Throughout my journey I have been face with decision after decision as most of you are aware of and very familiar with. One thing that has given me relief is realizing the decisions I am making are about ME and not my children. It has given me strength and relief that I am not making these decisions for any one of my children. For that I am extremely grateful! But now it does involve them. I can't be given a straight answer on the swine flu shot and information I look up is, as usual, not clear. I'm also told that my kids should have the vaccine because they are around me. Me, nor my kids, have ever had any flu shots. If they or me should have them, when and how far apart, and which should come first? GEESH, what a time to be on chemo with this epidemic of the swine flu! I will be starting chemo this week but have recently come to find out that it is 'ok' to have the shot while on chemo, but other info is that I shouldn't have it at all. Anyone have any answers on this??