Scared, confused, and stressed...
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Unfortunately, the chemo
Unfortunately, the chemo does this, but it can also put her into neds which is what we are hoping for. Other than pain in my hips and ribs, I was not ill when I was diagnosed, but with chemo, I am exhausted and nauseated most of the time. But I am hoping when I have my new pet scan that the radiation and chemo has at least slowed the growth.
I don't have mets in my liver, but I have it in almost every bone and skin, and a nodule in my lung. Sometimes it is hard to tell if the pain is from tumors or treatment, but at least I know that with the chemo, I have a chance of being around longer, which is my goal!
As far as a cure, I was told that is a long stretch, so I revamped my thinking to: I will live with stage iv, grade 3 cancer and treat it as a chronic illness, rather than a terminal one.
Good luck to you and your mom. As long as she is thinking cure, she is fighting!
~Carol0 -
Sounds OKcamul said:Unfortunately, the chemo
Unfortunately, the chemo does this, but it can also put her into neds which is what we are hoping for. Other than pain in my hips and ribs, I was not ill when I was diagnosed, but with chemo, I am exhausted and nauseated most of the time. But I am hoping when I have my new pet scan that the radiation and chemo has at least slowed the growth.
I don't have mets in my liver, but I have it in almost every bone and skin, and a nodule in my lung. Sometimes it is hard to tell if the pain is from tumors or treatment, but at least I know that with the chemo, I have a chance of being around longer, which is my goal!
As far as a cure, I was told that is a long stretch, so I revamped my thinking to: I will live with stage iv, grade 3 cancer and treat it as a chronic illness, rather than a terminal one.
Good luck to you and your mom. As long as she is thinking cure, she is fighting!
~Carol
Being told her blood work is better should leave both of you with some relief.How long?? No one knows.I guess they will keep going with her treatment and things might improve more.
I know a person with Stage 4 lung cancer.Spread to the bone also.She is doing fine after a year.I know its not a long time but she is young and a fighter. I think she has a good chance if she keeps her treatment going like it is.
Lynn Smith0 -
Talk to her Dr about
Talk to her Dr about different/more nausea meds. There are many fantastic ones available today.
I am a firm believer in the power of positive thought - and it sounds like your Mom is a very positive woman so that is a big step. Is that going to "cure" her - no - at this time there is no real "cure" for cancer. Will it help her get through what she needs to - you betcha! Sometimes I think that it is easier for older gals (I'm 64) to handle what we have to with our battles with the Monster - we have a wealth of life experiences to fall back on to sustain us that youth don't.
Your Mother (you too) will be in my prayers!
Susan0 -
I cannot offer advice
I cannot offer advice because I have no experience with this situation, but I am offering you and your mom, along with the rest of your family, my prayers. We are here for you!
Nancy0 -
Always Have Hope
that chemo will work. But I will be TOTALLY honest with you...when cancer goes to the liver it is a very low % that can beat it. Having said that, there is no reason that your mother can't be one of those lucky people that beat it!
I'd also consider looking into TheraSphere radiation therapy. It's very new and only available at certain cancer centers around the country. It's showing very good results for people with primary liver cancer as well as liver mets. If you google TheraSpheres you will find their main website.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mother.
Oh, one other thing...your mom should NOT be suffering from pain and nausea. There are too many good medications that help with those issues. You should tell your doctor and have them prescribe something that will stop them. You should consider seeing a pain specialist if your doctor can't make her feel better.
Blessings,
Sally0 -
I didn't have chemo, but, IBioAdoptMom said:I cannot offer advice
I cannot offer advice because I have no experience with this situation, but I am offering you and your mom, along with the rest of your family, my prayers. We are here for you!
Nancy
I didn't have chemo, but, I want to offer you positive thoughts, strength and prayers.
Sue0 -
With good reason if you ask me
It must be so hard to see your mom suffer like that. But please don't stop
believing. What you are doing is something amazing and it takes a very special
and strong person to support your mom and care for her the way you do. Try
to focus on what you can control, make your mom as comfortable as you can,
maybe new meds for pain and nausea. And please don't neglect yourself. This
is a big emotional burden for you.
Lotsa Love,
Ayse0
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