Stage IV Survivors

lightchaser777 said:

3.5 years and still going
Hello

Thanks for posting. I was diagnosed September 2007. They took out the tumor in my colon, did a resection but I have liver and rt. lung mets. I made a decision from the beginning, this isn't going to be the thing to bring me down. It's a rollercoaster ride. I have had some really bad days, physically (i.e. not being able to eat, fatigue) and emotionally (ie. depressed, crying, frightened). I have really good days and those just plain old normal days.

People tell me I have a really good attitude. Its not just about being positive, its about accepting what is and taking things a day at a time. The cancer is here and I have a choice of how I am going to deal with it. Sometimes when I get a "vacation" from the chemo, I forget I have it. As some other posters mentioned on here, I too stopped reading statistics. The first one I read was saying an 8% survival rate for Stage 4. It threw me into a tailspin. I found out later that was an old statistic. I don't saturate myself with too many "facts" about my cancer otherwise, it leaves me "staring" at it too much. I try to lead a normal life. I continue to work full time and when I am able, get out with friends and do things I love. I bought a kayak a year ago and recently, a small pickup to haul it. I discovered the spa and massages. Is that the best!!

Nobody knows what their expiration date is, cancer or not. If it hadn't been for you posting your question, I would not have read further down to others responses that gave me even MORE hope. Angels show up when you need them. Thank you.

Keep the faith and many blessings to you and your husband on your journey.