im tired and have gone crazy, i talk to myself reconstruction tom
Laura
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Good luck with your surgery
Good luck with your surgery tomorrow Laura.
I am so sorry about your family situation. But, you have to come first here, your health and your mental state. Don't let them bring you down.
And, please don't let what your Mother says or your step dad get to you. You know better. This is your ME time!
Sending hugs and positive thoughts,
Debby0 -
Now breathe in...sea60 said:You don't need the negativity
especially right now. Please try and just focus on getting through your surgery and getting better.
Sending you prayers and hugs!
Let us know how your surgery goes Laura.
then out. First listen to sea60, then I have a piece of advice. You are NOT a loser, you are NOT a terrible mom. Can I just tell you...........I have part of my family that is toxic also. Do what you have to do, and don't listen to anyone.
We're here for you, arms wide open. Let us know how you go.0 -
LauraJean 0609 said:Hang in there
Good luck on your reconstruction. Sorry you are having these problems. You have enough on your plate to have to deal with this kind of bullsh**. Sending thoughts & prayers your way.
Laura, no one should be treated the way you have been. I feel so sorry for you. You are fighting so hard for your life that you should be treated with kindness and respect only.
The others are right, you don't need negativity in your life. You need to take care of yourself!
I am praying that your surgery goes well for you today! And, if the room is full, it is because all of your sisters in pink are there with you, as we should be. So, you are never alone Laura, never.
Please let us know how your surgery went and how you are doing when you feel like it. We will all be anxiously waiting to hear.
Sue0 -
Loload .. You have alot going on right now,Ritzy said:Laura
Laura, no one should be treated the way you have been. I feel so sorry for you. You are fighting so hard for your life that you should be treated with kindness and respect only.
The others are right, you don't need negativity in your life. You need to take care of yourself!
I am praying that your surgery goes well for you today! And, if the room is full, it is because all of your sisters in pink are there with you, as we should be. So, you are never alone Laura, never.
Please let us know how your surgery went and how you are doing when you feel like it. We will all be anxiously waiting to hear.
Sue
best of luck with your long awaited surgery. Please try and put everything else on the back burner - that is until you are able to deal with it all - 1 piece at a time.
Strength and Courage :-)
Vicki Sam0 -
Totally agree with Vicki andVickiSam said:Loload .. You have alot going on right now,
best of luck with your long awaited surgery. Please try and put everything else on the back burner - that is until you are able to deal with it all - 1 piece at a time.
Strength and Courage :-)
Vicki Sam
Totally agree with Vicki and everyone else here. Concentrate on your surgery and put everything else on the back burner. And for those who dare call us crazy or demented, I would love to see them walk in our shoes!! Sending you a big hug and positive thoughts...0 -
I can hear how tired you arePinkpower said:Totally agree with Vicki and
Totally agree with Vicki and everyone else here. Concentrate on your surgery and put everything else on the back burner. And for those who dare call us crazy or demented, I would love to see them walk in our shoes!! Sending you a big hug and positive thoughts...
I can hear how tired you are in your post, circle your wagons to get through this. best wishes on your surgery, cut the others loose.0 -
Wow Laura my heart goes out
Wow Laura my heart goes out to ya...I know its hard but just try and concentrate on you and getting thru your surgery. Just chim in anytime you need to vent...we are all here for ya. When your up to it let us know how your doing from surgery!0 -
Sending you
cyber {{hugs}} Laura :-0 Please put yourself first and get through surgery tomorrow at peace with what you have to do. The rest of the unpleasant stuff will still be there to deal with when you can. Right now you need to take priority. And remember that we are all here to support you and give you encouragement. We are your bc sisters!
Char0 -
Laura
OMGosh how I can relate to the family drama! I'm so sorry you have to be in that situation right now! Sounds like they have many "issues" of their own. Easier said than done, but don't allow them to tangle you up in the web. I agree with everyone here that you need to put YOU first & foremost. Ditch the much NOT needed stress and concentrate on you & your healing.
We'll be praying for you and waiting to hear the next chapter.
Sleep well....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
♥ Cat
P.S. I too am a member of the gone crazy & talk to myself club!0 -
Hoping your surgery wentCat64 said:Laura
OMGosh how I can relate to the family drama! I'm so sorry you have to be in that situation right now! Sounds like they have many "issues" of their own. Easier said than done, but don't allow them to tangle you up in the web. I agree with everyone here that you need to put YOU first & foremost. Ditch the much NOT needed stress and concentrate on you & your healing.
We'll be praying for you and waiting to hear the next chapter.
Sleep well....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
♥ Cat
P.S. I too am a member of the gone crazy & talk to myself club!
Hoping your surgery went well Laura. Wishing a fast and speedy recovery to you!
Hugs, Megan0 -
Hoping thatMegan M said:Hoping your surgery went
Hoping your surgery went well Laura. Wishing a fast and speedy recovery to you!
Hugs, Megan
your surgery went well and you have been recovering and relaxing by now.
Please take care of yourself.
Wishing you easy healing,
Hugs0 -
You choose your friends, but
You choose your friends, but your family you are just stuck with. Just smile and nod, then back away from the family. They obviously have their own issues. You need to just take good care of yourself and do what is best for you. Some people just enjoy making others miserable. They can't argue if you just agree with them. Really pisses em off too! he he he..0 -
How are you Laura? Prayingbakerette said:You choose your friends, but
You choose your friends, but your family you are just stuck with. Just smile and nod, then back away from the family. They obviously have their own issues. You need to just take good care of yourself and do what is best for you. Some people just enjoy making others miserable. They can't argue if you just agree with them. Really pisses em off too! he he he..
How are you Laura? Praying all went well for you!0
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