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Thank you Joe
For sharing your memories and feelings about Moopy's funeral. I'm so glad that you could feel us around you, because we were definitely with you in spirit, and will continue to be.
I know that you are strong, but am glad to hear that you have been able to release your sadness through tears. They can be so healing, and I know that you will have more healing ahead. We are all here to help in any way you can.
Love and Hugs,
Cindy0 -
Thank you...
Thank you for sharing Moopy's service with us, Joe. It sounds like it was beautiful.
Yes, of course you cried. I would be worried if you hadn't. Terribly hard saying good-bye to your life partner and friend.
I HOPE that you will remain here, on the board. You have been through so much, helping Lisa through her two year battle. Both of you were my strength, on many occasions, and I think you have an incredible amount of knowledge and encouragement to give here.
And we will be here for you. If you need a shoulder, if you need propping up, when sadness knocks you down, we are here.
Heartfelt hugs for you...
CR0 -
Bless you, JoeCR1954 said:Thank you...
Thank you for sharing Moopy's service with us, Joe. It sounds like it was beautiful.
Yes, of course you cried. I would be worried if you hadn't. Terribly hard saying good-bye to your life partner and friend.
I HOPE that you will remain here, on the board. You have been through so much, helping Lisa through her two year battle. Both of you were my strength, on many occasions, and I think you have an incredible amount of knowledge and encouragement to give here.
And we will be here for you. If you need a shoulder, if you need propping up, when sadness knocks you down, we are here.
Heartfelt hugs for you...
CR
After reading your post, I shared it with my husband, which lead to an hour and a half discussion about what life would be like for him without me, and vice versa. We both feel the same way. Neither of us will ever truly "leave" the other, and our spirits are bound together for eternity. The mear loss of the human body doesn't lessen the love that you two have for one another, and she is still so much a part of your everyday life, as well as ours. Moopy was a true Kindred Spirit, and always was there for those who needed a nudge, or a kind word to make you feel better. She is with you always, and will never leave your side. I feel her presence with me as well, and will strive to be the kind soul that lived in Lisa. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Just know that you are a part of this Board forever, and we will always be here for you to lean on in times of need. Your kindness has always shown through as well, and we know why Moopy depended so much on her Joe. You are a rock. hugs, Judy0 -
Thank you as well for being there for us!
There is nothing I can do, to make her come back
There are no words I can say, that can replace her words you long to hear
There are no answers I can give that will satisfy your questions,
There is not another soul I can introduce to you,
That will ever replace hers
And there is no love I can offer you
That will ever replace the love you shared
I cannot promise your broken heart
Will ever be complete,
I will not say that it could have been worse
I will not deny that it was a tragedy
I will not lie and tell you she will be back
She never really left
I do promise you she hears you when you speak
I will say she loves you no matter what the distance
I will not deny she is in a better place
And will not lie she is waiting to greet you someday
She is every step you take
She is everything you do
She is the air you breathe
She is every beat of your heart
She is like the wind, you cannot see her ... but you will always feel her
Peace and Love,
Edie0 -
You ARE surrounded by your
You ARE surrounded by your Kindred Spirits. And I know that Moopy wants us to continue to keep an eye on you and shore you up when need be. If there is one lesson most of us want our loved ones to learn from our experience, it is that we want you to go forth, be happy and live every day as it is your last. My prayers are with you. Moopy was such a bright spirit--you must have some amazing memories.0 -
Joe, Thank you for sharing Moopy with us .. she willCypressCynthia said:You ARE surrounded by your
You ARE surrounded by your Kindred Spirits. And I know that Moopy wants us to continue to keep an eye on you and shore you up when need be. If there is one lesson most of us want our loved ones to learn from our experience, it is that we want you to go forth, be happy and live every day as it is your last. My prayers are with you. Moopy was such a bright spirit--you must have some amazing memories.
always and forever hold a very special place in my heart. I am worried about YOU. I hope you have some sort of outlet, therapy - outreach program in your community to help with the down times that will be part of your new life -.
It's hard to explain, we never know why this happen the way they do - deaths, divorce - loss of jobs -- but in time -- we see a rainbow, parting of clouds, and our Lord give us a new purpose, zest for life. This I promise you.
Strength, Courge and Hope.
Vicki Sam0 -
Just wanted to say how sorryVickiSam said:Joe, Thank you for sharing Moopy with us .. she will
always and forever hold a very special place in my heart. I am worried about YOU. I hope you have some sort of outlet, therapy - outreach program in your community to help with the down times that will be part of your new life -.
It's hard to explain, we never know why this happen the way they do - deaths, divorce - loss of jobs -- but in time -- we see a rainbow, parting of clouds, and our Lord give us a new purpose, zest for life. This I promise you.
Strength, Courge and Hope.
Vicki Sam
Just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss...I am not very good at saying the right thing but know that you are in my prayers..I also offered my communion for your Moopy and the rest of the kindred spirits..God Bless...0 -
Thank you for sharing the
Thank you for sharing the lovely service with us. Tears are never something to be ashamed of. In this case,they're just one of many ways that show how special Lisa is. They also demonstrate what an amazing person you are.
I'm not finding the right words to express the rest of what I'm feeling. Please know that you are in my thoughts.
Hugs,
Linda0 -
You have....
a beautiful guardian angel now. She will always be with you and looking after you. You have comforted us all by sharing. Thank you.
Hugs, Sally0 -
So glad to hear from you.sbmly53 said:Oh, Joe
Thank you! We are all here for you.
Big bearhugs,
Sue
Joe,
I have thought about you every day. Grieving is a process and the sadness will come in waves for a long time. You will find that over time more of your thoughts about Moopy will bring a smile to your face rather than bringing you to tears. That's when the healing that has come from allowing yourself to grieve starts to peek through. I know you'll get through this and Moopy's love will always be in your heart. Love never dies and you are surrounded with love!
Roseann0 -
Joe
thanks for being here for us and sharing everything that has happened. Lisa (Moopy) will be remembered with fondness. I still am having a hard time emotionally because it was so sudden. I lost my first husband of 2 years to a car accident. I was 23 years old. It was a sudden tragedy. I have now been married for 36 years to a wonderful man. Keep your loving memories with you always. It's the little things in life that will make you think of her.
{{hugs}} Char0 -
condolences to Joe
The posts from you and Moopy have been special to me, so filled with love and hope. I hope you get through the future with less pain every day, and that you find joy in memories of her and what the future may bring.I don't have the gift of saying the right things, so I'll just say, I am so very sorry for your/our loss.
~~Connie~~0 -
This made me cry
Joe,
Thank you for this very nice (and well written, I might add) update on how you are doing.
I have been a wreck this week and have cried so much I'm surprised I'm not dehydrated. :-)
I cried when I saw the first post about Lisa's death, when I read the one about her funeral, every time I light a candle for Lisa and just any time I think about the two of you.
Take care.
Wolfi0 -
Thank you so much for
Thank you so much for sharing yourself and Moopy with all of us. Your post brought tears to my eyes especially where you said, "I walked out the door of the church into a new life." Very poignant. I can only hope that my husband feels about me the way you so clearly feel about Lisa.0 -
Edie, I love your poem!!cookie97 said:Thank you as well for being there for us!
There is nothing I can do, to make her come back
There are no words I can say, that can replace her words you long to hear
There are no answers I can give that will satisfy your questions,
There is not another soul I can introduce to you,
That will ever replace hers
And there is no love I can offer you
That will ever replace the love you shared
I cannot promise your broken heart
Will ever be complete,
I will not say that it could have been worse
I will not deny that it was a tragedy
I will not lie and tell you she will be back
She never really left
I do promise you she hears you when you speak
I will say she loves you no matter what the distance
I will not deny she is in a better place
And will not lie she is waiting to greet you someday
She is every step you take
She is everything you do
She is the air you breathe
She is every beat of your heart
She is like the wind, you cannot see her ... but you will always feel her
Peace and Love,
Edie
Edie, I love your poem!!0 -
Thanks for sharing
Joe,and for staying with us.0 -
Thank you Joe :-)
for keeping us updated to your well being. You and your family are still in my prayers!!
~Kari0
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