My mother, 64 years old, was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer with mets to both lungs and bones in August of 2009. She also has cerebral pausy. Her right femur was very weak so she had surgery to have a rod inserted. She is confined to her bed; unable to walk at all. She has underwent 3 rounds of chemo; the tumors haven't gotten any larger but they haven't gotten any smaller either. The chemo makes her horribly sick and none of the anti-nausea medicine helps. Also, she has constant diareah She had said she wanted to stop the chemo but changed her mind after I began to cry. I don't want to see my mother give up but at the same time I don't want to see her in agony either. I need some advice.