bjmom1~ how are you, Sister??

chenheart
chenheart Member Posts: 5,159 Member
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
So many people have been posting and of course that makes the threads jump and move and sometimes seemingly get lost in a far away page in the blick of an eye!

In all that is going on is this journey called Life, I have been missing our bjmom1! How is your battle going? What is the latest with you? I miss seeing you here with us. Meena, you and I are bonded by the beast right now...and I have not seen you posting lately. Or have I just missed them?

Hugs,
Chen♥

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  • bjmom1
    bjmom1 Member Posts: 152
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    Taking 1 day
    I been ok just in alot of pain with hip and back. I'm waiting on see my spine doctor about the hole in my spine. I think I just been down and out about my recurrence. Because I had such a positive attitude when I was first diagnosis I just can't believe it back. But I start going back to my support group and it making feel little bit better. I guess waiting to see what the doctor is going to do about my treatment is making me a little down. The waiting game just make me nuts oh too late lol. Thanks for checking on me chenheart you made my day.

    Lots of Hugs
    Barb
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159 Member
    #3
    bjmom1 said:

    Taking 1 day
    I been ok just in alot of pain with hip and back. I'm waiting on see my spine doctor about the hole in my spine. I think I just been down and out about my recurrence. Because I had such a positive attitude when I was first diagnosis I just can't believe it back. But I start going back to my support group and it making feel little bit better. I guess waiting to see what the doctor is going to do about my treatment is making me a little down. The waiting game just make me nuts oh too late lol. Thanks for checking on me chenheart you made my day.

    Lots of Hugs
    Barb

    There you are! I definitly
    There you are! I definitly understand being down about the recurrance...it is by no means easy to come to terms with. Especially when there is pain involved~ emotional coupled with physical pain makes it twice as hard some days, I know.

    I am glad you found a support group; being able to surround ourselves with Kindred Spirits makes a big difference! It feels good not to have to explain everything, doesn't it?

    I hope you get some pain relief soon, and a workable treatment plan! We have years of living ahead of us~ let's get this party started! ;-)

    Hugs,
    Chen♥
  • Aortus
    Aortus Member Posts: 967
    #4
    chenheart said:

    There you are! I definitly
    There you are! I definitly understand being down about the recurrance...it is by no means easy to come to terms with. Especially when there is pain involved~ emotional coupled with physical pain makes it twice as hard some days, I know.

    I am glad you found a support group; being able to surround ourselves with Kindred Spirits makes a big difference! It feels good not to have to explain everything, doesn't it?

    I hope you get some pain relief soon, and a workable treatment plan! We have years of living ahead of us~ let's get this party started! ;-)

    Hugs,
    Chen♥

    Excellent idea, Chen!
    I will start out with a couple of snappy numbers on the vuvuzela, accompanied by my backup trio, "The Wolf Pack." Owooooooo!
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159 Member
    #5
    Aortus said:

    Excellent idea, Chen!
    I will start out with a couple of snappy numbers on the vuvuzela, accompanied by my backup trio, "The Wolf Pack." Owooooooo!

    If I had even known about
    If I had even known about VuVuzelas I would have bought stock~ I missed my last opportinity to "get rich" by not knowing Universal Precautions were going to come into play~ I would have bought stock in latex gloves!

    I am liking the Wolf Pack...my bloodhound/shephard can sooo do the howling backup!

    Hugs,
    Chen♥
  • bjmom1
    bjmom1 Member Posts: 152
    #6
    chenheart said:

    There you are! I definitly
    There you are! I definitly understand being down about the recurrance...it is by no means easy to come to terms with. Especially when there is pain involved~ emotional coupled with physical pain makes it twice as hard some days, I know.

    I am glad you found a support group; being able to surround ourselves with Kindred Spirits makes a big difference! It feels good not to have to explain everything, doesn't it?

    I hope you get some pain relief soon, and a workable treatment plan! We have years of living ahead of us~ let's get this party started! ;-)

    Hugs,
    Chen♥

    party
    If I could party I would shake what my moma gave me lol. I would love to get this party started soon once I get this pain under control. We have to fight and get this party jumping girlfriend. To bad I can't drink. lol

    Barb
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159 Member
    #7
    bjmom1 said:

    party
    If I could party I would shake what my moma gave me lol. I would love to get this party started soon once I get this pain under control. We have to fight and get this party jumping girlfriend. To bad I can't drink. lol

    Barb

    Cyber champagne ( or any
    Cyber champagne ( or any other drink of choice) tastes just as good as you can imagine! The odd thing, in my opinion, is that even with liver mets, my oncologist said I can drink "in moderation!" I thought I wasn't hearing him correctly! But even with permission, it seems like a risky/unhealthy thing to do! I did have a glass of the bubbly on my recent wedding, and last Saturday when my sis and her husband took Reggie and me out for a celebratory dinner. But aside from that~ much as I do love my red wine, it seems wrong!

    I am remebering being a teenager, a young girl. Say, 13-16. I was NOT one of those drink-sneaking, smoking girls. But I was a dancer! I used to travel with y dance partner to teen clubs all over Germany, competeing in dance contests. And to this day, I still know that I won 33 contests! So much fun! It was an American Bandstand kind of thing~ 'Clap for couple number 3!"

    Point being, it doesn't take alcohol to make good memories or to have fun! Once that pain of yours is under control, your dance-endorphins will thank you! Until then, IMAGINE dancing and laughing; I am convinced that that too is good for the soul! Cheers!

    Hugs,
    Chen
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    #8
    bjmom1 said:

    Taking 1 day
    I been ok just in alot of pain with hip and back. I'm waiting on see my spine doctor about the hole in my spine. I think I just been down and out about my recurrence. Because I had such a positive attitude when I was first diagnosis I just can't believe it back. But I start going back to my support group and it making feel little bit better. I guess waiting to see what the doctor is going to do about my treatment is making me a little down. The waiting game just make me nuts oh too late lol. Thanks for checking on me chenheart you made my day.

    Lots of Hugs
    Barb

    Hi, Barb!
    Glad to find a post from you today! (Thanks for the "shout out" thread, Chen.) Sincerely hoping you'll get some real pain relief, and very soon. And - importantly - a treatment plan in place. Yes, waiting can be excruciating. Remember, we're here for you...

    Kind regards, Susan

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