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I have Stage II Breast Cancer. I had a lumpectomy on 5-4-2012 with 4 lumps. The biggest lump was 3 cm was large enough to be seen below my collarbone. Glad it is gone! I will have my chemo port surgery 5-30-2012. My chemo will start June 8, 2012. Please help me somebody? I do not sleep well due to menopause & worrying about chemo. Please somebody make me laugh to keep from crying? Do I classifiy as a survivor or does that come once I have experienced my first chemo session? lol. Looking forward to meeting new friends. I am also on whatnext.com as StaceyPMD. I feel I will probably get more support through cancer survivors network with discussion board and chatrooms. Talk to you soon.
Have a Blessed Day & Remember to Laugh as Much as you can Daily,
StaceyPMD1121
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wecome
As you can tell by my handle I also like to laugh. I did a paper in college on how laughter releives stress. Once I got cancer I also learned that we have these things called tellomeres on our genes. Telomeres protect us from getting cancer. Stress shortens tellomeres. So get all the humor you can. You are already a cancer survivor.
Now for a funny story. Me and my ex-husband have the same exact birthday. We were born the same month, year, and day. He is older by six hours. Durring the divorce I gave him custody of both birthdays. I got custody of the kids. He ages twice every time the birthday comes around. I don't age. Even though the kids raised Cain as teenagers I still think I got the better end of the deal.0 -
Hello, sorry to meet her but
Hello, sorry to meet her but glad you found this site...
I never had chemo but do not ever sleep through the night (up 2,3,4 times a night)
I am not sure from Tamoxifen, post menopause or just age 52 yrs old
thinking of you..
Denise0 -
Stacey,
You are a survivor
Stacey,
You are a survivor for sure ... sorry you had to join this club but support and humor you will find here! Laugh often, keep active with other activities and cry if you need to! Peace and prayers from Alaska .... it stays light til midnite here now so I dont sleep much either ... but love to go out bike riding at 11 pm some days keep us posted and welcome to the group! ... Sue D.0 -
Hi
Great attitude, glad you are here, except for the reason you are here. Positive attitude is a great thing and you seem to have that. Chemo was not as bad I thought it would be. Its like OMG what happens as the chemicals are piped into you, but it was no big deal. Its when you get home the effect kicks in. Any questions please ask, lots of advice available on this site. Rest, rest, rest. When hunger has gone nibble on very fruity candy to keep the taste buds alive and yoguart for an easy meal when you really dont want anything, porridge, that kind of thing. Set yourself up with head ware whatever you choose ie scarves, hats or a wig. Whilst chemo going on dont shave or risk any cuts or pick up any bugs etc If you have pets dont touch anything poopy (sorry) infection is a no, no at this time of treatment. Fatigue is normal and rest when your body aches for it. Nail problems are normal and mouth ulcers. Your oncologist will advise. Take care and good luck.0 -
Nice to meet you but sorry you are here.
Hello and I love your attitude! I had a bad time with chemo but most women I met handled chemo really well. Some didn't even feel sick. Most worked through chemo and continued their daily routines. I even met a couple women who did not loose their hair. Its different for everyone and there are many prescriptions available to help with the problems. I wish you the best. Its a rough road but I can tell already that you will tackle this head-on.
karinna0 -
Good Luck with Chemo
Good luck to you with your chemo. As others have said, it is different for everyone. The main thing to know is to take this time to take care of you! Rest when you want to, don't feel guilty for letting the dishes sit or leaving the bed unmade. You are what is important. Sending good thoughts your way!
Sandy0 -
Hate...salls41 said:Good Luck with Chemo
Good luck to you with your chemo. As others have said, it is different for everyone. The main thing to know is to take this time to take care of you! Rest when you want to, don't feel guilty for letting the dishes sit or leaving the bed unmade. You are what is important. Sending good thoughts your way!
Sandy
I hate the reason you're here but glad you found " us"... What type of bc do you have? Do you know what your chemo cocktail is? I am going through this again..but my first go round I had Taxotere/Cytoxin....my hair fell out on exactly day 14....I had already had it buzzed and bought my wig...I only wore it out in public and wore soft caps at home...my scalp was sore when it came out...I used and am using baby shampoo, as I am bald again due to radiation to the brain.....make sure you have a prescription for nausea meds and take it religiously! I did and never had even had the first wave of nausea....i started it the day before and continued after the infusion for 3 days....drink drink drink water...you want to flush the chemo out....your taste buds may disappear for 4-7 days, mine did...just experiment with food....keep well hydrated!
I had my port installed 9 weeks ago....I was nervous about that...fear of the unknown...it was done under conscious sedation...in the radiology department...no big deal, actually...once they brought me out of the sedation I drank a coke and ate some crackers and sent me on my way...I was super glued, for both incisions, which is great, no sutures! As freaked out as I was about it, it's great when I have my chemo every 2 weeks...they gave me a prescription for a cream that numbs...I glop it on 1-2 hours before the infusion cover it with Press and Seal...I feel nothing when they access it...it's a real blessing! No arm sticks!
Please keep posting...there's a wealth of experience here...remember everyone is different....but you can ask anything here...
Hugs, Nancy0 -
Welcome, StaceyMAJW said:Hate...
I hate the reason you're here but glad you found " us"... What type of bc do you have? Do you know what your chemo cocktail is? I am going through this again..but my first go round I had Taxotere/Cytoxin....my hair fell out on exactly day 14....I had already had it buzzed and bought my wig...I only wore it out in public and wore soft caps at home...my scalp was sore when it came out...I used and am using baby shampoo, as I am bald again due to radiation to the brain.....make sure you have a prescription for nausea meds and take it religiously! I did and never had even had the first wave of nausea....i started it the day before and continued after the infusion for 3 days....drink drink drink water...you want to flush the chemo out....your taste buds may disappear for 4-7 days, mine did...just experiment with food....keep well hydrated!
I had my port installed 9 weeks ago....I was nervous about that...fear of the unknown...it was done under conscious sedation...in the radiology department...no big deal, actually...once they brought me out of the sedation I drank a coke and ate some crackers and sent me on my way...I was super glued, for both incisions, which is great, no sutures! As freaked out as I was about it, it's great when I have my chemo every 2 weeks...they gave me a prescription for a cream that numbs...I glop it on 1-2 hours before the infusion cover it with Press and Seal...I feel nothing when they access it...it's a real blessing! No arm sticks!
Please keep posting...there's a wealth of experience here...remember everyone is different....but you can ask anything here...
Hugs, Nancy
So sorry you have to be here, but this place is my lifeline. Come here for advice, a shoulder to cry on, a place to rant or rave or just a non-judgemental, loving place to talk it out. We, here on this board, understand like no others.
I dreaded the thought of chemo (had six rounds of TAC). I was so scared, I was literally shaking in my shoes. As my husband held my arm, walking me in, I thought, okay--I can do this and I will do it in the bravest way possible.
Now for the funny part--as I walked into the chemo room, several patients were already hooked up to their various chemos. I smiled and said hi and then promptly knocked over an IV pole which clattered to the floor. Thankfully, no one was hooked up to it. Then, I thought, well I better sit down ASAP. I sat in a recliner and the chair broke! By this time I think everyone was thinking--who is this klutz?! Well, we all had a good laugh and I felt that God was messing with me to get me to lighten up. And, you know what, I sailed through that chemo.
My best of luck and most positive energy going out to you, Stacey. Remember--in the words of Winne the Pooh--You're stronger than you seem and braver than you believe.
Hugs, Renee0 -
LOLmissrenee said:Welcome, Stacey
So sorry you have to be here, but this place is my lifeline. Come here for advice, a shoulder to cry on, a place to rant or rave or just a non-judgemental, loving place to talk it out. We, here on this board, understand like no others.
I dreaded the thought of chemo (had six rounds of TAC). I was so scared, I was literally shaking in my shoes. As my husband held my arm, walking me in, I thought, okay--I can do this and I will do it in the bravest way possible.
Now for the funny part--as I walked into the chemo room, several patients were already hooked up to their various chemos. I smiled and said hi and then promptly knocked over an IV pole which clattered to the floor. Thankfully, no one was hooked up to it. Then, I thought, well I better sit down ASAP. I sat in a recliner and the chair broke! By this time I think everyone was thinking--who is this klutz?! Well, we all had a good laugh and I felt that God was messing with me to get me to lighten up. And, you know what, I sailed through that chemo.
My best of luck and most positive energy going out to you, Stacey. Remember--in the words of Winne the Pooh--You're stronger than you seem and braver than you believe.
Hugs, Renee
I can just envision the whole scene. O M G ... this is hilarious. Thanks for the laugh!
In the words of Spock ... Live well and prosper.
xoxo
Mary0 -
Jokes to make you laugh
or roll your eyes
Why shouldn't you write with a broken pencil? Because it's pointless
this one is a little gross, but funny
What does a cannibal do after dumping his girlfriend? Wipes his butt (giggling)
What do you call a guy who never farts in public? A PRIVATE TUTOR (wakka wakka)
OK ... dumb jokes but I hope they put a smile on your face.
xoxo
Mary0 -
New Herelaughs_a_lot said:wecome
As you can tell by my handle I also like to laugh. I did a paper in college on how laughter releives stress. Once I got cancer I also learned that we have these things called tellomeres on our genes. Telomeres protect us from getting cancer. Stress shortens tellomeres. So get all the humor you can. You are already a cancer survivor.
Now for a funny story. Me and my ex-husband have the same exact birthday. We were born the same month, year, and day. He is older by six hours. Durring the divorce I gave him custody of both birthdays. I got custody of the kids. He ages twice every time the birthday comes around. I don't age. Even though the kids raised Cain as teenagers I still think I got the better end of the deal.
Hi Laughs_a_lot,
Thanks for the welcome. That is a funny story about your ex-husband. Enjoy your life to the fullest. Continue to laugh every chance you get.
Have a Great Holiday,
Stacey0 -
New Herelaughs_a_lot said:wecome
As you can tell by my handle I also like to laugh. I did a paper in college on how laughter releives stress. Once I got cancer I also learned that we have these things called tellomeres on our genes. Telomeres protect us from getting cancer. Stress shortens tellomeres. So get all the humor you can. You are already a cancer survivor.
Now for a funny story. Me and my ex-husband have the same exact birthday. We were born the same month, year, and day. He is older by six hours. Durring the divorce I gave him custody of both birthdays. I got custody of the kids. He ages twice every time the birthday comes around. I don't age. Even though the kids raised Cain as teenagers I still think I got the better end of the deal.
Hi Laughs_a_lot,
Thanks for the welcome. That is a funny story about your ex-husband. Enjoy your life to the fullest. Continue to laugh every chance you get.
Have a Great Holiday,
Stacey0 -
New Heredisneyfan2008 said:Hello, sorry to meet her but
Hello, sorry to meet her but glad you found this site...
I never had chemo but do not ever sleep through the night (up 2,3,4 times a night)
I am not sure from Tamoxifen, post menopause or just age 52 yrs old
thinking of you..
Denise
Hi disneyfan2008,
I know what my chemo cocktail is TAC or Taxotere, Adriamycin, and cyclophosphamide. I saw the other day someone suggested a fruit smoothie while they push in Adriamycin (Red Devil). I love smoothies and I going to my first chemo June 8th armed with the largest smoothie I can get at Dunkin Doughnuts. Thanks for the welcome and support.
Have a Great Holiday,
Stacey0 -
New heresdukowitz said:Stacey,
You are a survivor
Stacey,
You are a survivor for sure ... sorry you had to join this club but support and humor you will find here! Laugh often, keep active with other activities and cry if you need to! Peace and prayers from Alaska .... it stays light til midnite here now so I dont sleep much either ... but love to go out bike riding at 11 pm some days keep us posted and welcome to the group! ... Sue D.
Hi sdukowitz,
Thanks for your advice, peace and prayers. Wow, stupid question does anything exciting happen in Alaska? On tv once I saw something about reindeer burgers in Alaska, have you had one? I don't know if I could eat Rudolph, but if he is not stop up with hormones like the rest of the meat I have consumed in the past. I could possibly be tempted.LOL. I never learned how to ride a bike, I know it is scandulous! I had a fear and still do of falling off the darn thing! I have a hobby reading different authors, mystery, romance, religious comedy, fantasy (shape chagers from human to animal)influenced by my co-workers. Love cable tv.
Have a Great Holiday,
Stacey0 -
Hi stacemollyz said:Welcome!
It's nice to meet you Stacey,welcome to the boards. ~~MollyZ~~
This is a wonderful board, i'm will get my third treatment of taxotere, carboplatin and herceptin (TCH) on Wednesday. Had my first treatment without the port and the second with it, its so nice to not have to get poked in the arm. It's ok to cry and get the emotions out but definately find things to make you laugh and people who make you happy0 -
New HereRozHopkins said:Hi
Great attitude, glad you are here, except for the reason you are here. Positive attitude is a great thing and you seem to have that. Chemo was not as bad I thought it would be. Its like OMG what happens as the chemicals are piped into you, but it was no big deal. Its when you get home the effect kicks in. Any questions please ask, lots of advice available on this site. Rest, rest, rest. When hunger has gone nibble on very fruity candy to keep the taste buds alive and yoguart for an easy meal when you really dont want anything, porridge, that kind of thing. Set yourself up with head ware whatever you choose ie scarves, hats or a wig. Whilst chemo going on dont shave or risk any cuts or pick up any bugs etc If you have pets dont touch anything poopy (sorry) infection is a no, no at this time of treatment. Fatigue is normal and rest when your body aches for it. Nail problems are normal and mouth ulcers. Your oncologist will advise. Take care and good luck.
Hi RozHopkins,
Thanks for the support. My chemo drugs are TAC (Taxotere, Adriamycin, and cyclophosphamide). I am scared of the side effects. I will be stocking up on italian water ice & popsicles just in case for mouth sores. I have already lost my appetite from worrying about a month ago. I did buy cereal and Silk milk to force myself to eat breakfast before 12 noon. What do you know about my chemo cocktail? Thanks for the advice.
Have a Great Holiday,
Stacey0 -
New Herekarinna said:Nice to meet you but sorry you are here.
Hello and I love your attitude! I had a bad time with chemo but most women I met handled chemo really well. Some didn't even feel sick. Most worked through chemo and continued their daily routines. I even met a couple women who did not loose their hair. Its different for everyone and there are many prescriptions available to help with the problems. I wish you the best. Its a rough road but I can tell already that you will tackle this head-on.
karinna
Hi Karinna,
Thanks for your support. I am trying not to be a whimp about chemo. I will say my prayers asking for strength and hope for the best. My boyfriend is trying to be supportive and is now asking to go to a chemo session with me. Wow, I thought he did not care I was wrong!
Have a Great Holiday,
Stacey0 -
New Heresalls41 said:Good Luck with Chemo
Good luck to you with your chemo. As others have said, it is different for everyone. The main thing to know is to take this time to take care of you! Rest when you want to, don't feel guilty for letting the dishes sit or leaving the bed unmade. You are what is important. Sending good thoughts your way!
Sandy
Hi salls41,
Thank you for your support. I will try to take your advice. I will do what I can around the apt. when I can. I will also try to encourage the other chemo patients and try to make them laugh. Sending good thoughts your way too!
Have a Great Holiday,
Stacey0 -
New HereMsGebby said:Jokes to make you laugh
or roll your eyes
Why shouldn't you write with a broken pencil? Because it's pointless
this one is a little gross, but funny
What does a cannibal do after dumping his girlfriend? Wipes his butt (giggling)
What do you call a guy who never farts in public? A PRIVATE TUTOR (wakka wakka)
OK ... dumb jokes but I hope they put a smile on your face.
xoxo
Mary
Hi MsGebby,
You are right that did put a smile on my face. Nice to know a kindred spirit in laughter.
Thanks for your support. Please keep the jokes coming cause chemo starts June 8th?
Have a Great Holiday,
Stacey
P.S. I stealing this one from the comediane Monique, Remember to wrap your arms around yourself once a day or as often as you need and hug yourself just because you are and every true woman is a beautiful,unique, and wonderful human being!!!0
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