I got a clean Pet Scan and I am happy don't get me wrong. BUT and its a big one. When will all the $hit end???? My husband is like a 5 year old. He can take care of his bodily functions. Thank God, but he can't do the things he could before. Ok so I am officially a ****. My husband has gone thru 3 brain anurisms since 1993. 6 times in the hospital since april, 5 surgeries. I have had cancer. Thru it all I have taken care of him, even when I was so sick and tired I could hardly get out of bed. I have babied him, and waited on him hand and foot. When is it my turn to be babied???? When will I be taken care of??? We have been married 41 years and I have taken care of him all these years, catered to his every need, and when it is my turn, I have to take care of him again. I am so tired of it. 4 years ago we sold our house and moved in with our daughter who wanted to "take care of us". Our names are not on the mortgage. She has been in foreclosure 4 times. We have bailed her out 3 times. Thousands of dolars, not counting the money and time we have put in the house. So now she has missed another payment. We know we will have to write off the 100.000. we have put in this house, and move. Oh how I hate moving. Now with everything else happening I have to pay off charge cards and save to have a down payment on a house and move from Arizona to Indiana (our home town), by myself draging him along. Oh jeeze I bore myself.................. sorry all I just needed to vent.