Stress Out .. Anxious -- waiting for my appointment, tomorrow, 2/14
Comments
-
[[[[vicki]]]]
I wish I had words to make you feel better but I don't.
I think with the loss of so many recently it exacerbates our fears and our anxiety. I'm glad the guidelines have alleviated your fears somewhat.
Prayers for peace and a good report!
Keep us posted!
Don't forget your tagline ... strength and courage TO YOU, dear VickiSam!
xo 0 -
championEil4186 said:Vicki, Most docs don't do
Vicki, Most docs don't do MRIs as follow-up. I agree with you though, it seems that would be automatic. I am almost 5 years out and just graduated from 6mos visits to yearly. However, I still get yearly MRIs because my breast tissue is still very dense. The downside of this is I have had 3 biopsies in the last year or so because areas keep showing up. My last biopsy was august and I have to have another MRI next month to check the area.
Each time these areas turn out to be benign, but I have to go through a lot of stress and worry waiting for results. I guess it is good to be proactive though so if something bad develops we can get it right away. My onc says that I am low risk, its my radiologist doc that found my breast cancer that insists on the MRIs. But with dense tissue, things don't show up as well on Mamm or ultrasound. Talk with your doc, maybe he will agree to al least yearly scans. Try not to worry, it will all work out.
You are not only a survivor, but a real champion! No one should ever have to face three different cancers. It proves how strong you are and you'll get through this stressful time too. With your history, it does seem as though they'd want to keep a close watch. If for nothing more than peace of mind, I hope you get your MRI. Let us know. Best wishes.
Marsha0 -
Vicki Sam
I will think of you, and you can think of me. My PET scan it tomorrow.
So we're in this together but I have to say, I am very calm. I expect only
good things. If I am wrong, then I will deal with it then. I feel like I got
a bonus, some added years to my life and I'll be damned if I waste my
time over this (:
So I'll be holding your hand, let's walk in there with our heads high and
confidence in our hearts. We gonna be ok sister!!
Love
Ayse0 -
Somehow, appointments on
Somehow, appointments on Mondays are the hardest for me. It has something to do with waiting through the weekend. I'll send some good thoughts for peace, and that everything goes well with the doc visit tomorrow.
Hugs,
Linda0 -
Push, push, push for the MRIlizzie17 said:keep your spirit
and one thing to consider is your health insurance.....I was told by my oncologist that my coverage does not include "surveillance" maintenance....which I think is totally wrong.
Hugs to you and I hope he/she orders the MRI for you.
My surgeon also said--no follow-up testing necessary. But, Hey--I'm Stage 3C--are you kidding me?!! I can't be sure everything is okay--especially since I have incredibly dense breast tissue and my cancer was NOT seen on mammo. So, I got the MRI, mammo and ultrasound in December. The report stated--an area seen which is "probably not cancer but due to post-op changes" so repeat in 6 months recommended. I'm cool with that--I'll have it redone in May and if the changes are the same--then in my mind, I'm okay.
I love my surgeon, but I'm sorry--they just don't get it--we need reassurance--we need to feel okay.
Good luck-VickiSam--you are not wrong for wanting as much testing as you can get. I'm pulling for you, girlfriend.
Hugs, Renee0 -
With your very unique
With your very unique history of thyroid, cervical and breast cancers, I don't blame you at all for being overzealous. I am first and foremost a believer of trust your gut--if you believe you need an MRI, keep pushing--and don't forget to stress that you have had 3 separate cancers not just breast. My prayers are with you my friend. And I'll be there with you holding your hand and supplying lattes.
Don't forget to join me on Tuesday as that is when I see my oncologist and I will be freaking out then ;-)0 -
vickie Sam good luckGabe N Abby Mom said:Somehow, appointments on
Somehow, appointments on Mondays are the hardest for me. It has something to do with waiting through the weekend. I'll send some good thoughts for peace, and that everything goes well with the doc visit tomorrow.
Hugs,
Linda
vickie Sam good luck tomorrow. Honestly I have gone to my visits religiously over the years and seem to find my own cancer's anyway. I just dont like the reminder of being there! I dont get scans and never did unless sympotomatic. or for staging. I have mostly had bone scans for persistent pain that have been negative. I prefer
chen's Ostrich therapy as far as tests go. dont want them. but prob because I go out of my mind with the anxiety. I do trust my onc, he does advocate for me, and has insisted on furthur bipsies etc.. over the years. I also firmly believe in the MRI/mammo combo. The cancer I had was not found on mammo, not palpable until it was large. (lobular) and would have been found on MRI. I wonder if its because lobular is less common, but its not uncommon when it happens to you is it? I was just told it was not standard. anyway we will be with you Vs as you hae always stood by us. Hugs!!!!0 -
Cypress Cynthia .. aka C.C. and Ayse ..CypressCynthia said:With your very unique
With your very unique history of thyroid, cervical and breast cancers, I don't blame you at all for being overzealous. I am first and foremost a believer of trust your gut--if you believe you need an MRI, keep pushing--and don't forget to stress that you have had 3 separate cancers not just breast. My prayers are with you my friend. And I'll be there with you holding your hand and supplying lattes.
Don't forget to join me on Tuesday as that is when I see my oncologist and I will be freaking out then ;-)
I will be keeping both of you TWO, in good thoughts and prayers. I will be holding your hands, and offering comfort -- as this is a very anxious period for the 3 of us.
Monday .. Ayse and Vicki (my appointment is 9:45), and on Tuesday - Miss C.C.
Hoping we are smiling and at ease, by Wednesday.
Good thoughts, good health .. and prayers for us all.
Strength and Courage,
Vicki Sam0 -
OK, I can't find anythingDouble Whammy said:Check out NCCN Guidelines
Vicki-
I don't get MRIs either. I was Stage 1, Gr 2, ER/PR+, HER2-. I kept seeing women on this board having CTs and MRIs and tumor markers so it worried me why I wasn't having them. I feel better after following the very comprehensive flow chart in the NCCN Guidelines.
http://www.nccn.org/index.asp You have to register, but don't need to be a physician to view the guidelines.
Doesn't mean you still shouldn't ask your oncologist, but it might make you feel better.
Suzanne
OK, I can't find anything about tumor markers in those guidelines??? I went to breast cancer, invasive. Is that info somewhere else in the site? I must be looking in the wrong place...lol. Thanks for the link though as I found the flow charts very helpful.
I did find info about markers on ASCO's site:
Recommendations for the Use of Tumor Markers in Breast Cancer
I had a recurrence after a long remission (22 years). My oncologist drew markers just to see if they had changed from years ago and they were, for the first time since initial diagnosis, very elevated. A rib biopsy confirmed that the recurrence was the same ER+ breast cancer that I had had so many years before. I am grateful that my onc thought outside of the box and drew my markers as they were helpful in my weird case.
As far as Vicki Sam and her having an MRI, there will probably be nothing on any site specific to someone who has a history of 3 separate cancers. I think, in her case, extra-vigilance is appropriate, but I can't pretend to know for sure as babies are my specialty ;-)0 -
As you have heard, many of
As you have heard, many of us have not had post treatment MRIs or PetScans. I am THREE years out this month (and have my oncology appointment on Wednesday) and I haven't had either. I did have a bone scan two years ago because of back and shoulder pain. This came up negative. I know when I was first out of treatment I felt very strongly that I wanted more monitoring. I feel less so now. Not to say that the anxiety completely away...it rears its ugly head for me especially ferocious right around appointment times. So remember to breathe...ahhhhhhh.....and best wishes for an uneventful checkup! xoxoxoxoLynn0 -
I'll be with all of you!VickiSam said:Cypress Cynthia .. aka C.C. and Ayse ..
I will be keeping both of you TWO, in good thoughts and prayers. I will be holding your hands, and offering comfort -- as this is a very anxious period for the 3 of us.
Monday .. Ayse and Vicki (my appointment is 9:45), and on Tuesday - Miss C.C.
Hoping we are smiling and at ease, by Wednesday.
Good thoughts, good health .. and prayers for us all.
Strength and Courage,
Vicki Sam
I will be with all of you this week! I will have my hubby drop me off at each location, so, I can get in and hold your hand and calm you somewhat. So, if you hear someone yelling..hang on I am coming. It would be me!
And later, we will all celebrate good news for each and every one of you! I won't accept anything else!
Sue
0 -
Wishing you good lucksea60 said:I'm praying for you Vicki
that all will be GOOD news!
Hugs,
Sylvia
Vicki,
Wishing you a good luck tomorrow. Sending positive thoughts to your way.
Hugs,
New Flower0 -
Supportive Hugs Coming Your Way!
Hi Vicki, it seems the norm is not to do an MRI/CT/PET scan unless there seems to be a problem. Way back when my mom first had cancer (1974)they routinely did a bone scan and a ct scan yearly. In 1998 it was pretty much the same thing, you had treatment followed by a scan then a yearly scan there after that has since changed. When my cancer returned in 2007 my doctor explained that scans are only given if we the patient have a valid concern that would warrant a scan. He explained to me that too many scans were being done and nothing was being found because the patient had no current issues. As the patient I feel like I always have issues but alas they do not warrant a scan. I sincerely hope you have a good review with your oncologist and that you get the all clear. You will be in my thoughts and prayers!
♥ RE ♥0 -
Thank You all so very much! My Sisters in PinkRE said:Supportive Hugs Coming Your Way!
Hi Vicki, it seems the norm is not to do an MRI/CT/PET scan unless there seems to be a problem. Way back when my mom first had cancer (1974)they routinely did a bone scan and a ct scan yearly. In 1998 it was pretty much the same thing, you had treatment followed by a scan then a yearly scan there after that has since changed. When my cancer returned in 2007 my doctor explained that scans are only given if we the patient have a valid concern that would warrant a scan. He explained to me that too many scans were being done and nothing was being found because the patient had no current issues. As the patient I feel like I always have issues but alas they do not warrant a scan. I sincerely hope you have a good review with your oncologist and that you get the all clear. You will be in my thoughts and prayers!
♥ RE ♥
your offering of positive thoughts and prayers -- means so very much! They worked, as I slept for the first time in 3 nights.
Thank you all so much ..
I will post again when I return.
Vicki Sam0 -
vicki sam:
Sorr you are anxious! I am odd duck out for some reason..( I Really think I should ask therapist why) I do not get anxious at all...not having tests, biopsies or mammo etc...from reading I AM THE unusual one.
I just had urgent appt for bleeding (post menopause)for biopsies-when dr called 5 days later I kind of forgot I was waiting for results.
MAYBE I do need my head examined...
I HOPE YOU get an MRI or whatever you want...I"LL be thinking of you...
Denise W0 -
Hang in there VickiSam
I'm pulling for you sister!! I'm with you on the MRI/Scans, it gives a sense of comfort knowing the tests are thorough versus just a blood panel. Blood panels do tell a lot so if it comes back suspicious they will probably order a scan. My tumor markers are worthless, they were normal with both my cancer occurrences so I don't rely on those, my onc goes right for the scan. Whatever it takes to give you peace of mind, I would request it and you have the right idea, if you don't get it, get a new doc. Keep us posted
Mountains of LOVE,
~Kari0
Discussion Boards
- All Discussion Boards
- 6 CSN Information
- 6 Welcome to CSN
- 122K Cancer specific
- 2.8K Anal Cancer
- 446 Bladder Cancer
- 309 Bone Cancers
- 1.6K Brain Cancer
- 28.5K Breast Cancer
- 398 Childhood Cancers
- 27.9K Colorectal Cancer
- 4.6K Esophageal Cancer
- 1.2K Gynecological Cancers (other than ovarian and uterine)
- 13K Head and Neck Cancer
- 6.4K Kidney Cancer
- 673 Leukemia
- 794 Liver Cancer
- 4.1K Lung Cancer
- 5.1K Lymphoma (Hodgkin and Non-Hodgkin)
- 238 Multiple Myeloma
- 7.2K Ovarian Cancer
- 63 Pancreatic Cancer
- 487 Peritoneal Cancer
- 5.5K Prostate Cancer
- 1.2K Rare and Other Cancers
- 542 Sarcoma
- 736 Skin Cancer
- 655 Stomach Cancer
- 192 Testicular Cancer
- 1.5K Thyroid Cancer
- 5.9K Uterine/Endometrial Cancer
- 6.3K Lifestyle Discussion Boards