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Brother Passed Today

Annabelle41415
Annabelle41415 CSN Member Posts: 6,744 Member
in Colorectal Cancer #1

It is with a saddned heart that I'm letting you know that my brother passed today.  Yesterday my older brother called very early morning and said the doctor had said to call the family in.  Being out of town we were planning on today, but glad we made it in yesterday.  His daughter just drove in from Texas but they said she had time but she felt the need to be there so she came in anyway.  Yesterday all his kids were there, my dad, myself, his wife.  I'm so fortunate that my heart said go instead of waiting just a measly 24 hours.  This morning hospice said he wasn't responding to touch, but they did ask him two very simple questions.  One "do you see your mom" and he answered yes (or nodded yes) to the second question, "do you see Jesus" and he answered yes.  For those that believe - this is profound.  For those that don't - you shouldn't fear dying as he seemed so peaceful, I was told, by answering, so just hold on to whatever belief you have.  My heart is aching, but my love for all of you continues as you struggle in this terrible disease.  My brother found out at Thanksgiving and didn't have much time until now.  I'm glad for all of you - my extended family.  Please keep us all in prayer, good vibes and thoughts through this terrible ordeal.  You all are in my prayers daily.

Hugs!  Kim

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  • Trubrit
    Trubrit CSN Member Posts: 5,808 Member
    #2
    Dearest Kim

    My heart aches for you. I am so sorry to hear this. So very sorry. 

    Your faith is such an example. I am happy to hear that your brother was at peace as he passed.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and all who know and love your brother. 

    God bless!

    Sue - Trubrit

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  • herdizziness
    herdizziness CSN Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    #3
    Oh Kim

    I am so sorry for the loss of your brother, I know it hurts.  I'm glad though he is in a more peaceful place, and in your heart.

    I'm sending love and hugs.

    Winter Marie

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  • Easyflip
    Easyflip CSN Member Posts: 588 Member
    #4
    So sorry kim

    peace to you, your brother and your family. 

    Easyflip/Richard

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  • NewHere
    NewHere CSN Member Posts: 1,433 Member
    #5
    Dear Kim

    I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts, prayers and vibes are with you and your family

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  • jen2012
    jen2012 CSN Member Posts: 1,607 Member
    #6
    I'm sorry for your loss Kim.

    I'm sorry for your loss Kim.  Prayers for you and your family.

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  • LivinginNH
    LivinginNH CSN Member Posts: 1,456 Member
    #7
    Kim,
    Please accept my sincere

    Kim,

    Please accept my sincere sympathy on the loss of your dear brother.  I'm so very sorry to hear this news.

    My condolences,

    Cynthia

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  • LindaK.
    LindaK. CSN Member Posts: 506 Member
    #8
    Sincere sympathy

    Kim, I am so sad to read this news.  I think God has a way of sending us all messages and I believe some of those messages were sent to your brother's loved ones to gather in his final hours.  I'm glad you were there.  It helps

    Linda

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  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties CSN Member Posts: 3,364 Member
    #9
    Prayers for you all

    I am so very sorry to hear of your brother's passing.

    I am glad that he was surrounded by those who loved him and that his final moments were peaceful.

    May the prayers of many find their way to you and your family at this difficult time.

    Hugs,

    Marie who loves kitties

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  • TheLadySkye
    TheLadySkye CSN Member Posts: 203 Member
    #10
    I am so very sorry, sugar

    I am so very sorry, sugar :(

    You and your family are very much in my thoughts and prayers.

    *tight hugs*

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  • janderson1964
    janderson1964 CSN Member Posts: 2,215 Member
    #11
    I am so sorry Kim. I t

    I am so sorry Kim. I t happened way too quick from the time he was diagnosed. I am glad you all got to see him before he left this world. And thank you so much for sharing his answer about see Jesus. I am having my own struggles right now and that little peice of information you shared with me means the world to me. I will hold his answer close to my heart.

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  • lilacbrroller
    lilacbrroller CSN Member Posts: 412 Member
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    janderson1964 said:

    I am so sorry Kim. I t

    I am so sorry Kim. I t happened way too quick from the time he was diagnosed. I am glad you all got to see him before he left this world. And thank you so much for sharing his answer about see Jesus. I am having my own struggles right now and that little peice of information you shared with me means the world to me. I will hold his answer close to my heart.

    My condolences

    I am very sorry about the loss of your brother. My sincerest condolences.

     

    Karin

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  • Cathleen Mary
    Cathleen Mary CSN Member Posts: 827 Member
    #13
    lilacbrroller said:

    My condolences

    I am very sorry about the loss of your brother. My sincerest condolences.

     

    Karin

    Dear Kim,
    I am so very sorry.

    Dear Kim,

    I am so very sorry. My heart aches for you and your family....so glad you listened to your heart and went earlier than you planned.

    At the moment, I am at a monastery on retreat and will pray that you catch a glimpse of your brother's resurrection joy. My heart is sad with you.

    hugs,

    CM

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  • ron50
    ron50 CSN Member Posts: 1,723 Member
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    Hugs Kim

      As a group we see way too much death and I am sorry that it has struck so close to you, all my best wishes, Ron.

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  • dorookie
    dorookie CSN Member Posts: 1,731 Member
    #15
    I am so Sorry

    for your loss, you and your family are in my prayers!!

     

    HUGS
    BETH

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  • lp1964
    lp1964 CSN Member Posts: 1,239 Member
    #16
    Dear Kim,

    My sincere condolences to you and your family. So many things happened around so I wish you the strength to handle it all.  

    Laz

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  • Luv2lunch
    Luv2lunch CSN Member Posts: 270
    #17
    Sorry

    We are so sorry for your loss Kim. You and your family are in our prayers.

    Please take care.

    Linda and Mom

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  • UncleBuddy
    UncleBuddy CSN Member Posts: 1,019 Member
    #18
    sad news

    I am sorry to hear this news! My condolences to you and your family.

    Lin

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  • skeets1961
    skeets1961 CSN Member Posts: 56
    #19
    Kim, i send my heartfelt

    Kim, i send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family.  I'm sorry to hear of your brother' passing and i will pray for comfort and peace that only God can provide.  ((hugs))

     

    Edie

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  • hippiechicks
    hippiechicks CSN Member Posts: 509 Member
    #20
    Please accept my sincere

    Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your brother.  Although he did not have much time as you said from DX, this may be a blessing for him, and to be at such devine peace and comfort at the end is all we can ever hope for. 

    I will be keeping you in prayers for comfort through this time for you Kim. 

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  • Helen321
    Helen321 CSN Member Posts: 1,470 Member
    #21
    Aww Kim, I am truly sorry.  I

    Aww Kim, I am truly sorry.  I am so glad you all made it to see him and wish you all strength in your grief. Love, Helen

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