things in my life, always being my support. And then, when I met my beau, she opened her arms and heart to him and his family. She certainly had her down periods, but she always sprang back from each with great optimism and a willing soul.
I remember when my dad died, she said “I have two choices. Either I die inside, or I go on living my life, keeping your father’s memory with me.” And live it she did! Years later, with her new love, John, she drove the many roads of Southern California in their big Cadillac (she could barely see over the steering wheel!). They frequently ended up on back roads and even fire roads, where the only other vehicles were 4-wheel drive!!!!! She also flew to Holland with her granddaughter and climbed the steep stairs in the Ann Frank House at age 79..when others much younger refused to climb.
My mom was never larger than life to me, but walked beside me. I will miss our daily chats, I will miss her “I love you, too, darling” response to my “I love you, mom”. But, I believe she continues to live on within each and every one of us who were lucky enough to have known her. I feel she has not gone, but just moved from in front of our eyes, into our hearts, where she will live on forever.
I will close with the prayer she said every night, taught by her dad:
Now I lay me down to sleep,
I pray the Lord my soul to keep,
If I should die before I wake,
I pray the Lord my soul to take,
And please, keep everyone safe, so they can smile.

Hugs to my cyber sisters! Kathi

Comments

  • Boppy_of_6
    Boppy_of_6 Member Posts: 1,138
    Wonderful Mom
    It sounds like your Mom was a wonderful lady. I know you will miss her terribly and I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and family. God Bless
    (((hugs)))) Janice
  • RE
    RE Member Posts: 4,591 Member
    ~Sweet memories~
    Kathi your Mama sounds like a wonderful soul. I took spoke to my Mom daily and she too was my best friend. I am glad you had such a wonderful supportive Mom to help you in your walk here, she now resides in Heaven and I am quite sure will guide gently from there.

    Much Love,

    RE
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    An absolutely lovely tribute, Kathi...
    Sending special cyberhugs for you.

    Kind regards, Susan
  • tgf
    tgf Member Posts: 950 Member

    An absolutely lovely tribute, Kathi...
    Sending special cyberhugs for you.

    Kind regards, Susan

    Hugs
    Kathi ... I'm sure you can feel our arms around you now ...

    We all know how strong you are ... but even the strongest of the strong need supportive hugs ... and we're here for you.

    love,

    teena
  • CypressCynthia
    CypressCynthia Member Posts: 4,014 Member
    Your mom sounds as if she
    Your mom sounds as if she was a very special lady. I know you will miss her. What a nice tribute!
  • laughs_a_lot
    laughs_a_lot Member Posts: 1,368 Member
    Your mamma
    Your mom is preparing a special spot for you in heaven while you wait to join her someday in the far far far future.
  • sbmly53
    sbmly53 Member Posts: 1,522
    Kathi,
    I am so very sorry for your loss.

    Sue
  • BioAdoptMom
    BioAdoptMom Member Posts: 358
    That was a beautiful tribute
    That was a beautiful tribute to your mom. She sounds like such a special person. You and your family continue to be lifted up in my prayers.

    Nancy
  • Kat11
    Kat11 Member Posts: 1,931 Member
    sbmly53 said:

    Kathi,
    I am so very sorry for your loss.

    Sue

    That was beautiful Kathi. I
    That was beautiful Kathi. I hope you find peace within your own words.
    With love
    Kathy
  • ladyg
    ladyg Member Posts: 1,577
    Kathi
    Your Mom sounds like a very special person. And your words of tribute to her are beautiful.
    I am sending you thoughts for peace in your heart.

    Hugs,
    Georgia
  • skipper54
    skipper54 Member Posts: 936 Member
    beuatiful tribute
    That was a beautiful tribute. Mom's are special.

    Sending hugs & prayers.
  • yv1214
    yv1214 Member Posts: 72
    skipper54 said:

    beuatiful tribute
    That was a beautiful tribute. Mom's are special.

    Sending hugs & prayers.

    Beautiful
    I am truly sorry for your loss. Your mom sounds like she was an amazing lady and I am glad that you and she were close. Not everyone can say that, and that is truly a shame.

    As I read your words it resonated with me. My mom has been living with me for the past two years so I know when she passes I will have this huge void in my life.

    hugs,
    Yessy
  • Gabe N Abby Mom
    Gabe N Abby Mom Member Posts: 2,413
    My thoughts and prayers are
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    Hugs,

    linda
  • VickiSam
    VickiSam Member Posts: 9,079 Member
    RE said:

    ~Sweet memories~
    Kathi your Mama sounds like a wonderful soul. I took spoke to my Mom daily and she too was my best friend. I am glad you had such a wonderful supportive Mom to help you in your walk here, she now resides in Heaven and I am quite sure will guide gently from there.

    Much Love,

    RE

    Having the pleasure of spending time with you ... a week
    before your Mom's passing .. I know first hand the love you shared with Mom. Beautiful tribute, dear one.



    Vicki Sam
  • creampuff91344
    creampuff91344 Member Posts: 988

    My thoughts and prayers are
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    Hugs,

    linda

    So Sorry For Your Loss
    Kathi, the tribute to your Mother was wonderful, and full of things that you could share with us all. Losing your parents is about the hardest thing in the world, with the exception of losing a child. You and I both have experienced both, and believe me when I say that time may not heal all wounds, but will give you time to reflect on all of the good times you had with all. Hugs to you, Judy