Okay I know that this is a site to talk about the cancer that we have but I dont know where else to post this. Hubby and I have been married for only 4 years and since we found out about my cancer in Feb, his sex drive towards me has almost disappeared. He prefers pornos. Our relationship is almost non existant altogether. No kisses, hugs, barely any laughter. Everytime I bring it up, he gets extremely upset. Not only do I have to deal with the emotional problems with the cancer, now I have to deal with being unwanted. Has anyone else gone through this?